Would messing around with ur BF..

[cutiegirl]

Yeah I guess you'd say Bi-curous, I've never done it before, well I've kissed another girl before.

But I think your right about my friend, I think I would feel weird with her after that.
But now what do I say to her when it comes up again, because she drops little hints all the time, and Ive told her before, that she was like my sister and I didnt think we should but yet it still continues

 

[Deleted member 33117]

Just be honest with her, and let her know that you are attracted to her, but you think it would ruin your friendship if you had sex with her, and at this time you just don't want to risk that.


Damn, I can't believe I'm sitting here telling a woman not to have a bisexual relationship, when I get a hard on every time I think about two hot women licking each other. Oh well.

 

[ZKaudio]

i have a few gf's who I am right on the borderline with. I can honestly say that there is so much baggage accompanying it... unless the girl/guy is a total slut and can entertain sexual requests with ABSOLUTELY no feeling...

 

[cutiegirl]

Just be honest with her, and let her know that you are attracted to her, but you think it would ruin your friendship if you had sex with her, and at this time you just don't want to risk that.


Damn, I can't believe I'm sitting here telling a woman not to have a bisexual relationship, when I get a hard on every time I think about two hot women licking each other. Oh well.

Yeah that thought turns me on to, and i think thats why my head is telling me too, cause who knows when an oppertunity like this will come along again. But in my heart I know I just can't.

What if I let her finger me?

 

[THeMaCHinE]

cg -- the friendship dynamic has already changed if this has been going on for awhile.

Is this the same girl you kissed by any chance?

 

[cutiegirl]

cg -- the friendship dynamic has already changed if this has been going on for awhile.

Is this the same girl you kissed by any chance?

Well last time I was there we went out on a saturday night and she was just all over me, we were both drinking.
so yeah its the same girl I kissed, I thought it was just a drunk thing but she has'nt forgot it at all!

 

[THeMaCHinE]

*ding-ding* thought so -- like it or not, you're relationship has already changed; now, you're trying to backtrack out of fear that it will progress to a negative state.

If you really want to get honest with yourself, you two have been flirting for awhile, even kissed -- and in the midst of your fears, you still wonder if it would be ok for her to (finger) bang you... The relationship is not what it was when you would just call her to go out for coffee and gossip about clothes or whatever...

I think you want to, but are afraid of the end result. But, if you'll admit the relationship has already changed, I think you'll see this line of thinking through to the end in that going further with your friend won't really change the outcome -- perhaps the degree of reaction, but not the outcome.

If you break this "thing" with her off, I think it'll end up being weird for you, and that weirdness will ultimately lead to distance. If you go the other way, who knows? But either way, it's no longer the friendship that you once had, it's something different...

Am I getting close here?

 

[hoosier]

It is not uncommon for girls that are best friends to hook up, well at least kiss. Taking it to another level, is a different story.

It will either create a very akward situation for you, or open up your friendship to "another" level. If you decide to take it to another level, please be sure to videotape it for the good fellows at elite.

Either way, i would just get drunk if i were you.....lol

 

[vansmack2000]

just do it and be sure to tell me all about it

 

[cutiegirl]

It is not uncommon for girls that are best friends to hook up, well at least kiss. Taking it to another level, is a different story.

It will either create a very akward situation for you, or open up your friendship to "another" level. If you decide to take it to another level, please be sure to videotape it for the good fellows at elite.

Either way, i would just get drunk if i were you.....lol

Yeah I will just get drunk, that sounds like a good idea!