What's up with girls that hang out with their ex-boyfriends?

[foreigngirl]

I stayed friends with my ex-boyfriend and we did have sex after the break up. But eventually that came to a stop and we just stayed friends. Its weird.

 

[Hiatussin]

I stayed friends with my ex-boyfriend and we did have sex after the break up. But eventually that came to a stop and we just stayed friends. Its weird.

So you went from lovers to friends that fucked

whats the difference? other lovers? more hugs?

 

[foreigngirl]

So you went from lovers to friends that fucked

whats the difference? other lovers? more hugs?

I didnt have sex with my boyfriends after I broke up with my ex, cause I was used to being that way only with him. He took a lot of pride in that and tought me how to play them guys. We visited each other only for a talk and coffee and sometimes only for booty calls

 

[UA_Iron]

The reason I ask is that I went to our cafeteria today and saw this girl that always comes into the gym when I am working - she's also and engineer and smokin' hot too! But she was with her ex-bf sitting at a table. I walked by and said hi and chatted a little bit.

Well then sometime later she came over and we talked about stuff asking why I didnt save her from this guy who got her number in the gym (I got the power to kick people out in my gym)... so we talked about that and stuff.

My friend looked over at her ex and I guess he was kind of glaring at me. Just wondering why he'd put himself through situations like that.

 

[superqt4u2nv]

I would NEVER expect my partner to tolerate that. lol When I make decisions about what I'm going to do I try to think of how I would feel if my partner was doing the same thing. I wouldn't approve. I'm not that stupid.

This I don't agree with if your with the right person there is a little something called trust. You either have it or your don't if you don't you are doomed to start with.

I think you know when a guy really is just a friend to a girl when he wants to know her significant other and winds up being friends with her SO and hanging out with him. If a guy is friends with a girl and won't hang out with her and her SO, his interest isn't in friendship.

This I agree with my ex bf has been out with me and guys I was dating since we broke up.

 

[superqt4u2nv]

In that 3 years since did you think about them in a sexual way? Just interested.

Not in the past 2 years the first year of the break up was hard on me. We shared a moment after I had surgery and he was taking care of me but we didn't have sex it was not even really sexual just cuddling.

 

[gotmilk]

This I agree with my ex bf has been out with me and guys I was dating since we broke up.

D...you ignorant slut. No guy can be "just friends". He may smile and talk nice, but he's hanging hoping for more banging.

People break up for a reason.

Hey..LETS NOT DATE ANYMORE SO WE CAN JUST CHILL AND GO OUT ON THE TOWN AS FRIENDS. Bring the dood you're humping too!

You either break up because you hate each other....or you lurk with the hopes that one day things will get back together.

It can be really hard to let someone go and start over...unless you are me.....and drove warp speed to catch someone in the act. Then, it's really easy..... plus some jail time, gas expenses, toll fees, three days of missed classes, the hatred of Mecklenberg County bologne sandwiches, and the actual pain in the ass of driving another 900 miles just to get home.

 

[EnderJE]

In that 3 years since did you think about them in a sexual way? Just interested.

Really? For me, its usually ten seconds after I see her avi.

<someone had to say it>

Looking good, QT!

 

[chewyxrage]

I hang out with my ex girlfriend. Of course, the sex stopped once I got a new girlfriend.

But we still go out to lunch and shit. And if I break up w/ my current gf you can bet your ass I'll be trying bang my older ex again

 

[AAP]

Actually I hang out with my partners ex's. Just so I can hiss at them and threaten them with grave injury should they come sniffing around him again.

We have lunch at least once a week.