"What is your view on the relationship between "sex" and "love"?

[Megalomaniac]

I like how the divorce rate is over 50% and nobody on EF cheats. If over 50% of marriages end up in divorce(most of which involved cheating) plus all the ones that remain even though cheating exists what percent of mere relationships actually have cheating at some point? I don't think very many people are being honest here. As for me, I never get dates, laid or relationships so I pretty much can assume I'm the only one out there who isn't in a relationship with cheating.

 

[jestro]

I like how the divorce rate is over 50% and nobody on EF cheats. If over 50% of marriages end up in divorce(most of which involved cheating) plus all the ones that remain even though cheating exists what percent of mere relationships actually have cheating at some point? I don't think very many people are being honest here. As for me, I never get dates, laid or relationships so I pretty much can assume I'm the only one out there who isn't in a relationship with cheating.

Well, I'm divorced, and I didn't cheat on my X once, not even sticking my nose in some bewbs.
The only time I cheated, I was 15 and drunk, and I kissed 2 chicks at a concert when I was going out with someone.

 

[Stefka]

I like how the divorce rate is over 50% and nobody on EF cheats. If over 50% of marriages end up in divorce(most of which involved cheating) plus all the ones that remain even though cheating exists what percent of mere relationships actually have cheating at some point? I don't think very many people are being honest here. As for me, I never get dates, laid or relationships so I pretty much can assume I'm the only one out there who isn't in a relationship with cheating.

I've never been married. I've cheated plenty of times. I've been cheated on pleny of times. Life sucks.

 

[Megalomaniac]

Well, I'm divorced, and I didn't cheat on my X once, not even sticking my nose in some bewbs.
The only time I cheated, I was 15 and drunk, and I kissed 2 chicks at a concert when I was going out with someone.

No man I get it, everyone online here doesn't cheat. It is simple math really, not one person on EF cheats but the rest of the world does so the number add up. I just can't believe how lucky I am to have found a board of such honest loyal people while the rest of the boards are full of bastards.

Thus the answer to the question is for EF'ers love and sex are hand and hand.

 

[hanselthecaretaker]

More definitive definition or description needed.

If I were more scientifically inclined I would; however perhaps the origin of love itself is a tall order for even science to disect.

Dammit, now I'm just thinking of that Coldplay song.

 

[Stefka]

Love confuses me.
You think you are in love and then the next person comes along and you "love" him even more.
I'm not sure it even exits.

 

[samoth]

Love confuses me.
You think you are in love and then the next person comes along and you "love" him even more.
I'm not sure it even exits.

I tend to agree that the notion of love is man-made.

 

[samoth]

Thus the answer to the question is for EF'ers love and sex are hand and hand.

That seems to be how modern society behaves.

 

[Stefka]

I tend to agree that the notion of love is man-made.

Never say that to someone you are dating. They will not appreciate that at all. I've done that a few times. I've learned it is best to just keep your mouth shut. I don't date stupid people - just very emotional people. I had no idea that a comment like "maybe love is just a social construct" would really offend them.

 

[javaguru]

Love confuses me.
You think you are in love and then the next person comes along and you "love" him even more.
I'm not sure it even exits.

Not for me....it may seem more intense in the moment but my ex-wife could call me for a favor tomorrow; We were divorced in 2001 and I would be there because I will always love her...it's different now but I do love her...