when bumping uglies, do you want feedback or silence from your partner?

[rnch]

do you need silence in order to "keep your mind in the game", or do you like to get feedback (moaning, groaning, talking dirty, whatever....) from your bed partner?

 

[nangiggles]

never bumped ugly... just fatty but pretty face but I'm pretty sure works different for dudes then woman since I have no erection to worry about or keep up.....

 

[jnevin]

feedback = him farting?

 

[iggy]

feedback from her, and doggystyle if the face is sub-par or below

 

[musclemom]

Feedback in the moment is wonderful as long as it's positive (i.e., that/you feel fucking great).

However, I think constructive criticism should be saved for a more neutral situation There are discrete ways of getting your partner to cease an unpleasant activity and then you tell them later "You know that thing you were doing? The ____? Yeah, don't do that anymore." (there is no faster mood killer than something that feels WRONG when you're in the moment).

 

[DJ_UFO]

If it's a butterface I guess doggie is the only solution.

 

[wolfman87]

^^ not true. i close my eyes or look at the ceiling and pretend it's the best ever lmao. guys can fake that shit too.

 

[DJ_UFO]

^^ not true. i close my eyes or look at the ceiling and pretend it's the best ever lmao. guys can fake that shit too.

I'm very visual. If I don't have a pretty face in front to fantasize, at least need to have a great brown eye in front of me. If not, I can keep drilling the whole night without ever cumming.

 

[SpyWizard]

I like the cheerleader routine..

"Yea baby just like that"
"oh my god you are so huge"
"I'm i'm passing out"

and my favorite

"oh crap, is that my husband"

 

[needtogetaas]

I like feedback. Not like screaming or even talking. Look at me,touch me aaah I guess its hard to explain. But non verbal feedback that you are in the moment with me and enjoying it.


Ya fuck off if i sound sappy.

 

[Smurfy]

I agree with needto. i like some dirty talk too. and moaning. moaning is good. fuckign someone who's silent wouldnt be good.

 

[billfred]

Talk, moan, move... do something to let me know you are alive and present. One shouldn't have to hold a mirror up to their partner to see if they are still alive. If that is the case, then neither party should have gotten nekkid to begin with.

Everyone is different so whatever one found pleasurable/arousing won't transfer to the next. A couple should feel unafraid to communicate in bed. Although MM does have a good point of view. I, personally, would want to be told pointblank, "This just isn't working, would you mind if we did that instead?" I mean, how am I supposed to know if that other person doesn't share that with me?

Sounds like you are worried about GOM giving out during sexuals.

 

[nangiggles]

Feedback welcome: moan, dirty talk, motion, taking charge, etc...

 

[SpyWizard]

I like feedback. Not like screaming or even talking. Look at me,touch me aaah I guess its hard to explain. But non verbal feedback that you are in the moment with me and enjoying it.


Ya fuck off if i sound sappy.

you need a hug big guy?? no mo...

 

[SpyWizard]

hahah.. everything just sounds so much better with my new avi..

 

[musclemom]

Talk, moan, move... do something to let me know you are alive and present. One shouldn't have to hold a mirror up to their partner to see if they are still alive.

That's some funny shit there ^^^

 

[Cutiebaby]

It really depends. I mean no one really wants someone that sounds too fake, or that is interuptive of the situation. I like to hear things to know that it feels good, or to prove that he are there in the moment.

 

[shrimp poboy]

When your packin meat like me loud screams are pretty much guarenteed

 

[goin on 4T]

I am amazed how many woman like to be talked to during sex. I used to make noise but not much with the talking, damn after my devorce I will say all kinds of crazy stuff to them now and they just eat it up! Damn woman are so much better when they are over 30 than under 30!

 

[rnch]

When your packin meat like me loud screams are pretty much guarenteed

next time use some lube before you dry foik your bf, u cheap foik!

 

[chucktown04]

Anyone ever notice a lot of girls moan in bed like they do when they are working out? That's pretty hot definitely have to have moans and dirty talk especially if the neighbors can hear you lol.

 

[nangiggles]

I'm actually a little self conscious because I think/feel Im too loud sometimes... but cant really help it

 

[2DIEZEL]

My wifes the moaner when she orgasims, Im more verbal. I like to call her my dirty little whore and how she's such a good wife while were doing anal.