What's your take on one night stands?

[Werd]

Yasmina,

I love women, I study women.

The deal:

If a girl REALLY likes you, she will hold back on sex in order to draw you into a relationship. Dude, usually can take care of her, and is good looking, dresses well, etc..........I understand girls tend to believe that a man will think she is a slut if they bang on the first night, but generally if she is hot, super hot, this is not the case. If she is somewhat hot, then this is true. But then again, a quality man will not give up his freedom unless it is worth it, i.e. being with a superhot girl 24/7.

If a girl is sexually attracted to a man, but does not seem him in her future, she will want him as a one night stand and keep it "secret." from men but not necessarily from her gfs. Frankly, guys who into this people with big dicks, no money, and/or are not very good looking with no future potential.

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This is true of young girls. (I was once there LOL). I now do things differently. I only deal with grown men so whether I have sex with them sooner or later is of no consequence.

 

[ryan04]

I wouldn't know if sex is any better with a girl you care about because I've never cared about one. Just kidding.
Of course sex is better with someone you truly care about, but that is not to say that one night stands don't have their perks. There is a certain freedom brought about by them because each person knows what they want and are more likely to express it. If I go home with a girl from a bar we both know whats going to happen so it's like fuck it, lets get down and dirty. Although not in all cases, I have found the sex is less inhibited and more raw. If I'm with someone I like, at least in the beginning, I'm usually a little more apprehensive because I don't want to do something thats going to offend her or make her think I'm weird (I'm not into weird shit, but if I start smacking her on the ass and telling her how good she feels the 1st time she might think I'm a freak). This eventually goes away and once you become comfortable with someone the sex becomes incredible, but at first it may be a little more 'PG' rated rather than 'R' rated. More standard stuff. For example, if I'm dating a girl the first time will probably just be a lot of kissing and touching and probably some missionary. I've actually had girlfriends that wouldn't get on top or go down on me until after we've been having sex for over a month. But if it's a one night stand, I usually have more of a I-don't-give-a-fuck-lets-get-crazy attitude about it, and so does she. 69, doggy, on the kitchen table...anything goes. It takes time to get used to someone and their likes/dislikes, but one night stands seem to clean the slate and nothing is out of the question.

 

[Werd]

I wouldn't know if sex is any better with a girl you care about because I've never cared about one. Just kidding.
Of course sex is better with someone you truly care about, but that is not to say that one night stands don't have their perks. There is a certain freedom brought about by them because each person knows what they want and are more likely to express it. If I go home with a girl from a bar we both know whats going to happen so it's like fuck it, lets get down and dirty. Although not in all cases, I have found the sex is less inhibited and more raw. If I'm with someone I like, at least in the beginning, I'm usually a little more apprehensive because I don't want to do something thats going to offend her or make her think I'm weird (I'm not into weird shit, but if I start smacking her on the ass and telling her how good she feels the 1st time she might think I'm a freak). This eventually goes away and once you become comfortable with someone the sex becomes incredible, but at first it may be a little more 'PG' rated rather than 'R' rated. More standard stuff. For example, if I'm dating a girl the first time will probably just be a lot of kissing and touching and probably some missionary. I've actually had girlfriends that wouldn't get on top or go down on me until after we've been having sex for over a month. But if it's a one night stand, I usually have more of a I-don't-give-a-fuck-lets-get-crazy attitude about it, and so does she. 69, doggy, on the kitchen table...anything goes. It takes time to get used to someone and their likes/dislikes, but one night stands seem to clean the slate and nothing is out of the question.

Ahhhhhhhhhhhh if only you were dating older women. We are (generally) straightup no bullshit lets fuck till we cough blood from the word "go".

I had this big dude like fucking quivering a ways back. He was told from the getco I MUST call the shots physically. He was even afraid to open his mouth until my tongue pried his lips apart.... drove me MAD CRAZY!! After we made out a bit I got off his lap and started to walk towards his bedroom and said with an evil smile... "You dont think that I drove all this way just to make out with you.... do you?!"

If I see him again (planning on it soon) then great. If not... oh well.

 

[hanselthecaretaker]

One night thingies are HORRIBLE at worst and JUST "EH" at best.

Friends with benefits is very cool, but oh so hard to find. I find that most guys come on me with the "I love you" bullshit eventually.. (not that they really love you, they just want YOU to believe they love you so you will LOVE THEM and then not give the pussy to anyone else... and as soon as you DO love them they are like.. "But I am not ready for this" bullshit.)

Men... you cant live with em and you cant shoot em.

And then there' the std factor if you're just a friend with benefits, not knowing who else he/she has been with in the time being.

 

[Werd]

And then there' the std factor if you're just a friend with benefits, not knowing who else he/she has been with in the time being.

Friends w/benefits or one night stand.... what is the diff? BOTH are non-monogamus relationships.

This is why they make condoms. C'est nes pas?

 

[*MissFit*]

I couldnt have a one night stand

 

[Werd]

I couldnt have a one night stand

I was a good girl when I married at the age of 22. I was faithfull to my ex for about 13 years, even in my dreams. Was 34 y/o when I had my first one night stand. Now closer to 40 than I am 30 and have had a few more. Still not my preference however.

I do what I want, when I want, with whom I want and make no apologies to anyone. I never lie or sugarcoat jack. EVERYONE INVOLVED KNOWS THE DEAL UP FRONT AND EVERYONE IS ALWAYS ENTITLED TO CHANGE THEIR MIND.

Never say never, darlin because never is an awfully long time.

 

[hard life]

Ahhhhhhhhhhhh if only you were dating older women. We are (generally) straightup no bullshit lets fuck till we cough blood from the word "go".

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Ah those were the days, picking up the cougars and drinking my face off.

 

[Gymgurl]

WERD lol

 

[USMC fighter]

hell if its safe and mutual i say fuck her teeth out