I hate to break this, but sometimes when women really aren't in the mood and we are preoccupied with all the stuff that we have to do and how little time we have to do it, we will pretend to just want a cut-to-the-chase quicky so that you can get off, we can pretend that we did, and then we can get back to doing the laundry.
If women are being honest, they will admit it...lol.