Women, if a man did not pay the tab on the first date, would you go on a second date?

[Scotsman]

lol @ you two. don't put words in my mouth. Of course I deserve to be treated well. But, to me, it implied a level of seriousness that didn't really feel natural at that point.

ps - if a guy is going to do nice things for me, it should be because he cares about me and wants to make me happy, not because he's trying to show me how much dollah he's willing to drop to impress me. There are better ways to spend your money.

I like the way you think. First date with an unknown is not the time to show out how much you can spend on dinner. I think a "fun" first place like a good sushi restaurant is the way to go. If all goes well use the second or third date to go all out and impress with. That way the ice is already broken and you don't have the super formal environment to content with on the first date.

Oh and back off sublime I'm already taking her to All American!!

Cheers,
Scotsman

 

[BigRupe]

If you've not found a woman that will cook for you on a date, you're finding the wrong women! I love to cook for a date
Also, women will tend to use you if they know you got some cha-ching.
How do they know you have money? Don't say nice car. b/c even poor dudes can drive nice cars

Women are good at finding that out.

I do have a nice car, I own nice house outside of Washington and another home at the beach and another home in Virginia. I dress nice and my job is known to be lucrative. My office is very spacious with a beautiful view and in a nice area in DC.

It doesn't take a rocket scientist to add it all up.

Plus some of the women I have dated are friends of friends that have known somethings about me before we dated and we travel in similar circles of accomplishment and wealth.

I haven't had a date cook for me in a LONG time and I'd rather do that then have some woman take me to dinner.

To me that gesture is worth 100 restuarant dinners.

 

[BigRupe]

You have been with some RUDE women!

If I asked you out for your birthday, I would absolutely pay the tab and bring you a birthday present to boot. It doesn't matter how much money you have and she has, it's your birthday!

If you haven't had a woman cook for you in years, you need to date me! lol. I spoil my man, when I have one.

I can sincerely say I'd do just about anything for a woman to invite me to her home and cook something. Even mac and cheese versus constant restaurants.

To know someone made it just for me would be super.

You are right I've dated some rude women and I'm sure we've all made mistakes in whom we've dated.

I just seem to meet all the wrong ones. LOL

 

[BigRupe]

okay serious question, hopefully i didnt wnat to create a thread hopefully it will get burried in some posts..

say you have been talking to a girl for a while she is real nice girl and wanted to do kinda like a picnic thingy on the beach

is bringing a flower (key word letter A)

is it

a) ghey b) stupid c) douche d) any other words you can think of ?

I could care less if some dude thought I was gay. I have done all of the above including a card and maybe a bottle of wine.

I can assure you most women are touched by the thougtfulness.

Small gestures DO matter.

They show you care and took the time to say thanks.

 

[heatherrae]

I can sincerely say I'd do just about anything for a woman to invite me to her home and cook something. Even mac and cheese versus constant restaurants.

To know someone made it just for me would be super.

You are right I've dated some rude women and I'm sure we've all made mistakes in whom we've dated.

I just seem to meet all the wrong ones. LOL

If you are ever in my neck of the woods, I swear you have an open invitation for a home cooked meal, then.

 

[foreigngirl]

Re: Women, if a man did not pay the tab on the first date, would you go on a second d

I can sincerely say I'd do just about anything for a woman to invite me to her home and cook something. Even mac and cheese versus constant restaurants.

To know someone made it just for me would be super.

You are right I've dated some rude women and I'm sure we've all made mistakes in whom we've dated.

I just seem to meet all the wrong ones. LOL

You've never been taken care of by a woman, huh? You poor thing

Some men take that cooking for them thing for granted

 

[heatherrae]

I like the way you think. First date with an unknown is not the time to show out how much you can spend on dinner. I think a "fun" first place like a good sushi restaurant is the way to go. If all goes well use the second or third date to go all out and impress with. That way the ice is already broken and you don't have the super formal environment to content with on the first date.

Oh and back off sublime I'm already taking her to All American!!

Cheers,
Scotsman

sushi IS expensive.

 

[BigRupe]

If you are ever in my neck of the woods, I swear you have an open invitation for a home cooked meal, then.

Sounds like a very kind and sweet offer. I'd even bring a flower.

Now the real question; what's your favorite dish to cook or rather what do you cook the best (taste wise)? LOL

 

[Scotsman]

sushi IS expensive.

Not compared to a nice steakhouse. And it also depends on what you get.

Cheers,
Scotsman

 

[CrazyRussian]

I can sincerely say I'd do just about anything for a woman to invite me to her home and cook something. Even mac and cheese versus constant restaurants.

To know someone made it just for me would be super.

You are right I've dated some rude women and I'm sure we've all made mistakes in whom we've dated.

I just seem to meet all the wrong ones. LOL

Amen. I remember when my girl and I went to the beach and she busted out a few tupperware containers of this very simple salad, and some lukewarm drumsticks. And for desert, one Snickers bar. It was by far the most enjoyable meal I've had in my life.