What's your take on one night stands?

[the-short-one]

You need to add the option for "Used to have them, but am taken off the market now" or something.

More power to the peopleof one nighters. I just don't need or want them anymore. They're for you youngsters.

 

[GoldenDelicious]

circumstances ahve to be very right imo...not into having them just for the sake of it. if she does it for me and we click, ill consider it...but i prefer kissing on the night, myself

 

[BUBBLES]

I do not see any problem with it. If a girl does, she generally wants to manipulate you. I.e. marriage, taking your money, etc.........Else:

Why would a girl have a problem just having sex with no strings attached if she was attracted to him.

Its step one.

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i was told that for a woman to sleep with a guy the first time she sees him she will be considered a slut so women do not win either way...

some women want to preserve their reputation...

 

[SVT-TROY]

You need to add the option for "Used to have them, but am taken off the market now" or something.

More power to the peopleof one nighters. I just don't need or want them anymore. They're for you youngsters.

One night stands are for everybody, It's just that when you're older It's usually coupled with adultry. I think they're more for the older crowd. I'm sure there are many reasons why older women don't want one night stands, 1. They're in a hurry to get married so they prefer husband material to fuck buddies. 2. They're married - oh I forgot, that doesn't matter. 3. They're financially independant, so there goes any need for a man. As always there are the 2% of women that don't fall in this catagory.

 

[Gymgurl]

Hey but sometimes us "older" women just want to get off with nothing involved....I know plenty of women that want the sex but not the bullshit

 

[Werd]

I guess they are okay if that is what you are both looking for. i think I would prefer to have a friend with benifits over a one night thingy

One night thingies are HORRIBLE at worst and JUST "EH" at best.

Friends with benefits is very cool, but oh so hard to find. I find that most guys come on me with the "I love you" bullshit eventually.. (not that they really love you, they just want YOU to believe they love you so you will LOVE THEM and then not give the pussy to anyone else... and as soon as you DO love them they are like.. "But I am not ready for this" bullshit.)

Men... you cant live with em and you cant shoot em.

 

[SVT-TROY]

One night thingies are HORRIBLE at worst and JUST "EH" at best.

Friends with benefits is very cool, but oh so hard to find. I find that most guys come on me with the "I love you" bullshit eventually.. (not that they really love you, they just want YOU to believe they love you so you will LOVE THEM and then not give the pussy to anyone else... and as soon as you DO love them they are like.. "But I am not ready for this" bullshit.)

You are right. Damn jealousy and selfishness; get it out of my mind.

 

[ryan04]

What the fu*k are you guys saying? No one night stands...thats ludicrous. I can see it coming from the women but come on. I'd say at least 65% of my sexual partners were one night stands, and I've been with well over 50 girls. But then again I'm a grad student so I've been around towns full of hot young horny drunk girls for the past 6 yrs. You're only young once so get drunk and bang as many chicks as you can before you're so old, bald and fat hot girls won't even look at you any more w/o gagging. The same goes for the ladies...don't let societies double standards prevent you from having a good time. If you care about a guy it's probably better to make him wait a little, but if you're in the mood and get an opportunity to screw around with some stranger that you're hot for, go for it. As long as you're using protection you'll be allright. Does anyone really want to die and say they never had at least a handful of one night stands? It'll give you something to ponder when you're 80 yrs old shitting yourself and your husband/wife is a decrepid old bag that either can't get it up or is as dry as the desert in July.

No one night stands...that's the stupidest thing I've ever heard and quite frankly it makes me depressed to even think about what life would be like without them. Is this a 'between the sheets' forum or church chat with a bunch of nuns and alter boys?

 

[Dirk Howat]

i was told that for a woman to sleep with a guy the first time she sees him she will be considered a slut so women do not win either way...

some women want to preserve their reputation...

Yasmina,

I love women, I study women.

The deal:

If a girl REALLY likes you, she will hold back on sex in order to draw you into a relationship. Dude, usually can take care of her, and is good looking, dresses well, etc..........I understand girls tend to believe that a man will think she is a slut if they bang on the first night, but generally if she is hot, super hot, this is not the case. If she is somewhat hot, then this is true. But then again, a quality man will not give up his freedom unless it is worth it, i.e. being with a superhot girl 24/7.

If a girl is sexually attracted to a man, but does not seem him in her future, she will want him as a one night stand and keep it "secret." from men but not necessarily from her gfs. Frankly, guys who into this people with big dicks, no money, and/or are not very good looking with no future potential.









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[Werd]

What the fu*k are you guys saying? No one night stands...thats ludicrous. I can see it coming from the women but come on. I'd say at least 65% of my sexual partners were one night stands, and I've been with well over 50 girls. But then again I'm a grad student so I've been around towns full of hot young horny drunk girls for the past 6 yrs. You're only young once so get drunk and bang as many chicks as you can before you're so old, bald and fat hot girls won't even look at you any more w/o gagging. The same goes for the ladies...don't let societies double standards prevent you from having a good time. If you care about a guy it's probably better to make him wait a little, but if you're in the mood and get an opportunity to screw around with some stranger that you're hot for, go for it. As long as you're using protection you'll be allright. Does anyone really want to die and say they never had at least a handful of one night stands? It'll give you something to ponder when you're 80 yrs old shitting yourself and your husband/wife is a decrepid old bag that either can't get it up or is as dry as the desert in July.

No one night stands...that's the stupidest thing I've ever heard and quite frankly it makes me depressed to even think about what life would be like without them. Is this a 'between the sheets' forum or church chat with a bunch of nuns and alter boys?

For me morality is sooooooooooo not an issue. I am a grown woman and I do what I want, when I want and with whom I want and make no excuses. Period. I HAVE a dad and ain't none of the guys I have slept with: him. LOL If I choose to sleep with a man he knows the deal up front. I dont lie to bed a guy. And the men I spend my time with "get it". We are all grownups. If we want to continue to see each other than we do, regardless of when we have sex. Or we fuck and part ways. It is really very simple.

What I think peeps are trying to say is that the sex that comes from some sort of relationship is far better than the "eh" sex that comes from a one night stand.

Of course, when you are deeply in love and in a trusting relationship the sex is MINDBLOWING.

I will fuck who what where when and NEVER say "I'm sorry". If someone has an issue with it they can kiss my rock hard ass. Oh wait a second, they will probably be running their gums because I WONT ALLOW them the opportunity! hehehehehehee