What would you do if you walked in on your wife with another man?

[Bikini Mod]

If someone is married and they cheat then they are going to cheat REGARDLESS of who that other person is.

IT IS ALWAYS THE FAULT OF THE MARRIED PERSON.

I have never, in my entire life, cheated on anyone I was committed to - whether I was married or not. To me a commitment is a commitment. And we are talking clear, concise - "I only want to be with you" commitment.

If I had a dime for every separated guy I dated who told me that they were legally divorced but then by the end of the date said, "The papers only need be signed" I wouldn't need to worry about money ever. LOL

I dont view that as cheating. I dont care whether or not he goes back to his wife - that is HIS problem. But I do view that as an egregious lie. Dont fucking tell me that you have been divorced over a year if you are ONLY separated.

I can't stand liars.

 

[tinytank]

About 8 months ago I was at work and got an e-mail from a woman I didn't know. It said that my wife had fucked her husband and her best friends husband and she had some pics of my wife with her friends husband to prove it(the guy took some digital pics of her naked and his wife found them on the computer). It was a Monday and I was leaving for a TDY that Friday. Come to find out, my wife cheated with those two guys, two other guys she confessed to, plus a Sgt I used to work for(he PCS'd awhile back). Most of them were at my house while I was at work and my daughter was home.I immediately wanted a divorce and tried to get her sent back to the states early( I have been stationed overseas for almost 3 years now). It took nearly 5 months for my command to get the papers finished for an ERD(early return of dependant) and by then I had already spoke with lawyers and was told that I would most likely have to send my daughter back to the states for the duration of the custody battle(and probably would not be able to get primary custody due to being in the military). So I decided to wait and proceed with the divorce until I get out (in January) because I don't want to be 5,000 miles away from my daughter. I would have seriously killed these guys if I knew where to find them and now am thankfull I didn't know where they were or even who for the most part. A woman isn't worth prison. I am going TDY in three weeks to Afghanistan, and I can only imagine what the wife will be doing while I am gone, not that I really care any more.

fucking hell man, you wife is a whore ! I woulda cut her brakes or something by now ! It is sooo fucked up !! Shurely if she has admitted cheating on you, and you have the photos to prove it. Thats gotta be a big +, for the fight to keep your daughter.

 

[hankes64]

What's up homey, nope nothing happened, nor will anything of this nature ever happen; once you have a taste of this you're hooked for life, lol

I came across a poll in a recent Men's Health issue and believe it or not it seemed to be spot on in comparrison so far.

I was in a similiar situation like this a few years back. I was seeing(booty calls) this older girl for a couple of months when one night she forgot to take her wedding ring off, this is how I found out she was married with three kids; I felt like the biggest piece of shit home-wrecker. Women are scandalious

Hahahaha thats a story of a life time bro!

 

[madteabagger]

fucking hell man, you wife is a whore ! I woulda cut her brakes or something by now ! It is sooo fucked up !! Shurely if she has admitted cheating on you, and you have the photos to prove it. Thats gotta be a big +, for the fight to keep your daughter.

lol, I would have cut the brakes but I only have one car so that would have been bad for me too. I thought in the beginning that her fucking around would help me get custody. As it turn out, the state we were married in is a no fault divorce state and all custody arrangements are made in best interest in the child. Apparently, since my daughter wasn't watching them fuck, it doesn't have much pull in the custody. And since I am military, the courts think I am less fit to care for my kid because of deployments, strange hours, ect. So the court would most likely say I am less fit to have primary custody, all this according to the lawyers I have spoken with.

 

[Cutiebaby]

lol- madteabagger!! what a name

 

[Bikini Mod]

lol, I would have cut the brakes but I only have one car so that would have been bad for me too. I thought in the beginning that her fucking around would help me get custody. As it turn out, the state we were married in is a no fault divorce state and all custody arrangements are made in best interest in the child. Apparently, since my daughter wasn't watching them fuck, it doesn't have much pull in the custody. And since I am military, the courts think I am less fit to care for my kid because of deployments, strange hours, ect. So the court would most likely say I am less fit to have primary custody, all this according to the lawyers I have spoken with.

The lawyers are giving you accurate legal advise.

 

[tinytank]

lol, I would have cut the brakes but I only have one car so that would have been bad for me too. I thought in the beginning that her fucking around would help me get custody. As it turn out, the state we were married in is a no fault divorce state and all custody arrangements are made in best interest in the child. Apparently, since my daughter wasn't watching them fuck, it doesn't have much pull in the custody. And since I am military, the courts think I am less fit to care for my kid because of deployments, strange hours, ect. So the court would most likely say I am less fit to have primary custody, all this according to the lawyers I have spoken with.

yeah but then she has done the dirty on you , and she gets to screw you over again with all the child bills ( which are all good to take care and support you child ) but why on earth should you pay for all of your daughters stuff. What about Her cheating, doesnt that count as her being iresponable ?

 

[jack sparrow]

Duct tape them both together face to face.
Place them in the bed they betrayed me in.
Burn the fucking place down to the ground.
Turn my self in.
Spend my 10 or 15 years in prison.

The End.

 

[Hiatussin]

Sure, why not, OJ Simpson pulled it off.

 

[Hiatussin]

I could see that and totally understand about the military women thing. NOT TRYING TO DEGRADE ANY MILITARY WOMEN HERE, but when I was in the military, it was amazing how many of my buddies wives or girlfriends would show up at the NCO Club all gussied up with NO wedding ring on, as soon as theie S/O's went TDY. Pretty common but still sad.

and that´s when they KNOW there are people around that recognise them.