Why is it that Sex ends with......

[covergrl80]

So your friend doesn't want the marriage anymore? Sad.

No the sex.

 

[covergrl80]

How can I possibly go wrong with a girl who wears a shirt like that?

My shirt?

 

[EnderJE]

No the sex.

She doesn't want the sex in the marriage anymore? I don't get it. BTW, nice avi.

 

[covergrl80]

She doesn't want the sex in the marriage anymore? I don't get it. BTW, nice avi.

She wants to know what you don't want, or have the urge to have sex after your married.

Thanks

 

[chesty]

Marriage. And Mostly it's the women that does not want it anymore.

Is it that there tired of the man or something else?

This also goes for the Man too

I think it is a biological thing. A womans premium child bearing years is from like 18-30 maybe 35 and it seems that during this period the woman is always wanting it, but then she no longer wants it as her body ages and becomes unable to bear children efficiently and healthy. So the hormones change to make her not want sex any more.

Whereas a guy is able to produce a healthy child till he drops dead. (at least impregnate any viable female) So, he is always horny looking for the viable female to impregnate and carry on his genes.

I mean really, when you walk into a bar or something as a male the first thing you are drawn to is that tight hot woman vs the woman in her 30's or 40's who may still be hot, but nature draws you to the female that is more viable for producing healthy offspring. Not too mention the low mileage.

 

[EnderJE]

She wants to know what you don't want, or have the urge to have sex after your married.

Thanks

Okay, I'm stupid. Thanks for the explaination.

It's not that the sex ends with the marriage per see. As you know, it's that priorities change. Try to be intimate when you and him are sleeping about 5 good hours a night, a little stressed at work and taking care of kids. It gets lower on the ladder. The more often that you don't do it, it becomes easier to not do it.

 

[covergrl80]

I think it is a biological thing. A womans premium child bearing years is from like 18-30 maybe 35 and it seems that during this period the woman is always wanting it, but then she no longer wants it as her body ages and becomes unable to bear children efficiently and healthy. So the hormones change to make her not want sex any more.

Whereas a guy is able to produce a healthy child till he drops dead. (at least impregnate any viable female) So, he is always horny looking for the viable female to impregnate and carry on his genes.

I mean really, when you walk into a bar or something as a male the first thing you are drawn to is that tight hot woman vs the woman in her 30's or 40's who may still be hot, but nature draws you to the female that is more viable for producing healthy offspring. Not too mention the low mileage.

But she is not in her 30's yet and just got married. SHe is only 22 and very attracted to her Husband.

 

[covergrl80]

So how to you explan to him that you are still very much In love with him and attracted?

 

[chesty]

It may be that she or feels that now that they have closed the deal that they don't need to any more. However, I can attest to the fact that it will only lead to the marriage breaking up. If they don't have that intimate time, as well as the intimate time during the day, a simple call, or flower, etc. One or both will wander and look for something new. It is the excitement of the chase and the conquest.

My friends wife as soon as their kid was born looked right at him and said I don't do that, I'm a mother and cut him off completely.

 

[EnderJE]

It may be that she or feels that now that they have closed the deal that they don't need to any more. However, I can attest to the fact that it will only lead to the marriage breaking up. If they don't have that intimate time, as well as the intimate time during the day, a simple call, or flower, etc. One or both will wander and look for something new. It is the excitement of the chase and the conquest.

My friends wife as soon as their kid was born looked right at him and said I don't do that, I'm a mother and cut him off completely.

Agreed. I didn't mean to say that it's cut off. It does slows down or you don't do it as much as you used to (at least in my case). What used to be several times a day, then once a day, then once a week, is now once a few weeks / months.

But, if my wife gave that kind of ultimatium, then I'd prolly be gone.