No dim-puss I'm not mad. although calling someone names can sometimes only be offensive if the intended victim takes offence.
The scenarios i give, not including all the real life examples that happen too often everyday. Are not simply a case of someone calling someone a nonsense name "like suncum" for example and the intended victim took the bait. What I was talking about is not as easy to pass off as simple name calling.
Someone smashing up something you work years to buy or saying something that caused all your friends to dislike you for example would not be a simple case of. "It only effects you if you accept it"