What's your take on one night stands?

[*MissFit*]

not for me

 

[Dirk Howat]

Why not?
As long as you wear a condom.
You should be sober so your judgement is better.

 

[BUBBLES]

what if I knew the guy for about 3 days before doing anything, then met up again at a nightclub is that still a one night stand?

anyway, if there is this IT factor....mmmm...it can be the best thing that has ever happened in your life so enjoy it...!!!

 

[Werd]

I dont like 'em. I prefer "un" relationships to tell the truth.

If I meet a guy that I am attracted to then IF I want to, I fuck him. If I like him then I see him again. If not, then oh well.

Condoms are A MUST.

Is this my preference? Not the one night stand thing, but a fuck buddy relationship is very ok IMHO. Is it better than a one on one commitment with someone that I care about, who also cares about me?.... I dunno. Got too much drama for a real relationship and dont care to "share it all" with any one particular person.

 

[Dirk Howat]

what if I knew the guy for about 3 days before doing anything, then met up again at a nightclub is that still a one night stand?

I do not see any problem with it. If a girl does, she generally wants to manipulate you. I.e. marriage, taking your money, etc.........Else:

Why would a girl have a problem just having sex with no strings attached if she was attracted to him.

Its step one.



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[TruBalla4Real]

If there were no STDs going around, or I couldn't potentially get a woman pregnant, I might think differently. I'm definetly not for it from a relationship perspective. I definetly WOULD have been for them before I entered my first deep relationship. It really means something to care about someone and letting them know you care enough about yourself to not indulge in that (I say that because I have had quite a few opportunities but have not taken them up - not saying that to be cocky either). If you have fucked 20 people, let alone have many one-night stands under your belt, something doesn't seem right. Keep in mind I'm only 20 years old so 20 people is a LOT. Honestly, I probably would not date a woman I knew fucked more than five guys (at my age - 20). When I get older unfortunately that number will have to go up. The type of girl I want would agree with me on this. Note that I want a girl that loves to party and have fun (like me), but then again doesn't go that extra step and fuck someone every week/month. Foreplay, etc, fine, sex no.

 

[ThatGirl]

I don't have anything against them, have had a few in my day, but I think that geting to know someone sexually makes sex a whole lot better.

 

[hanselthecaretaker]

Yes, the "it" factor is a big part of it. And being single. There has to be a connection, chemistry, and for me I wouldn't sleep with a chick just because she was hot. This is one reason why I don't like alcohol to be a deciding force on this issue, because impaired judgement can spell disaster. There are times when I could be really horny and if I see some chick at a mall or something that's just too hot, and she let me have her right then and there, I'd be tempted as hell to bone as long as I had a rubber. Never had that happen, but those would be the toughest times to uphold ones character, at least for me.

But then my conscience kicks in and I start thinking about afterward and how it would just be a memory.

If I had a one night stand of all out sex, it would ideally be with a girl I hit it off with and was in a situation(day or night) that was too good to pass up, and would probably never get the chance to do it again.

 

[Gymgurl]

I guess they are okay if that is what you are both looking for. i think I would prefer to have a friend with benifits over a one night thingy

 

[Dirk Howat]

I guess they are okay if that is what you are both looking for. i think I would prefer to have a friend with benifits over a one night thingy

What are the fringe benefits you are alluding to?







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