it's very rare to have a true 50/50 relationship. there is always one of the two who does more, pursues more, gives more, etc. it seems thats what relationships have become, a pursuit. and when the two do something other than routine, fights ensue. but things change, people change. it doesn't mean it's the end of your world. seems many of us have too much time on our hands and overthink. you gotta remember, the only life we are in charge of is our own. and btw, i'll be microwaving my thanksgiving dinner.....