reaper99 said:To expect monagamy in the first place is ignorance!! ALWAYS expect the unexpected. It might just be me but I am not so easily hurt emotionally. Trust and all that only go so far. I would personaly leave the scene and ditch the bitch. Whats the big deal? violence is retarded its for the weak minded and self conscience.
well, I disagree! A commitment is a commitment! When I commit there is no cheating, lying, nona that shit. I have a damn hard time breaking down my wall also, but when I do I have done it according to the way I am treated and the way I feel about that person. I don't and will never expect him to cheat on me. If I walked into every relationship like that then I would never make one month with that person.
I can be cold and distant, thats no problem for me at all. I've shelled up and not let a damn thing hurt me. Been one cold hearted bitch for years due to some issues. But I've learned that I was just stuck there and TRUST is very important in any long term relationship. After a serious commitment and you are still thinking that same way? Well then its time to move on!