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Would messing around with ur BF..

Well we are both mature enough, but we have been friends for like 20 years since Kindergarden, Im not sure if I want things to change!
 
LoL, well post that on the thread at least. Thanks for the compliment. I promised flexy I would make one of it actually hard later and post it up, but still haven't gotten around to it.
 
If you really want to make certain nothing changes with your friend, do not sleep with him. Are you interested in anything long term romantically, or just want to stay friends and considering making him a friend with benefits?
 
BodyByFinaplix said:
If you really want to make certain nothing changes with your friend, do not sleep with him. Are you interested in anything long term romantically, or just want to stay friends and considering making him a friend with benefits?
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Well I didnt realize that SHE has been wanting me and she made this known last time I was in town with her, but she made a comment today about when I come back ( end of this month)
 
Ohhhhh.... in that case here is what you should do. Try it out, but you need to video tape it and send me a copy.


Seriously though, yes, it could ruin your friendship, but if both of you are mature enough to handle it you could try it. Just remember, that once you have a sexual relationship with someone, the unexpected can happen, and sometimes emotions develop that one or both of you did not want to happen, and it could permantly change your friendship.
 
BodyByFinaplix said:
Ohhhhh.... in that case here is what you should do. Try it out, but you need to video tape it and send me a copy.

Ok Ill do that :)


Seriously though, yes, it could ruin your friendship, but if both of you are mature enough to handle it you could try it. Just remember, that once you have a sexual relationship with someone, the unexpected can happen, and sometimes emotions develop that one or both of you did not want to happen, and it could permantly change your friendship.
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Yeah I really need to think about this one, it a tough choice.!!
 
So are you just bi-curous, or have you had female partners before? Do not screw your friend, if you are worried about things changing if you are just curious and want to give it a try. YOu could find another girl for that.
 
Yeah I guess you'd say Bi-curous, I've never done it before, well I've kissed another girl before.

But I think your right about my friend, I think I would feel weird with her after that.
But now what do I say to her when it comes up again, because she drops little hints all the time, and Ive told her before, that she was like my sister and I didnt think we should but yet it still continues
 
Just be honest with her, and let her know that you are attracted to her, but you think it would ruin your friendship if you had sex with her, and at this time you just don't want to risk that.


Damn, I can't believe I'm sitting here telling a woman not to have a bisexual relationship, when I get a hard on every time I think about two hot women licking each other. Oh well.
 
i have a few gf's who I am right on the borderline with. I can honestly say that there is so much baggage accompanying it... unless the girl/guy is a total slut and can entertain sexual requests with ABSOLUTELY no feeling...
 
BodyByFinaplix said:
Just be honest with her, and let her know that you are attracted to her, but you think it would ruin your friendship if you had sex with her, and at this time you just don't want to risk that.


Damn, I can't believe I'm sitting here telling a woman not to have a bisexual relationship, when I get a hard on every time I think about two hot women licking each other. Oh well.
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Yeah that thought turns me on to, and i think thats why my head is telling me too, cause who knows when an oppertunity like this will come along again. But in my heart I know I just can't.

What if I let her finger me? :)
 
cg -- the friendship dynamic has already changed if this has been going on for awhile.

Is this the same girl you kissed by any chance?
 
THeMaCHinE said:
cg -- the friendship dynamic has already changed if this has been going on for awhile.

Is this the same girl you kissed by any chance?
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Well last time I was there we went out on a saturday night and she was just all over me, we were both drinking.
so yeah its the same girl I kissed, I thought it was just a drunk thing but she has'nt forgot it at all!
 
*ding-ding* thought so -- like it or not, you're relationship has already changed; now, you're trying to backtrack out of fear that it will progress to a negative state.

If you really want to get honest with yourself, you two have been flirting for awhile, even kissed -- and in the midst of your fears, you still wonder if it would be ok for her to (finger) bang you... The relationship is not what it was when you would just call her to go out for coffee and gossip about clothes or whatever...

I think you want to, but are afraid of the end result. But, if you'll admit the relationship has already changed, I think you'll see this line of thinking through to the end in that going further with your friend won't really change the outcome -- perhaps the degree of reaction, but not the outcome.

If you break this "thing" with her off, I think it'll end up being weird for you, and that weirdness will ultimately lead to distance. If you go the other way, who knows? But either way, it's no longer the friendship that you once had, it's something different...

Am I getting close here?
 
It is not uncommon for girls that are best friends to hook up, well at least kiss. Taking it to another level, is a different story.

It will either create a very akward situation for you, or open up your friendship to "another" level. If you decide to take it to another level, please be sure to videotape it for the good fellows at elite.

Either way, i would just get drunk if i were you.....lol
 
hoosier said:
It is not uncommon for girls that are best friends to hook up, well at least kiss. Taking it to another level, is a different story.

It will either create a very akward situation for you, or open up your friendship to "another" level. If you decide to take it to another level, please be sure to videotape it for the good fellows at elite.

Either way, i would just get drunk if i were you.....lol
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Yeah I will just get drunk, that sounds like a good idea!
 
THeMaCHinE said:
*ding-ding* thought so -- like it or not, you're relationship has already changed; now, you're trying to backtrack out of fear that it will progress to a negative state.

If you really want to get honest with yourself, you two have been flirting for awhile, even kissed -- and in the midst of your fears, you still wonder if it would be ok for her to (finger) bang you... The relationship is not what it was when you would just call her to go out for coffee and gossip about clothes or whatever...

I think you want to, but are afraid of the end result. But, if you'll admit the relationship has already changed, I think you'll see this line of thinking through to the end in that going further with your friend won't really change the outcome -- perhaps the degree of reaction, but not the outcome.

If you break this "thing" with her off, I think it'll end up being weird for you, and that weirdness will ultimately lead to distance. If you go the other way, who knows? But either way, it's no longer the friendship that you once had, it's something different...

Am I getting close here?
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I think you are getting close. We don't live near each other now, but we do talk weekly on the phone, and things don't seem to have changed there. I really just don't want to lose my best friend over pleasure. We have been friends so long and she's the ONLY ones who knows everything about me.
 
cutiegirl said:


I think you are getting close. We don't live near each other now, but we do talk weekly on the phone, and things don't seem to have changed there. I really just don't want to lose my best friend over pleasure. We have been friends so long and she's the ONLY ones who knows everything about me.
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Ultimately, you should follow your gut -- not your head, not your heart.

Listen to the little voice that tells you what is right and wrong -- forget the emotions of the heart, forget the rationalizations that your mind will come up with. You already know what you should do, you already know what your gut is telling you, now listen to it.

Sometimes listening to your gut isn't the easiest thing to do, but if you do it, you will never look down on yourself.

I think, FWIW, at this point that you should just tell your friend that you really don't want to lose her over an experiment and that you should just keep your friendship on a friendship level. This means that you must commit to never, never leading on, teasing/kissing her again...
 
I know this is not what you meant by your question, but for me I mess around with my best friend every day. I am fortunate because my best friend is my wife.

I would not mess around with any female friends (if I weren't married).
 
THeMaCHinE said:


Ultimately, you should follow your gut -- not your head, not your heart.

Listen to the little voice that tells you what is right and wrong -- forget the emotions of the heart, forget the rationalizations that your mind will come up with. You already know what you should do, you already know what your gut is telling you, now listen to it.

Sometimes listening to your gut isn't the easiest thing to do, but if you do it, you will never look down on yourself.

I think, FWIW, at this point that you should just tell your friend that you really don't want to lose her over an experiment and that you should just keep your friendship on a friendship level. This means that you must commit to never, never leading on, teasing/kissing her again...
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I know you are right!
 
sh4dowf4lcon said:
I know this is not what you meant by your question, but for me I mess around with my best friend every day. I am fortunate because my best friend is my wife.

I would not mess around with any female friends (if I weren't married).
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Ah that's sweet, sounds like a lucky lady!
 
This sounds just like my wife and her best friend.
JUST like them. You're not in the mititary are you?

I had her read this and she even thought it sounded like them. She said if she had the chance she would go for it. She would just be sure to discuss it first and if either one of them thought there would be problems they would not go through with it.
 
Well I leave tomorrow for " home" and I am still planning on not going though with it.

I'll let ya all know how it goes next week!

Wish me luck!
 
Well I'm glad to report that nothing happened with me and my best friend, Sorry guys!

We went out and had a great time, she did talk about it a few times during the night, but by the time we got back to her house at 4 am she was so drunk that she just passed out.
 
It's probably a good thing to keep it as a platonic (you can still flirt without acting on it) relationship since you are best friends. I have a few girlfriends that I've messed around with (or still do) and luckily our relationships haven't changed but we're all a lot older than you. I have another friend and all we do is flirt and talk, but we haven't done anything physical and I think we're gonna keep it that way.

If you're bi-curious and want to explore, do it with someone who's relationship isn't as tight as it is with your best friend. This way if things get weird you won't loose someone important.
 
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