when bumping uglies, do you want feedback or silence from your partner?

[rnch]

do you need silence in order to "keep your mind in the game", or do you like to get feedback (moaning, groaning, talking dirty, whatever....) from your bed partner?

 

[nangiggles]

never bumped ugly... just fatty but pretty face but I'm pretty sure works different for dudes then woman since I have no erection to worry about or keep up.....

 

[jnevin]

feedback = him farting?

 

[iggy]

feedback from her, and doggystyle if the face is sub-par or below

 

[musclemom]

Feedback in the moment is wonderful as long as it's positive (i.e., that/you feel fucking great).

However, I think constructive criticism should be saved for a more neutral situation There are discrete ways of getting your partner to cease an unpleasant activity and then you tell them later "You know that thing you were doing? The ____? Yeah, don't do that anymore." (there is no faster mood killer than something that feels WRONG when you're in the moment).

 

[DJ_UFO]

If it's a butterface I guess doggie is the only solution.

 

[wolfman87]

^^ not true. i close my eyes or look at the ceiling and pretend it's the best ever lmao. guys can fake that shit too.

 

[DJ_UFO]

^^ not true. i close my eyes or look at the ceiling and pretend it's the best ever lmao. guys can fake that shit too.

I'm very visual. If I don't have a pretty face in front to fantasize, at least need to have a great brown eye in front of me. If not, I can keep drilling the whole night without ever cumming.

 

[SpyWizard]

I like the cheerleader routine..

"Yea baby just like that"
"oh my god you are so huge"
"I'm i'm passing out"

and my favorite

"oh crap, is that my husband"

 

[needtogetaas]

I like feedback. Not like screaming or even talking. Look at me,touch me aaah I guess its hard to explain. But non verbal feedback that you are in the moment with me and enjoying it.


Ya fuck off if i sound sappy.