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I love women. I can be bitter towards women in the past because of how they treated me or how horrible they were to me. Part of me would hate them, part of me loved them, part of me hated myself for believing them.
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Why do some of you hate members of the opposite sex!!!
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Lao Tzu
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For me, its a spin off of Test boys post, because women are spoiled (even though i don't like that word, its the best one for this).
Men are taught to respect women, and pay for their shit, and not hit them offensively or defensively. Maybe its just me but when you pay for a womans dinner, or take her out for a really extravagant night what you are really saying ot her is 'thank you for existing, here is some money for being in my presence', which i find despicable. Men do the same thing at strip clubs that they do on dates, try to impress women & give them money for showing up.
In order to be successful with women a man has to be an amateur psychologist, courageous, invincible to shame & persistant. In order for a woman to be good with men she just has to show up and she will get her ass kissed so hard she will start bitching about being 'hit on'.
Basically, if women were just regular people instead of viewing themselves/being viewed as prescious commodities who must be pampered & rewarded daily, then i wouldn't hate them. But they are so i do.
Its partially envy too of how easy dating is for women. I have a female friend. Even though she isn't pretty (my standards are pretty low and even i don't find her attractive) she gets hit on daily and she complains about it. WTF? if women liked me so much that they approached me daily i wouldnt' complain about it. But she does. And if every woman in this country can't walk the street without being hit on or being asked out on dates where men can reward them for showing up by buying them expensive/extravagant dates then that leaves the rest of us screwed.
Men are taught to respect women, and pay for their shit, and not hit them offensively or defensively. Maybe its just me but when you pay for a womans dinner, or take her out for a really extravagant night what you are really saying ot her is 'thank you for existing, here is some money for being in my presence', which i find despicable. Men do the same thing at strip clubs that they do on dates, try to impress women & give them money for showing up.
In order to be successful with women a man has to be an amateur psychologist, courageous, invincible to shame & persistant. In order for a woman to be good with men she just has to show up and she will get her ass kissed so hard she will start bitching about being 'hit on'.
Basically, if women were just regular people instead of viewing themselves/being viewed as prescious commodities who must be pampered & rewarded daily, then i wouldn't hate them. But they are so i do.
Its partially envy too of how easy dating is for women. I have a female friend. Even though she isn't pretty (my standards are pretty low and even i don't find her attractive) she gets hit on daily and she complains about it. WTF? if women liked me so much that they approached me daily i wouldnt' complain about it. But she does. And if every woman in this country can't walk the street without being hit on or being asked out on dates where men can reward them for showing up by buying them expensive/extravagant dates then that leaves the rest of us screwed.
Ffactor
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Excellent points. I totally agree about the part of being a psychologist. Women like to play coy little games like not returning phone calls, making you sweat, but men are much more direct. I think it's just the way society has evolved. Women are considered to be the fairer sex and they are perfectly within their rights to exploit that!
I was watching the history of sex and dating on the history station a few nights back. It is funny how the dating became to be. In the early 1900s women did not get that much exposure to men on their own w/out family and friends around so the men use to have to go the parents. Then with the war women started to go to work. Around work they were exposed to men. Thus dating was formed. Dates were considered a mild form of prostition by the lower middle class. The man was expected to pay because women did not have equal rights. However, all that changed and now women have equal rights and are capable of making money, being in politics and having a defined carear path if they choose. However, the rules of dating have not changed. Thus women have become acustomed to being pampered. It was an interesting story...
Norman Bates
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Ffactor said:
If it is perfectly ok for women to exploit men is it then ok for men to exploit women,too?
Norman Bates
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Do you think women have still disadvantages is modern society or what did you mean with that?
Norman Bates
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One evil , sexism, should not be a moral justification for another evil, exploiting other people.
Besides, sexism got much better, though it might not be gone completely yet and hopefully it will be gone completely one day.
Society just needs a few decades to abandon something so deeply entrenched completely. A lot of people have been raised to believe that women are inferior or that women should be responsible for the house and children while the men works.These people will not change their believes anymore, so it will take some time until that chnages.
But as long as women exploit men , a lot of men will use this as justification to talk bad about women or treat them badly.
So should the goal not be to abolish both?
Besides, sexism got much better, though it might not be gone completely yet and hopefully it will be gone completely one day.
Society just needs a few decades to abandon something so deeply entrenched completely. A lot of people have been raised to believe that women are inferior or that women should be responsible for the house and children while the men works.These people will not change their believes anymore, so it will take some time until that chnages.
But as long as women exploit men , a lot of men will use this as justification to talk bad about women or treat them badly.
So should the goal not be to abolish both?
