Yo nan, so is your hubby horny now?

[ceo]

CEO, her eye condition is serious. She needs a caregiver, and someone that does not mind being needed in that way because it will worsen as she ages. She doesn't need someone selfish, or that will resent that she needs to be taken care of a little more than someone else because she can't help that.

Glad you guys talked about it nan.

Why are you telling me this? Sounds like something that should be/should have been told to him. I can't do anything about her condition or his feelings.

 

[ceo]

You are not like a 27 year old kid nan. Do you not take on adult stuff like work and bills? All you need is someone to take you places. Hell, I know parenting is a lot more than just driving kids around.

Lets really put this in perspective, and the one where you are like his daughter is the wrong one. You are not needy in any other way, working under the assumption that needing someone in a marriage is some sort of a bad thing. Its not.

I think it is his medical condition. I didn't read the whole thread but I would definitely walk around in some lace tonight and a silk robe if I were you

yeah, but that's how he feels. Right now at least. There's more to it than that, and to find out what that is and to begin to fix it, that will take a lot more communication and work on both their parts.

The reality of the situation needs to be worked around how he feels (and how she feels) until he accepts again that she will need more help due to her eyesight issue and realizes again how much she does contribute. Sometimes people get busy and caught up in all that they are doing that they lose sight of how much their partner contributes. This can be especially true in a case where their partner has needs that makes them more dependent on their partner's help.

 

[cindylou]

I was just saying that in her defense in case those comments made her feel bad for being a little more dependent on him than a regular relationship. Yeah it might sound like a father daughter thing to most of us because we all are used to not being needed and not needing anyone in those ways. My Mom has the same thing so I sympathize I guess.

 

[shirlene29]

this thread completely jumped the shark

 

[WoodyO]

I have no idea what the fuck that means

 

[gatemoney]

I like yogurt

 

[shirlene29]

I have no idea what the fuck that means

Urban Dictionary: jumped the shark

 

[wootoom]

holy fuck...no one is disrespecting anyone...fuck im really mad right now

 

[sterolizer]

+ the period blood acts like an extra lubricant! It would be wrong to leave a girl high and dry while she's ready for some crazy sex on her period

 

[nangiggles]

I like yogurt

Throat?

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