Why do men fear their ass?

[Kali]

Almost every guy I talk to is so afraid to let women near their ass during sex. But after some men do it once, they are all about it. So what is the deal? Are guys afraid of the whole "feeling gay" thing, or is it because of the fact that you know what comes out of it? I mean, it is not like women are going to go down or stick fingers in you right after you go to the bathroom. And if you are okay with a woman doing anal, why is it so bad to have women go near that part of you? So I want the truth, why do men fear their ass?

 

[Puddles]

Good post. I'm curious too.

 

[naturally anabolic]

honestly, i will bet on it that most men if they were to admit it would say they are homophobic, and the fact of the matter is they assume that anything dealing with the male booty is considered off limits because its "gay", its a taboo like anything else, its kinda like why do some girls not admit to masterbating?

 

[needsize]

I never understood this one either, if its a beautiful woman doing it, then who cares? Sure, gay men like it in the ass, but gay men also give each other head, so is it gay if your woman goes down on you cuz gay men do it too?
I say if it feels good, do it!!!!

 

[Zerxes]

TOTALLY can't relate to the question Kali. HOWEVER, it is about the homophobia thing for most I would think. Macho crap. Once a person grows up a little(and we all know it takes guys longer), and feels comfortable in their sexuality(some never do), then they dont mind a little assplay. I know I dont.

 

[Ceebs]

One male friend explained not wanting anyone near his ass in the following way: he was afraid he'd like having a finger up it, and if one finger felt good, two might feel better, and when the novelty of two fingers wore off, he'd need something even bigger to still get off. Like someone else's cock. So it IS about homophobia, at least in his case.

 

[vinylgroover]

Not here. I enjoy anal stimulation and love having a girl lick and finger my asshole. I've been fucked with a strap-on and the odd dildo. In no way did i feel i was 'gay' while doing it. If you're at ease with your sexuality as i am, then it's no big deal.

Having said that, most girls are repulsed by the thought of doing shit like that to a guy anyway so in my experience it's quite rare to find girls that are into it.

But the one's that enjoy it have a great time with me

 

[Zerxes]

One male friend explained not wanting anyone near his ass in the following way: he was afraid he'd like having a finger up it, and if one finger felt good, two might feel better, and when the novelty of two fingers wore off, he'd need something even bigger to still get off. Like someone else's cock. So it IS about homophobia, at least in his case.

Well, if his mental picture of "even bigger" was a cock, then it sounds more like homosexuality, rather than homophobia. I'd let a cock up there, but it better be plastic, and attached to some hot broad.

 

[McBastard]

My Ex-gf was always trying to stimulate my g-spot, which is in the ass. I let her a few times, considering all the freaky things I did to her. It didn't do anything, it was a bit interesting tough. Naturally, she needed alot of lube, which was a pain to wash out after.

 

[Puddles]

I'd let a cock up there, but it better be plastic, and attached to some hot broad.

Said like a true man! Enjoy!

 

[Zerxes]

Said like a true man! Enjoy!

Speakin' of hot broads.....

 

[Ceebs]

This doesn't have much to do with the subject at hand, but I just HAD to share this:

 

[makedah]

Homophobia. It's a shame because those men are missing out on some fun!

I had a partner who loved to be anally stimulated and even penetrated with a strap-on. Best lover I ever had! He spoiled me for other men - I'd rather not be involved with a man who was afraid of his own ass - too uptight! (so to speak)

 

[Bigsatan13]

It's only kinky the first time.

 

[Saizen]

hey, I'm all about getting my hole filled by my g/f. Shit, I love it when she has a few fingers up there and she's sucking on my cock.

 

[Lestat]

I've never tried because I don't think I've been with anyone who was open to ass play.

 

[notoriousQQ]

Homophobia definitely plays a role. A friend of mine of mine had a girl crawl so far up his ass tossing his salad that he decided he would never let anyone else(female) do it again. His reasoning when I asked him why - Because he really liked it. Doesn't make sense to me. Personally I like whenever my girl will slide a couple fingers in the back door. Hell, the ass is an important part of the puzzle or a important piece of the set. Damn, nothing makes me cum harder and have a toe curling ground shaking orgasm than a couple fingers in the ass whenever I'm going to climax.
Actually if the girl I'm with puts her hands on my ass and squeezes on my cheeks when we are bumping and grinding, that's nice too.

 

[vitor97]

Hmm

I think there could be multiple reasons for this.

1. Most men have hairy asses.
2. The homo issue, Most manly men are afraid like stated earlier if I really like this, does it mean im gay.
3. Its my ass, if a man has done his girl anally before and sees how much it hurts at first, i doubt he is going to want to do it.
4. Talking, I know If word got out about me letting my girl do me with a strapon, the shit talking, and teasing would never end. Like if you break up, she runs her mouth, small town, people talk, you are a freak, maybe people call you gay as well.
5. Im 6'2 225lbs around 9-11% bodyfat, and I take 2-3 shits a day eating as many calories as I can, am I supposed to time bowel movements around this?
6. Im 6'2 225lbs, I cant picture myself laying down, putting my legs in the air so I can have my salad tossed.

Those are some ideas, im sure some can relate.

I dont mind if my girl rubs my pernemium, the spot bewteen my ass and my balls, thats all good and fun, but Im not comfortable with her near my ass.

 

[b fold the truth]

Give me a woman that I am comfortable with...and I will do anything.

B True

 

[vitor97]

Hmmm

ALot of people say that cant find someone to do it, but when was the last time you asked a girl to do anything to you ass.

Think about it, what guy is going to say "Honey, can you put 2 fingers in my ass/

 

[Solid Snake]

Re: Hmm

Im 6'2 225lbs, I cant picture myself laying down, putting my legs in the air so I can have my salad tossed.

I totally agree. I am 70 pounds lighter, much smaller than you dude and to be honest I dont want to picture myself in a leg spread position or even worst being banged dog style from the back by a girl wearing a strap-on.

I guess some of you will think I am sexually immature but that being in a position were I am being penetrated really frightens me. I am scared to death of anal sex because I don't want to be in a position were I "receive". see what I'm saying? Again you will say I'm immature but I think that the ass wasnt meant to be penetrated, I mean it is probably the most unsanitary area in your bodies. I don't want any girls catching something by sticking things near my ass nor I want to catch anything either.

Snake

 

[Frackal]

Id be moderately open to the strap on thing, just out of pure curiousity, and hell you cant beat pleasure, the main thing with that for me is it couldnt be shaped exactly like a penis, ie with a head and the same color and shit...

 

[Pamela]

Homophobia!!!!

I had a guy to tell me this before..


Aris,
You will make someone a "Perfect Lover"

 

[Robert Jan]

well... i wouldn`t feel comfortable cuz i have a hairy ass that i view as nasty.

 

[Vortexx]

for young dudes it's definately homofobia, they are afraid they no longer "fit" in their group of friends, once dudes grow up they might become more liberated and less restrained about this.

For me camilla de castro, is my kind of "girl" with a "strap on" muhahaha

 

[Frackal]

I think Id probably lose all respect from a gf if she boned me in the ass with a strap on though..haha

 

[Puddles]

Re: Re: Hmmm

Dude no offense but there are many girls who feel like shit when a guy cums on their face, so how do you think they'd feel licking a guys chocolate factory?

But how would you know if you didn't ask?

"Would you play with my ass, honey?"

Not a hard thing to say. If she says no, then it's no. If she dives right in you'll know she's into it. If she's never done it before but wants to try it, well...cool!

 

[PatBateman]

Re: Re: Hmm

I totally agree. I am 70 pounds lighter, much smaller than you dude and to be honest I dont want to picture myself in a leg spread position or even worst being banged dog style from the back by a girl wearing a strap-on.

I guess some of you will think I am sexually immature but that being in a position were I am being penetrated really frightens me. I am scared to death of anal sex because I don't want to be in a position were I "receive". see what I'm saying? Again you will say I'm immature but I think that the ass wasnt meant to be penetrated, I mean it is probably the most unsanitary area in your bodies. I don't want any girls catching something by sticking things near my ass nor I want to catch anything either.

Snake

Excellent, excellent post. I am the same way, my reasoning for not doing it would not be homophobia, but my need for dominance. I do not like to receive at all in sex, so the strap-on thing would not work for me. I can give a girl oral fine, but that is the most "giving" I will ever perform in sex, there is no way I would let a girl bang me with a strap-on or finger me, even if that was her greatest fantasy in the world. If it was, she could just hit the bricks and I'd go beat off and pass out.

 

[gsxr1000]

Re: Hmmm

ALot of people say that cant find someone to do it, but when was the last time you asked a girl to do anything to you ass.

Think about it, what guy is going to say "Honey, can you put 2 fingers in my ass/

Ever seen Road Trip?

 

[william2000]

Re: Hmm

I think Vitor97's point is the closest. Homophobia AND fear of public discolsure.

We wouldn't even want your best Girl Friend to know, and we know you are going to tell her. Who has met a girl that will keep a secret? And after you break-up everything becomes fair game.

4. Talking, I know If word got out about me letting my girl do me with a strapon, the shit talking, and teasing would never end. Like if you break up, she runs her mouth, small town, people talk, you are a freak, maybe people call you gay as well.

 

[Surgical]

I love having a chick lick me. My girlfriend is actually jealous because I can shave the area nice, but she has trouble getting to hers, lol. She went to a toy party a few weeks ago and got me some things, but I don't get them until my birthday, which is in January. I'm looking forward to what she has in store for me!!!

I love to play with a woman's ass, licking, fingering. So why shouldn't she be able to do the same to me? After all, it feels great, especially if she's stroking me at the same time. I've always wanted to have my prostate stimulated. Looking forward to that one

 

[smokingunz00]

ya i like ass play, i've never had penatration, but she'll lick it all the time and rub it. not sure on having fingers in it yet......but i sure do love the licking......and returning the favor as well