Why is it that I don't have the balls to...

[hardrock]

Doesn't have to be that difficult. Just say "hey, you look great" in passing.

 

[juve]

Doesn't have to be that difficult. Just say "hey, you look great" in passing.

make it more nonchalant, like: "you look fucken' great!" as a quick, and seemingly trivial remark - if you do it right, and able to carry through it without raising your heartbeat, she gonna beg for you

wooooooooooooweeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee

 

[Moderate_THIS]

Why do you ask the same fucking question every day?

Here's the atlantabiolab version:

->You have about as much game as christopher reeve in a triathalon

->You whine more than Robin Givens after a Tyson beatdown

->You ignored Jack Palance's advice "Confidence is sexy, don't you think"?

->You are DUSTY

 

[fyxgel]

You are disagreeing incorrectly. Since you basically just reiterated my post.

THat was my point. I was saying that if the girl can't take a compliment without getting wierd, then obviously there is little friendship to be had.

Sorry if that wasn't too clear

"there is little friendship to be had"

so you;re saying that there probably couldnt be much of a friendship in the future, either, like if u waited it out before making a comment like that?

 

[Paulo]

"there is little friendship to be had"

so you;re saying that there probably couldnt be much of a friendship in the future, either, like if u waited it out before making a comment like that?

No, that is not what I am saying.

I am saying that if the girl gets wierded out by a compliment from a friend, then she's really not much of a friend.

I have numerous women friends, and I have no problem in telling them that they are good looking or dress nice, or complimenting them on any other variety of attributes. Never has one gotten wierd on me. But I present it as a more objective opinion, and they respect that.

make any sense?

 

[bran987]

No, that is not what I am saying.

I am saying that if the girl gets wierded out by a compliment from a friend, then she's really not much of a friend.

I have numerous women friends, and I have no problem in telling them that they are good looking or dress nice, or complimenting them on any other variety of attributes. Never has one gotten wierd on me. But I present it as a more objective opinion, and they respect that.

make any sense?

but you are probably not riddled with fear and guilt while you say it

this sounds like it could go back to what his mother taught him about women. he has deep, deep issues

 

[fyxgel]

No, that is not what I am saying.

I am saying that if the girl gets wierded out by a compliment from a friend, then she's really not much of a friend.

I have numerous women friends, and I have no problem in telling them that they are good looking or dress nice, or complimenting them on any other variety of attributes. Never has one gotten wierd on me. But I present it as a more objective opinion, and they respect that.

make any sense?

yea, i guess what I am wondering and wanting to know is.. how well do you need to know a girl before you drop a compliment like this?

 

[Taps]

fyxgel, I get the impression you don't really understand social interacion. (no flame, just an observation). Telling a girl you know she's cute/beautiful can either be perfecty acceptable or way out of line...depending on a hundred different factors. My advice would be to stop caring so much. Just do what you want and what you're comfortable with...girls are a lot less freaked out by that then you'd expect.

 

[fyxgel]

fyxgel, I get the impression you don't really understand social interacion. .

I understand it all right, I just question why things are the way that they are.

 

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Yet another classic p60 thread.