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If you allow your wife to be banged by other guys, why the hell are you even married?!
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BigRedCat
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Here is my take on this:
Differant strokes for differant folkes. Not every couple shares the same ideas of intimacy as everyone else. Some couples feel that adding another person to their sexual experience enhances the love they feel for each other. Allot of guys get off watching another man pleasure their woman. Many women get off watching another female get their back blown out by their man. I personally would not ever want another guy touching my women but to each his own. Just because the "standard" marriage means no sexual contact with anyone besides your spouse does not mean that every marriage is that way. I think couples that trust each other enough to enjoy exciting sex are better off than the couples who cheat on each other. I enjoy the double standard and so do allot of woman as well. Many women these days are curious about other girls and why not? Women are beautiful. So...if your women has no interest in other men(which is how you would ideally want it-being a man anyway) and she understands that if you were to be with another women(and her) that it is only for fun, why is it so bad? Granted you really have to be secure in your relationship or problems can arise. It depends upon your maturity level when dealing with sexual issues. I think the sex itself is differant when another person is added. When you are with your lover you are more intimate and when you are in a 3some it has a differant dynamic. It isn't "making love" so much as well...hot fucking. It turns couples on later when they are just with each other thinking about the hot time they had.
There are definately problems that can occur when you mess around with this stuff, so you guys are right about that. Someone could get jelous or maybe you might really like the girl you have the 3some with and she might want to screw you without your partner etc...lots of things could happen. That is why I think you need to think it out properly and find the right person to do it with. I really think it is best with someone neither of you will see again or at least someone who would not turn into anything more than just sex. I guess that is why swinger couples pick people up at bars and such(way to risky if you ask me).
Look at it like this: if you marry or are with someone that is what you consider to be your "soul mate" and she is incredibly intelligent,beautiful,funny and whatever other wonderful traits you desire- then when you together seek another female to throw in the mix, it is more like she is a toy for you two. See what I mean? I have some younger friends(19-21,I am 29 my girl is 23-so you dont think I am an old creepy swinger or something) that I have known for a long time and when they have house parties there are always some young hotties there that like to get busy. They are the best because we are only attracted to them physically(they are usually not the smartest or most intellectually stimulation creatures) and that way it is just fun. Cute,young,not so smart,hot- you get the picture. Like hot little fuck toys- that sounds bad but that is how allot of guys look at ALL women. I think those that are into this might understand what I mean. Basically just fun girls- no one you would really want to date or whatever. Girls like that are great, they are a blast to hang with and it creates a wonderful sexual tension.
In general I am against "swinging" because that denotes that you are into MMF which I am NOT into. I just think you should keep an open mind because you only live once and you dont want to die with regrets. I dont ever want to be that married guy(I am not married now) that pines away for his secretary or some shit like that. I dont believe in cheating, in fact I have no problems being completely monogomous. I do however think that if you do have a female that is into girls you might as well take advantage of it from time to time.
Lets hear from some of you that have actually done this with your lover and are still together. I wonder what the statistics are on marriages staying together when 3some's are part of their relationship. What do you think? Would you think it would hurt or strengthen the relationship?
Differant strokes for differant folkes. Not every couple shares the same ideas of intimacy as everyone else. Some couples feel that adding another person to their sexual experience enhances the love they feel for each other. Allot of guys get off watching another man pleasure their woman. Many women get off watching another female get their back blown out by their man. I personally would not ever want another guy touching my women but to each his own. Just because the "standard" marriage means no sexual contact with anyone besides your spouse does not mean that every marriage is that way. I think couples that trust each other enough to enjoy exciting sex are better off than the couples who cheat on each other. I enjoy the double standard and so do allot of woman as well. Many women these days are curious about other girls and why not? Women are beautiful. So...if your women has no interest in other men(which is how you would ideally want it-being a man anyway) and she understands that if you were to be with another women(and her) that it is only for fun, why is it so bad? Granted you really have to be secure in your relationship or problems can arise. It depends upon your maturity level when dealing with sexual issues. I think the sex itself is differant when another person is added. When you are with your lover you are more intimate and when you are in a 3some it has a differant dynamic. It isn't "making love" so much as well...hot fucking. It turns couples on later when they are just with each other thinking about the hot time they had.
There are definately problems that can occur when you mess around with this stuff, so you guys are right about that. Someone could get jelous or maybe you might really like the girl you have the 3some with and she might want to screw you without your partner etc...lots of things could happen. That is why I think you need to think it out properly and find the right person to do it with. I really think it is best with someone neither of you will see again or at least someone who would not turn into anything more than just sex. I guess that is why swinger couples pick people up at bars and such(way to risky if you ask me).
Look at it like this: if you marry or are with someone that is what you consider to be your "soul mate" and she is incredibly intelligent,beautiful,funny and whatever other wonderful traits you desire- then when you together seek another female to throw in the mix, it is more like she is a toy for you two. See what I mean? I have some younger friends(19-21,I am 29 my girl is 23-so you dont think I am an old creepy swinger or something) that I have known for a long time and when they have house parties there are always some young hotties there that like to get busy. They are the best because we are only attracted to them physically(they are usually not the smartest or most intellectually stimulation creatures) and that way it is just fun. Cute,young,not so smart,hot- you get the picture. Like hot little fuck toys- that sounds bad but that is how allot of guys look at ALL women. I think those that are into this might understand what I mean. Basically just fun girls- no one you would really want to date or whatever. Girls like that are great, they are a blast to hang with and it creates a wonderful sexual tension.
In general I am against "swinging" because that denotes that you are into MMF which I am NOT into. I just think you should keep an open mind because you only live once and you dont want to die with regrets. I dont ever want to be that married guy(I am not married now) that pines away for his secretary or some shit like that. I dont believe in cheating, in fact I have no problems being completely monogomous. I do however think that if you do have a female that is into girls you might as well take advantage of it from time to time.
Lets hear from some of you that have actually done this with your lover and are still together. I wonder what the statistics are on marriages staying together when 3some's are part of their relationship. What do you think? Would you think it would hurt or strengthen the relationship?
Puddles
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You're wise beyond your 29 years, BigRed. 
So much of what you said describes how things are here. We've been married for 18 yrs...half of my life. We talked about it for about 6 months before actually diving into our first 3-some. This part of what you said really says a lot:
"It depends upon your maturity level when dealing with sexual issues. I think the sex itself is differant when another person is added. When you are with your lover you are more intimate and when you are in a 3some it has a differant dynamic. It isn't "making love" so much as well...hot fucking. It turns couples on later when they are just with each other thinking about the hot time they had."
I get so turned on when visions of our 3-some times pop into my head and my husband and I enjoy reminissing together, but of course there are times when we just want to be alone...it's just very different. I'm so fortunate to be able to have it both ways...makes life very enjoyable!
So much of what you said describes how things are here. We've been married for 18 yrs...half of my life. We talked about it for about 6 months before actually diving into our first 3-some. This part of what you said really says a lot:
"It depends upon your maturity level when dealing with sexual issues. I think the sex itself is differant when another person is added. When you are with your lover you are more intimate and when you are in a 3some it has a differant dynamic. It isn't "making love" so much as well...hot fucking. It turns couples on later when they are just with each other thinking about the hot time they had."
I get so turned on when visions of our 3-some times pop into my head and my husband and I enjoy reminissing together, but of course there are times when we just want to be alone...it's just very different. I'm so fortunate to be able to have it both ways...makes life very enjoyable!
38DoubleDamnGood
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MrsPuddlesFL said:
I would have to agree with MrsPuddles...and I think we have a wonderful, open minded, mature relationship...
TheStromba
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I agree
Well as being part of the above threesome, I feel I have to chime in.
Keep in mind that I am 38 years old and married for 18 Years. I have a confidence and maturity that I did not have at 20 or even 30. MrsPuddlesfl and I have spent our ENTIRE adult lives together. We have a confidence in our relationship that younger couples have not earned yet.
If you dont feel like you can talk about ANYTHING with your partner then don't do it. Remember it took us 18 years to get to this point, I dont expect it to be for everyone.
But I'm so glad we got here.... We are really having a good time. The sex is great the company is great and we are creating memories that will last the rest of our lives
Well as being part of the above threesome, I feel I have to chime in.
Keep in mind that I am 38 years old and married for 18 Years. I have a confidence and maturity that I did not have at 20 or even 30. MrsPuddlesfl and I have spent our ENTIRE adult lives together. We have a confidence in our relationship that younger couples have not earned yet.
If you dont feel like you can talk about ANYTHING with your partner then don't do it. Remember it took us 18 years to get to this point, I dont expect it to be for everyone.
But I'm so glad we got here.... We are really having a good time. The sex is great the company is great and we are creating memories that will last the rest of our lives
SEE I DON'T SEE INDULGING IN YOUR LUSTFUL PLEASURES ARE REALLY BEING MATURE THOUGH. IT SHOWS THAT IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP THAT YOUR NOT SEXUAL SATISFIED WITH EACH OTHER AND HAVE TO BRING OTHER PEOPLE INTO IT. IF I WAS IN A SERIOUS LOVING RELATIONSHIP AND MY GIRL SAID SHE JUST WANTED TO WATCH ME FUCK SOMEONE I WOULD NOT DO IT AND PROBABLY STEP BACK IN THE RELATIONSHIP BECAUSE THAT WOULD BOTHER ME A LOT. BUT AT THE SAME TIME I BELIEVE IN GOD AND HOW JESUS SAID IF YOU COMMIT ADULTERY YOU SHOULD BE KILLED THAT IS PROBABLY THE MOST SACRED RULE TO ME IS MARRAIGE IT IS A BOND BETWEEN MAN AND WOMEN BECOMING ONE IN THE EYES OF GOD. IF THREESOMES ARE SOMEONE'S CUP OF TEA DON'T BE MARRIED BECAUSE IT IS NOT KEEPING THE MARRAIGE SACRED.
milo hobgoblin
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LOL
How did I know that a guy who types in caps in every post he writes would bring "jeebus" and religion into this sooner or later....
Hey Widelat here are some other things that are stated in the bible...DO YOU PRACTICE THEM ALSO?
In Deuteronomy 22:28-29 it says that if a man rapes a virgin, he must marry her and also pay her father 50 shekels for humbling her.
Women are not allowed to talk in church, in fact the idea of them speaking in church is shameful. This is made very clear in 1 Corinthians 14:34-35. Women are to remain silent, and if they have any questions they are to ask their husbands at home after church.
Not only are women inferior to men, but they should treat their husbands as they treat God. Check this quote out from Ephesians 5:22-24 "wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body. Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in every thing."
1 Timothy chapter 2 is another chapter that is dedicated to saying women are below men, and also says women are to dress plainly. But let's take a harder look at where women stand in this chapter. It says that women are to learn in silence without subjection... they cannot teach nor "usurp authority over the man". It also makes it clear that Adam was first, then Eve. And the Garden of Eden thing, with the forbidden fruit... well that was 100% Eve's fault
Oh how I so love Christianity..... If this is how you treat your women then I feel sorry for any woman who would dedicate her life to a man who follows the bible literally.
How did I know that a guy who types in caps in every post he writes would bring "jeebus" and religion into this sooner or later....
Hey Widelat here are some other things that are stated in the bible...DO YOU PRACTICE THEM ALSO?
In Deuteronomy 22:28-29 it says that if a man rapes a virgin, he must marry her and also pay her father 50 shekels for humbling her.
Women are not allowed to talk in church, in fact the idea of them speaking in church is shameful. This is made very clear in 1 Corinthians 14:34-35. Women are to remain silent, and if they have any questions they are to ask their husbands at home after church.
Not only are women inferior to men, but they should treat their husbands as they treat God. Check this quote out from Ephesians 5:22-24 "wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body. Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in every thing."
1 Timothy chapter 2 is another chapter that is dedicated to saying women are below men, and also says women are to dress plainly. But let's take a harder look at where women stand in this chapter. It says that women are to learn in silence without subjection... they cannot teach nor "usurp authority over the man". It also makes it clear that Adam was first, then Eve. And the Garden of Eden thing, with the forbidden fruit... well that was 100% Eve's fault
Oh how I so love Christianity..... If this is how you treat your women then I feel sorry for any woman who would dedicate her life to a man who follows the bible literally.
milo hobgoblin
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LOL here are some more
Oh it just warms my heart to be able to say this.... more fine examples of polygamous relationships by famous Christians
Genesis 4:19 is where the first mention of polygamy comes in. Lamech felt the need for two wives, and thus was born a long line of men with multitudes of wives.]
Genesis chapter 36 reveals to us that Esau had a few wives also
Even good ol' David had a great many wives. Not enough though, it turns out, because he got more in 1 Chronicles chapter 14... not to mention he had 13 more kids.
And then there is Solomon, king of all polygamists. This guy had 700 wives, and 300 concubines. That's a different woman every night for 3 years. Holy cow!!! Or better yet, 3 women per night, per year, with 3 days off per month. Okay quit drooling, the point was to say that polygamy is condoned throughout the Bible, so why do modern Christians condemn those who want more than one woman?
I guess all these "Christians" had approval from god to screw a bunch of women??? Or did they just spend a ridiculous amount of time in divorce court???
Kudos to WIDELAT for opening Pandora's box.
Oh it just warms my heart to be able to say this.... more fine examples of polygamous relationships by famous Christians
Genesis 4:19 is where the first mention of polygamy comes in. Lamech felt the need for two wives, and thus was born a long line of men with multitudes of wives.]
Genesis chapter 36 reveals to us that Esau had a few wives also
Even good ol' David had a great many wives. Not enough though, it turns out, because he got more in 1 Chronicles chapter 14... not to mention he had 13 more kids.
And then there is Solomon, king of all polygamists. This guy had 700 wives, and 300 concubines. That's a different woman every night for 3 years. Holy cow!!! Or better yet, 3 women per night, per year, with 3 days off per month. Okay quit drooling, the point was to say that polygamy is condoned throughout the Bible, so why do modern Christians condemn those who want more than one woman?
I guess all these "Christians" had approval from god to screw a bunch of women??? Or did they just spend a ridiculous amount of time in divorce court???
Kudos to WIDELAT for opening Pandora's box.
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