watching wife being banged

[Machiavellian Muscle]

I use to be heavily involved in this scene. You are right when you say a lot of committed people cheat. So logically you would rather have them do it in front of you. So you have threesomes, foursomes, whatever your heart desires. It is cool and the two of you as a couple flourish and get to "know" each other better. Well let me tell you something all of the people who I know did this and I mean all of them also cheated on the side. This is what I find to be so funny b/c all of the swinging couples are so dillusional because they think they are so strong and open with their mate. Well guess what people more than like your wife/husband is getting some action on the side. Believe it or not it is more than likely true. But all of you hardcore swingers will think in your head nah not me we are close we do it together. Whatever keep telling yourselves that to make you feel more secure. Truth hurts though.

 

[Machiavellian Muscle]

Bottom line is this:

Sex is just that... SEX
Love is just that...LOVE

Once you can seperate them and not get jealous, you will have a long happy life with your partner.

So if your lover came home and said I just got fucked by Harry and his cock was soooo goood. You would say ok she just had sex with him, did not make love to him, this is ok then. Or is it only ok because it is in front of you. If you agree with the latter statement you are only fooling yourself if you think your partner is not getting side action. Chances are they are.

 

[BigRedCat]

That is beside the point, what Kronk is saying the truth. You need to seperate the 2. Why do you think so many guys cheat on their wives? It dosen't mean they dont love their wife does it? The usually seperate it as just sex. You need to be open and honest- just because a couple has 3some's dosen't mean they are hornballing around with everyone. Many couple's like Kronk and Little K just do it ocassionally. I save it for E parties, that is the best!

 

[WIDELAT]

IN THESE OPEN RELATIONSHIPS IT SEEMS TO BE A DOUBLE STANDARD GOING ON MOSTLY TO PLEASE THE GUYS I NEVER HEAR ABOUT ANY OF THESE GIRLS GETTING PLEASED BY TWO GUYS AND ARE THE MALES IN THESE OPEN RELATIONSHIPS OPEN TO THERE LADY HAVINEG SEX WITH THEM AND ANOTHER GUY? OR ARE THEY AGAINST IT?

 

[BigRedCat]

Yes Widelat it is a double standard in most cases- one that is agreed upon by both parties. I have no interest in seeing another dude plowing my girl so we agree that only chicks are fair game. However since the girls involved in this kind of thing like girls as well then they are definately getting something from it- it isn't all just for the man. By definition swingers are into the MMF thing, people who do the ocassional 3some are not. Like Kronk, I'm not sure but I doubt he wants a dude doing little K.

 

[WIDELAT]

WHAT IF THE GIRL WANTED IT? AND IF THAT IS THE CASE THEN HOW IS IT SEPARATING SEX AND LOVE IF ITS JUST SEX THEN THE GIRL IN THESE OPEN RELATIONSHIPS SHOULD BE ABLE TO BANG OTHER GUYS WITHOUT ANY PROBLEMS. IF THE GUYS DON'T WANT ANY OTHER GUYS INVOLVED THEN ITS NOT JUST SEX.

 

[BigRedCat]

If the girls wants that then too bad for her. If she cheats then you dump her ass. Simple. Like I said, it has to be agreed upon that you both want to add a girl into the mix. No guys for me thanks. Most girls are cool with this arangement. If they really want a guy and you agree to it fine but not me. I'll stick with the double standard.

 

[WIDELAT]

THEN HOW CAN YOU SAY SEX IS JUST SEX.

 

[b fold the truth]

If my girl wanted that, I would try to be as understanding as possible. Our personal relationship is just that to me...very personal. I could not imagine sharing something personal with someone else...I would probably crack if I saw it...

B True

 

[DeezGunz]

lets say I was married and had a threesome, it would never be wth another guy. The only way I would have one was it it was two girls and me, in that case, I would let the two get it on right in front of me.