Wish me luck..

[sh4dowf4lcon]

good luck fina...peace bro

 

[BileStew]

I know man, it is hard, but will get better.


These are my feelings (tell me if I am wrong or just tell me to shut up if you want).

-you aren't happy by yourself and are looking for it in someone else and that is no good man.

-you are too trusting and give your all to someone too quickly and perhaps expect too much back.

you are a good bro in all senses of the word, but I think you would be best to just concentrate on making yourself happy first man before any female, when you are you will meet a great one and things will just fall into place for you man.

Tuc,

Who are you, Dr. Phil?

When will your show be aired? heh

 

[Deleted member 33117]

Wow, I called her, and left a voice message saying I didn't want to end things over the internet, and I wanted to tell her some things, say goodbye in person and part on good terms. I dropped by, and she didn't answer the door.

I got back online over an hour later, just a few minutes ago, and she told me that it frightened her, that I was acking like a stalker, and if I came over again she was going to call the police.

Sent her a message back, saying I'm sorry if I frightened her, but I just wanted to part as friends, and say good bye in person, not like this. She hasn't replied as of yet.

 

[SoKlueles]

You dont need her BBF...least of all you dont need a run in with the police. Just drop this chick, and gl with a new one in the future.

 

[Deleted member 33117]

I know man, it is hard, but will get better.


These are my feelings (tell me if I am wrong or just tell me to shut up if you want).

-you aren't happy by yourself and are looking for it in someone else and that is no good man.

-you are too trusting and give your all to someone too quickly and perhaps expect too much back.

you are a good bro in all senses of the word, but I think you would be best to just concentrate on making yourself happy first man before any female, when you are you will meet a great one and things will just fall into place for you man.

The thing is, I went into this expecting nothing, because of what has happened with my previous attempts at finding someone. Things went so fast, and she actually told me she was frightened by how fast she got emotionally involved. The thing is, I'm at a time where I really do need someone. I've been alone most of my life, and to be honest with you, once I got involved with her, I was actually happy for the first time in my life, even if it was just for a little while. I know she wants me to not contact her again, and I'll honor that request. I just wish there was a way for me to let her know that she did make me happy for a little while, and I have no hard feelings towards her, because that short time was more than I've ever had. I can accept that fact that for one reason or another, she didn't want me, or couldn't handle a relationship because of her own issues. Unfortunately life works out like that sometimes, but I want her to know how I feel, and that I do not regret having been with her, despite how things turned out.

 

[tuc biscuit]

bro I am sorry to hear that, but some things you say worry me, you should never 'need' someone and I don't think you were truly happy, perhaps it was just having someone as company, again I may well be wrong.

 

[BileStew]

BBF,

If she is now accusing you of stalking her and breaks up with you over Yahoo Messenger, then this chick is not for you. This stuff is minor in comparison to what she could possibly do in the long run.

She doesn't come accross as being pretty stable to me. Just an observation from what you have told.

Get out now while you can.

 

[sweetnes11]

She sounds like a nut case, you are better off without her.
Stay away from her for your own good. The fact that she said that she feels like you are stocking her. Thats my opinion ! Use what you can and forget the rest

 

[sh4dowf4lcon]

just be yourself holmes

 

[Deleted member 33117]

sweetnes, yeah, her issues are what caused the problems to begin with. She admitted that a few weeks ago, and said that the fact she developed feelings for me so fast, combined with her issues, is the reason she "put the breaks on me." (her words). She said it had nothing to do with me, and she just needed some time to work through her emotions, before she could committe to anything.

I don't see the point in attempting to contact her anymore. I told her in that last message that I wouldn't be like two of the other guys in her past, and continue to call her and try to talk to her. I told her good bye and that I wish her well in life. Right now I don't know how I should feel. Honestly, I truely admired her, and really would have liked to have had something long-term with her, but I have to move on. It just hurts that she was so impersonal, especially after she promised me up front, when we first started seeing each other, that if things weren't going to work out, she would sit down and just tell me. I think I deserve that much at least, and not the way it went down, over yahoo messenger with a couple short messages.

Considering how I felt, I'm surprised how well I'm taking this. Anyway, I went out last night (in Houston for the weekend) with my best friend and my sister who live here, and got drunk. I guess I just needed to blow off some steam.