Why is it that I don't have the balls to...

[bran987]

I understand it all right, I just question why things are the way that they are.

you are still having the problem with feeling like if you do or say something to attract a woman, that you haven't done before, you feel like you aren't being "yourself"

you're wondering why you should have to learn to do something a certain way and why won't people just like you for you

you think that if you do something "different" you are being "fake"

if I saw you bench pressing with a 100 lb. dummbell in one arm, and a 40 lb. dumbell in the other, and you couldn't figure out why you keep flipping off the bench and banging yourself in the head, then I told you that you have to use the same weight on each side or you won't balance, and it suddenly works, are you a different person? are you being fake?

no, you just know a better way now.

you are still you, who else could you be?

that's what you need to get a grip on, but you are a ways off.

 

[Gambino]

maybe you should buy the George S. playa's guide, I think you could use it...

 

[fyxgel]

alright, maybe asking the question 'why' is useless,
since no one knows, and even if they did, they wouldnt care to respond,
they would rather just rant on me over some other stupid thing.

so i'll stop asking 'why' and just accept things as is. and try to make things work as best as possible in terms of getting a girl, and take the 'correct route'
not the route or the way that 'i wished things were'.

I guess I wont compliment a girl unless I really feel that I should.

Sorry all the girls out there, but the *ucked up system of society makes it a little harder for me to compliment you.

 

[TheProject]

Have you tried working out?

That might help your confidence level...

 

[fyxgel]

Have you tried working out?

That might help your confidence level...

this thread isnt about my confidence level,

its about when it is socially acceptable to compliment girls on their appearances or not.

 

[bran987]

alright, maybe asking the question 'why' is useless,
since no one knows, and even if they did, they wouldnt care to respond,
they would rather just rant on me over some other stupid thing.

so i'll stop asking 'why' and just accept things as is. and try to make things work as best as possible in terms of getting a girl, and take the 'correct route'
not the route or the way that 'i wished things were'.

I guess I wont compliment a girl unless I really feel that I should.

Sorry all the girls out there, but the *ucked up system of society makes it a little harder for me to compliment you.

if you really want to know why I can tell you, but it'll just piss you off even more

 

[-SD-]

this thread isnt about my confidence level,

its about when it is socially acceptable to compliment girls on their appearances or not.

If you were confident you would at least know when it is acceptable to compliment girls on their appearance.

 

[Gambino]

Sorry all the girls out there, but the *ucked up system of society makes it a little harder for me to compliment you.

doooooooode, it's not society. Compliements are exchanged between men and women on a daily basis. watch people interact, esp. on campus. Take some pointers, see how it's done, it's not that hard...your making it seem harder than it is, sometimes you just gotta jump. grow some balls and tell this chic what's up. she might feel the same way about you, she might not. If you don't act, somebody else will, leaving you with your cack in your hand...the worst that can happend is denial, that's it, no phyiscal pain or financial destruction. all this comes much later

 

[TheProject]

Is this a thread about elephants? Cause I already got one of those...

 

[fyxgel]

if you really want to know why I can tell you, but it'll just piss you off even more

feel free to, i can take bullets and bullets of pain. it takes a lot to irritate me.