Women: Are You Okay With Your Men Looking At Porn If They Do It Discreetly?

[nycgirl]

Awesome! That's one vote for okay.

LOL. I admit that it did bother me in a previous relationship, but that had to do with my insecurity. I knew he enjoyed looking at porn by the 5th date. I'm alot more secure & confident now.

 

[HiDnGoD]

Cool! We have some understanding, educated women here. My poor mom was so in the dark. She thought if a man jerked off that he needed to see a psychiatrist. I wonder how my dad hid it from her all those years.

I'm not even gonna tell you what I found out about my Mom, after she passed away.

 

[biteme]

WHen I was married I loved my wife and not a woman in the world could have taken me away from her. No way. But, I still needed to fantacise about other women sometimes. It's very normal.

 

[fergie]

They don't understand bro. They are different. How often do you see a woman downloading videos of men having sex and playing with themselves? Can you picture a woman jerking herself off and saying, "Oh yeah, fuck that bastard!" LOL

 

[feisty11975]

I'm not even gonna tell you what I found out about my Mom, after she passed away.

Do tell!!

 

[biteme]

bump

 

[Smurfy]

I'm just gonna be real. Even if I settle down, I'll still fantacise about other women and jerk off. Nearly all men do, some just lie about it. Can you handle that?

absolutely without a doubt. as long as he is satisfying my needs and I his. I have my own porn collection to use when needed. although since ive been married I havent really found a need.

 

[biteme]

absolutely without a doubt. as long as he is satisfying my needs and I his. I have my own porn collection to use when needed. although since ive been married I havent really found a need.

Cool. How soon do you think I should bring this up when dating a woman?

 

[Lestat]

I've dated women that were not comfortable with it, I've dated women that loved it an encouraged it, and even some who enjoyed it with me.

The only legit reason why a woman should have a problem with it is that she would rather you be spending that time with her naked, she would rather enjoy every orgasm that you have with her too.

MOST women do not like it for 1 of 2 reaons
1) they are insecure
2) they feel porn is somehow morally wrong

I try to weed out both types of women when dating. A girl doesn't have to LOVE porn to be with me, but she can't be insecure about human sexuality.

 

[biteme]

Do Mexican women have a problem with it, or is that being stereo-typical?