What's up with girls that hang out with their ex-boyfriends?

[EnderJE]

Think what you will, doesn't bother me.

But no, it wasn't a conscious decision. I didn't realize it until later and yes, I felt bad about it after the fact. To be honest, it was a therapist who pointed it out to me several years later. Despite the impression, I am not a cold heartless bitch. I just play one on TV

It's called growing up and changing. Everyone goes through that phase. We were all the ones one the leash or the ones leading at one point or another.

I should write hallmark.

 

[Sweet_Bitch]

And then you fucked him and moved on?

Nope, no sex. I knew it would mean FAR more to him then me and I didn't want to hurt him. We were friends, that's it.

 

[EnderJE]

Nope, no sex. I knew it would mean FAR more to him then me and I didn't want to hurt him. We were friends, that's it.

I remember a chick like that from my past. The sad part was that mean and this other guy were dating her on opposing weekends. We only found out about it years later.

 

[Sweet_Bitch]

It's called growing up and changing. Everyone goes through that phase. We were all the ones one the leash or the ones leading at one point or another.

I should write hallmark.

You should, could be your big break I suppose I probably realized it on some level but who knows. I was smart enough not to "date" him or fuck him. I knew he still had a lot of feelings for me and I was very clear with my intentions. We had much in common and had a good time together. I suppose if I had been "that" concerned with hurting him I would have stayed away, knowing how he felt. But I was young and selfish.

 

[Sweet_Bitch]

I remember a chick like that from my past. The sad part was that mean and this other guy were dating her on opposing weekends. We only found out about it years later.

Ouch. But crafty on her part!!

 

[Hiatussin]

me and a friend in HS found out the same girl was sort of stalking the both of us at the same time

We both got these desperate text messages and one day decided to compare the numbers and yes. It was weird. We should have double teamed the bitch. We were so innocent then

 

[EnderJE]

Ouch. But crafty on her part!!

Not really. We both "loved" her. It was expected.

 

[Smurfy]

Is it that the guy is just a tool and still has a lot of feelings for her so he'll do anything to hang around her?

they still have sex?

whats the deal?

I think the key word here is "girls".

 

[jd_uk]

I still talk to my ex from 3 years ago pretty good friends actually want to know the last time we had sex?











3 years ago






Nothing wrong with 2 mature adults being friends.

In that 3 years since did you think about them in a sexual way? Just interested.

 

[Sub-Zero]

Were you conscious of this at the time? did you actually call him to meet up, thinking, I need it to feel better about myself?

I think your behaviour was both pathetic and cruel btw

lol