What makes you feel used???

[PBR]

Man, being lied to, it makes me feel like a fool ... I was married to a pathological liar and he STILL doesn't understand what he did that pissed me off to the point I divorced him.

I've told my current husband he could get involved with another woman -- heck bring her home if she cleans, cooks and does laundry, I'd love me a wife -- but DO NOT F***ING lie about it to me! I could forgive him loving someone else, not the lie.

thats interesting....re: [forgiving him for loving someone else]....truely it is the only way to be at peace about such a thing- it is a loss that has to be endured...a reflection of "self" that no doubt plays at war in the mind if allowed to do so.

 

[Gymgurl]

I think that being lied to is the hardest thing to deal with whenyou really really thought that you could trust a person with everything.

 

[Gymgurl]

bump for more on this topic

 

[BOWTECH]

now that I'm married - nothing. Before that - booty calls made me feel used (sometimes)

I love feeling used when it comes to that!

 

[MILF69]

I love feeling used when it comes to that!

I'll use you Bowtech!!!!! In a very dirty way!

 

[BOWTECH]

I'll use you Bowtech!!!!! In a very dirty way!

Don't write a check your not prepared to cash

 

[MILF69]

Don't write a check your not prepared to cash

Please!!!!! BABY YOU COULDN'T HANDLE A GIRL LIKE ME!

 

[Gymgurl]

Well Bow you are only 25 min from me....maybe I'll use you as grunge fuck someday....lol

 

[vinylgroover]

i have just come out of a situation in which i was manipulated to give and keep giving. i met a woman who's self esteem was quite low and she used me to improve her self esteem and feelings of self worth......i fell in love, and gave so much of myself. despite claiming she never knew how i really felt, she kept sucking it out of me and then cut me a drift. it has sucked the life out me

 

[H_T_]

it's very rare to have a true 50/50 relationship. there is always one of the two who does more, pursues more, gives more, etc. it seems thats what relationships have become, a pursuit. and when the two do something other than routine, fights ensue. but things change, people change. it doesn't mean it's the end of your world. seems many of us have too much time on our hands and overthink. you gotta remember, the only life we are in charge of is our own. and btw, i'll be microwaving my thanksgiving dinner.....