Women, if a man did not pay the tab on the first date, would you go on a second date?

[heatherrae]

okay serious question, hopefully i didnt wnat to create a thread hopefully it will get burried in some posts..

say you have been talking to a girl for a while she is real nice girl and wanted to do kinda like a picnic thingy on the beach

is bringing a flower (key word letter A)

is it

a) ghey b) stupid c) douche d) any other words you can think of ?

NO! It is awesome! I love when a man brings flowers! I think that is so sweet!

 

[Faizakafez]

i dont no. not a rose or anything ( i think thats to senitmental)

I dont wanna look like a softy with the flower ,

but she is a petite kinda girl...

becuase 95% of the time i get your soo sweet... and thats it!

editied..

 

[heatherrae]

editied..

if a girl can't handle a guy bringing her flowers without thinking he is a wimp or a doormat or whatever, then I think she is the wrong girl for you. Self confident girls just enjoy the flowers.

A guy who brings flowers is just thoughtful and kind.

 

[Faizakafez]

A guy who brings flowers is just thoughtful and kind.

yup,

thats me... so far it hasnt been working..

 

[Bikini Mod]

LOL@ people and their assumptions because some of us more mature (ie - OLD) women prefer to date men that have made their way in the world. Has the thought occurred to anyone that we go for OLDER MEN? If a man hasn't made his mark in the world by 50's when will his ship come in? LOL... meaning, WHAT THE HELL has he been doing with his life that he has attained such a great level of mediocrity?

We are not talking about 20 something year old young men who are still struggling alpha males. I love alpha males, just not the young ones as their antics do not amuse me. I like the calmness and confidence of a man that has proved all he needs to to HIMSELF. <---- that right there is VERY SEXY to me.

I didn't say anything negative about anyone personally, yet I have had more than a few cheap shots taken at me because I answered the questions HONESTLY.

Funny thing though, I married a man who was homeless and had ZERO assets.

He was also the only wealthy man (at the time) who didn't blow the *You can not get me a storebought birthday present - no cash or check in a card* test either.

So now if money is *supposedly* MY ONLY or even MAIN criteria for choosing a mate then either I am lying to everyone (including myself) or I am stupid and don't know the difference between broke and wealthy.

Too many of you put your own feelings into my mouth, then go and get pissed off at me for it. Again, that is on you.

 

[heatherrae]

yup,

thats me... so far it hasnt been working..

You just haven't gotten the right girl yet. =-)

PS -- picnics on the beach can be problematic because sand gets in the food. maybe try a park, instead.

 

[Faizakafez]

You just haven't gotten the right girl yet. =-)

PS -- picnics on the beach can be problematic because sand gets in the food. maybe try a park, instead.

ahh good stuff, but the key here is beach i can go topless..then she will be like holy bejesus... so even if i do fuck up somehow in the back of my mind .. she can think

"hmmm he is quite sexy, and the cougars are after him"

if she can cook she is a keeper (for now)

 

[heatherrae]

ahh good stuff, but the key here is beach i can go topless..then she will be like holy bejesus... so even if i do fuck up somehow in the back of my mind .. she can think

"hmmm he is quite sexy, and the cougars are after him"

if she can cook she is a keeper (for now)

Actually, that is a good idea. I approve of your plan, then. lol.

 

[cindylou]

ahh good stuff, but the key here is beach i can go topless..then she will be like holy bejesus... so even if i do fuck up somehow in the back of my mind .. she can think

"hmmm he is quite sexy, and the cougars are after him"

if she can cook she is a keeper (for now)

that is a great idea fez!! LOL. When is this date?

 

[Faizakafez]

Actually, that is a good idea. I approve of your plan, then. lol.

good stuff, dont worry i can keep you on the booty call?

i like this open realtionship