Why do men fear their ass?

[Kali]

Almost every guy I talk to is so afraid to let women near their ass during sex. But after some men do it once, they are all about it. So what is the deal? Are guys afraid of the whole "feeling gay" thing, or is it because of the fact that you know what comes out of it? I mean, it is not like women are going to go down or stick fingers in you right after you go to the bathroom. And if you are okay with a woman doing anal, why is it so bad to have women go near that part of you? So I want the truth, why do men fear their ass?

 

[Puddles]

Good post. I'm curious too.

 

[naturally anabolic]

honestly, i will bet on it that most men if they were to admit it would say they are homophobic, and the fact of the matter is they assume that anything dealing with the male booty is considered off limits because its "gay", its a taboo like anything else, its kinda like why do some girls not admit to masterbating?

 

[needsize]

I never understood this one either, if its a beautiful woman doing it, then who cares? Sure, gay men like it in the ass, but gay men also give each other head, so is it gay if your woman goes down on you cuz gay men do it too?
I say if it feels good, do it!!!!

 

[Zerxes]

TOTALLY can't relate to the question Kali. HOWEVER, it is about the homophobia thing for most I would think. Macho crap. Once a person grows up a little(and we all know it takes guys longer), and feels comfortable in their sexuality(some never do), then they dont mind a little assplay. I know I dont.

 

[Ceebs]

One male friend explained not wanting anyone near his ass in the following way: he was afraid he'd like having a finger up it, and if one finger felt good, two might feel better, and when the novelty of two fingers wore off, he'd need something even bigger to still get off. Like someone else's cock. So it IS about homophobia, at least in his case.

 

[vinylgroover]

Not here. I enjoy anal stimulation and love having a girl lick and finger my asshole. I've been fucked with a strap-on and the odd dildo. In no way did i feel i was 'gay' while doing it. If you're at ease with your sexuality as i am, then it's no big deal.

Having said that, most girls are repulsed by the thought of doing shit like that to a guy anyway so in my experience it's quite rare to find girls that are into it.

But the one's that enjoy it have a great time with me

 

[Zerxes]

One male friend explained not wanting anyone near his ass in the following way: he was afraid he'd like having a finger up it, and if one finger felt good, two might feel better, and when the novelty of two fingers wore off, he'd need something even bigger to still get off. Like someone else's cock. So it IS about homophobia, at least in his case.

Well, if his mental picture of "even bigger" was a cock, then it sounds more like homosexuality, rather than homophobia. I'd let a cock up there, but it better be plastic, and attached to some hot broad.

 

[McBastard]

My Ex-gf was always trying to stimulate my g-spot, which is in the ass. I let her a few times, considering all the freaky things I did to her. It didn't do anything, it was a bit interesting tough. Naturally, she needed alot of lube, which was a pain to wash out after.

 

[Puddles]

I'd let a cock up there, but it better be plastic, and attached to some hot broad.

Said like a true man! Enjoy!