Why is it that I don't have the balls to...

[fyxgel]

cause you're afraid of getting dissed...your afraid she'll laugh at you. Just compliement her on what she is wearing, how her hair looks. Say something like "damn, your hair sure looks good." Don't come across as desperate or horny...don't ask me why I keep responding to your threads, I have giving you sound advice, yet you never so much as even aknowledge my attempt at help. I'm not a playa, but I do alright, wtf don't you listen?

im sorry, i didnt know i was ignoring you. thanks for the advice that you have been giving though, it definately is good to see other peoples perspectives, and i definately need to acknowledge you guys more.

sometimes when I ask something, it doesnt mean im going to go out and do something, but just that i am curious to know about how things would go, etc.


i wish you could just straight up tell a girl that she was beautiful.

 

[RADAR]

Just start with something, maybe compliment her hair ,and a few days later work from there---the key is to be reallll smooth!


RADAR

 

[juve]

i wish you could just straight up tell a girl that she was beautiful.

loosen up - get some benzo's or get fukt up

 

[wtlftr]

If only friends, then occasionally tell her that something she is wearing looks good. Add more each time, but do not overdue it. Don't lose a friend because you have a hard on for her.

 

[Mr. Black]

complement on small SMALL things of wardrobe, over all appearance - but don't stretch it
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Thats good advice. If you get too carried away with the compliments it can be perceived as cheesy and you'll look like a despearete fool. Women that are truly hot get complimented on their looks all the time anyways, so why not focus on a more genuine approach such as commenting on her intelligence level (if she's smart), her sense of humour and/or other non physical demeanours...You get the point.

 

[wtlftr]

Like tell the girl in Blacks avatar that you like the way she color coordinated her beads to her suit. Or how the brown in her nipples matches her tan.

 

[Mr. Black]

Or how the brown in her nipples matches her tan.

 

[Imnotdutch]

Why is it that I dont have the balls, just to tell a friend thats a girl, that she looks pretty?

This seems extremely hard to do.
Whats wrong with me?

Shit just spit it out.....if you want a get out clause get drunk first.

Or heres a plan.....worked for me. Adjust this too fit in with pretty rather than great ass that driving me nuts. I told this girl at work that she had a big fat ass.....mainly because everybody else stares at it and drools and she knows it. She got all offended so I explained what I really thought one night . So now if I want to compliment her ass I just remind her that its fat.

I sound like an 11 year old right?

 

[fyxgel]

Bro...who doesn't like being complimented. Unless you are some creepy slime ball I am sure she will like it. Just keep the compliment in context to yalls relationship.

i want to know what that last line means, does that mean that i just cant compliment her unless i know her super duper duper well?

 

[fyxgel]

Just start with something, maybe compliment her hair ,and a few days later work from there---the key is to be reallll smooth!


RADAR

i hate being smooth and putting on the smooth act.

i wish you could just say things how they are.