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watching wife being banged

i had a wild 3 way (a manage-a-twat as he sez) with my best friend/broly/partner in higher acts of stupidity and his wife.

it was an erotic, pornographic ego rush to boink her, with him urging me on and joining in.
 
longerlasting said:
does anyone like watching wife/girlfriend getting fucked, and if so, have you allowed it to happen?
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well i hope if u r watchin her gettin banged, uve "allowed" it lol :D

anyhoo this topic has always made me wonder, people who have done this, seem to rave about it, but before were worried...as like most people would be
 
I would think it would be exciting to watch your loved one being pleased in as many ways possible. Would it be safer, though, with someone you know, or a stranger?
 
Hmmm...

I wish my girlfriend was more attracted to men (LOL other than me of course) than women, I have always wanted to have a foursome with another couple.... oh well....patience is a virtue...
 
IF YOU CAN'T PLEASE YOUR LOVER IN AS MANY WAYS AS SHE NEEDS ON YOUR OWN THEN I DON'T CONSIDER THE GUY IN THE RELATIONSHIP A REAL MAN. IF IM IN A RELATIONSHIP ITS BETWEEN ME AND MY LADY ANYTHING GOES EXCEPT SOMEONE ELSE COMING IN. IF I CAN'T PLEASE HER THEN I'M NOT A MAN.
 
I'm the dominant male who struts around protecting the heard. First sign of competition... We settle it right there. Ahhh, to be young dumb and full of cum.
firstenrgy
 
As a fantasy it would seem kind of twisted and possible cool. But in reality in could cause problems. If you did it with a close group of friends you might feel uncomfortable in the future. Would you trust your girl to go over to her girlfriends house if her girlfriends man banged your girl. It gets really confusing. Often times best left in fantasy land...
 
Mackavelli said:
As a fantasy it would seem kind of twisted and possible cool. But in reality in could cause problems. If you did it with a close group of friends you might feel uncomfortable in the future. Would you trust your girl to go over to her girlfriends house if her girlfriends man banged your girl. It gets really confusing. Often times best left in fantasy land...
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Come on man, you call watching your girl getting banged by someone else a fantasy? This thread is becoming more retared that I feel like a case of down syndrome coming on.

:alien:
 
Mysterio said:


Come on man, you call watching your girl getting banged by someone else a fantasy? This thread is becoming more retared that I feel like a case of down syndrome coming on.

:alien:
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No bro, not my fantasy, but my point was that this could only lead to possible problems.
 
I could not imagine this...

B True
 
Mackavelli said:


No bro, not my fantasy, but my point was that this could only lead to possible problems.
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Ok I'm sorry then. Yeah I'd say who ever would allow that is fucked up in the head and already has problems.
 
I agree Mysterio! That shit is wacked...of course my girl likes to watch me bang other chicks...that is cool. It is an understandable double standard eh?
 
BigRedCat said:
I agree Mysterio! That shit is wacked...of course my girl likes to watch me bang other chicks...that is cool. It is an understandable double standard eh?
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Not a double standard, it's just your preference (and ours too). We are the same way here...my husband and I have been married for 18 years and we are not into a MFM 3-some at all, neither of us, but we do enjoy a FMF 3-some with a dear friend of ours!

For some odd reason, I have no interest in having another man...maybe it's because my man fulfills me completely, but I am bi and about a year ago I told my husband that I wanted to watch him bang another g/f of ours...that didn't work out, thank God...cuz the girl we have now is the BEST!

If you're in a SOLID relationship based on love and trust, then it can work out wonderfully. Without complete trust though, problems will surely arise.
 
BigRedCat said:
I agree Mysterio! That shit is wacked...of course my girl likes to watch me bang other chicks...that is cool. It is an understandable double standard eh?
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Don't take this the wrong way either but I don't agree with a threesome period! I think anyone is a fool and that any couple that fills they need to resort to a 3some just indicates that their relationship isn't what it should be....that's not love.....having sex with someone other then your wife or husband is not love.
 
I guess it depends on your definition of what love is. Some people view sex as an activity and adding others into the mix spices things up a bit. I think in general that 3somes are best left to complete strangers but some couples make it work if they are close enough and have the trust. It works for me because I am in a band(with my girl) and there are allot of girls around us so...since she also enjoys girls from time to time- why not? I do see your point though Mysterio. It isn't for everyone.
 
BigRedCat said:
I guess it depends on your definition of what love is. Some people view sex as an activity and adding others into the mix spices things up a bit. I think in general that 3somes are best left to complete strangers but some couples make it work if they are close enough and have the trust. It works for me because I am in a band(with my girl) and there are allot of girls around us so...since she also enjoys girls from time to time- why not? I do see your point though Mysterio. It isn't for everyone.
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Just be careful man!
 
IF I WERE TO HAVE A THREESOME IT WOULD BE WITH PEOPLE WHO I DID NOT RESPECT AND LOOKED AT LIKE WHORES I NEVER COULD DO IT WITH SOMEONE I CARED ABOUT BECAUSE IT SHOWS THEM THAT I DON'T CARE ABOUT THEM AND IF THEY WOULD DO IT EVEN IF IT WAS WITH 2 FEMALES, THAT SHE DID NOT CARE ABOUT ME I WOULD BE DISCUSTED BY MY LADY AFTER SOMETHING LIKE THAT AND NEVER TRUST HER AGAIN.
 
WIDELAT said:
IF I WERE TO HAVE A THREESOME IT WOULD BE WITH PEOPLE WHO I DID NOT RESPECT AND LOOKED AT LIKE WHORES I NEVER COULD DO IT WITH SOMEONE I CARED ABOUT BECAUSE IT SHOWS THEM THAT I DON'T CARE ABOUT THEM AND IF THEY WOULD DO IT EVEN IF IT WAS WITH 2 FEMALES, THAT SHE DID NOT CARE ABOUT ME I WOULD BE DISCUSTED BY MY LADY AFTER SOMETHING LIKE THAT AND NEVER TRUST HER AGAIN.
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Exactly it's not love it's more like lust.
 
When your love is as strong as it is in my marriage, one of the things that love means is wanting to make your partner as happy as possible. You want to do all that you can to make every dream and fantasy of theirs come true. If BOTH partners want to include another person at times for sexual pleasure, how can that not be good? It's a shared enjoyment by everyone! Sex is one activity that you can do together for the simple PLEASURE of it all, and why not make it as fun as possible? Just looking into your partners eyes as they are giving and receiving pleasure with a FRIEND is so awesome. Having a 3-some with a stranger used to be appealing to us, but now I don't see that happening.
 
Now all you guys who are against it, would you bang another babe while she watched? If yes, then how is that different?
 
Spectre said:
Now all you guys who are against it, would you bang another babe while she watched? If yes, then how is that different?
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I'm sure they'd be happy to, but that's the double standard all the "manly" types set, no one touches my girl but sure I'd do a threesome with another woman...
 
Spectre said:
Now all you guys who are against it, would you bang another babe while she watched? If yes, then how is that different?
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I agree that if the other person is only watching, then there is no difference. But in a threesome relationship, if your girl is Bi, then she is having fun with you and the other girl. She gets just as much out of it as you do.

Now in a MMW threesome....well you get the picture :o
 
Spectre said:
Now all you guys who are against it, would you bang another babe while she watched? If yes, then how is that different?
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First of all, I don't fall into the category you just described because I believe a couple shouldn't share intimacy with no one else but your lover.
 
Here is my take on this:
Differant strokes for differant folkes. Not every couple shares the same ideas of intimacy as everyone else. Some couples feel that adding another person to their sexual experience enhances the love they feel for each other. Allot of guys get off watching another man pleasure their woman. Many women get off watching another female get their back blown out by their man. I personally would not ever want another guy touching my women but to each his own. Just because the "standard" marriage means no sexual contact with anyone besides your spouse does not mean that every marriage is that way. I think couples that trust each other enough to enjoy exciting sex are better off than the couples who cheat on each other. I enjoy the double standard and so do allot of woman as well. Many women these days are curious about other girls and why not? Women are beautiful. So...if your women has no interest in other men(which is how you would ideally want it-being a man anyway) and she understands that if you were to be with another women(and her) that it is only for fun, why is it so bad? Granted you really have to be secure in your relationship or problems can arise. It depends upon your maturity level when dealing with sexual issues. I think the sex itself is differant when another person is added. When you are with your lover you are more intimate and when you are in a 3some it has a differant dynamic. It isn't "making love" so much as well...hot fucking. It turns couples on later when they are just with each other thinking about the hot time they had.

There are definately problems that can occur when you mess around with this stuff, so you guys are right about that. Someone could get jelous or maybe you might really like the girl you have the 3some with and she might want to screw you without your partner etc...lots of things could happen. That is why I think you need to think it out properly and find the right person to do it with. I really think it is best with someone neither of you will see again or at least someone who would not turn into anything more than just sex. I guess that is why swinger couples pick people up at bars and such(way to risky if you ask me).

Look at it like this: if you marry or are with someone that is what you consider to be your "soul mate" and she is incredibly intelligent,beautiful,funny and whatever other wonderful traits you desire- then when you together seek another female to throw in the mix, it is more like she is a toy for you two. See what I mean? I have some younger friends(19-21,I am 29 my girl is 23-so you dont think I am an old creepy swinger or something) that I have known for a long time and when they have house parties there are always some young hotties there that like to get busy. They are the best because we are only attracted to them physically(they are usually not the smartest or most intellectually stimulation creatures) and that way it is just fun. Cute,young,not so smart,hot- you get the picture. Like hot little fuck toys- that sounds bad but that is how allot of guys look at ALL women. I think those that are into this might understand what I mean. Basically just fun girls- no one you would really want to date or whatever. Girls like that are great, they are a blast to hang with and it creates a wonderful sexual tension.

In general I am against "swinging" because that denotes that you are into MMF which I am NOT into. I just think you should keep an open mind because you only live once and you dont want to die with regrets. I dont ever want to be that married guy(I am not married now) that pines away for his secretary or some shit like that. I dont believe in cheating, in fact I have no problems being completely monogomous. I do however think that if you do have a female that is into girls you might as well take advantage of it from time to time.

Lets hear from some of you that have actually done this with your lover and are still together. I wonder what the statistics are on marriages staying together when 3some's are part of their relationship. What do you think? Would you think it would hurt or strengthen the relationship?
 
You're wise beyond your 29 years, BigRed. :)

So much of what you said describes how things are here. We've been married for 18 yrs...half of my life. We talked about it for about 6 months before actually diving into our first 3-some. This part of what you said really says a lot:

"It depends upon your maturity level when dealing with sexual issues. I think the sex itself is differant when another person is added. When you are with your lover you are more intimate and when you are in a 3some it has a differant dynamic. It isn't "making love" so much as well...hot fucking. It turns couples on later when they are just with each other thinking about the hot time they had."

I get so turned on when visions of our 3-some times pop into my head and my husband and I enjoy reminissing together, but of course there are times when we just want to be alone...it's just very different. I'm so fortunate to be able to have it both ways...makes life very enjoyable!
 
MrsPuddlesFL said:
So much of what you said describes how things are here. We've been married for 18 yrs...half of my life. We talked about it for about 6 months before actually diving into our first 3-some. This part of what you said really says a lot:

"It depends upon your maturity level when dealing with sexual issues. I think the sex itself is differant when another person is added. When you are with your lover you are more intimate and when you are in a 3some it has a differant dynamic. It isn't "making love" so much as well...hot fucking. It turns couples on later when they are just with each other thinking about the hot time they had."

I get so turned on when visions of our 3-some times pop into my head and my husband and I enjoy reminissing together, but of course there are times when we just want to be alone...it's just very different. I'm so fortunate to be able to have it both ways...makes life very enjoyable!
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I would have to agree with MrsPuddles...and I think we have a wonderful, open minded, mature relationship...
 
I agree

Well as being part of the above threesome, I feel I have to chime in.

Keep in mind that I am 38 years old and married for 18 Years. I have a confidence and maturity that I did not have at 20 or even 30. MrsPuddlesfl and I have spent our ENTIRE adult lives together. We have a confidence in our relationship that younger couples have not earned yet.

If you dont feel like you can talk about ANYTHING with your partner then don't do it. Remember it took us 18 years to get to this point, I dont expect it to be for everyone.

But I'm so glad we got here.... We are really having a good time. The sex is great the company is great and we are creating memories that will last the rest of our lives
 
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TheStromba said:
The sex is great the company is great and we are creating memories that will last the rest of our lives
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Life is surely wonderfu! I'm glad we're in our 30's instead of being younger again...I'm enjoying the confidence and maturity that comes with age. :)
 
SEE I DON'T SEE INDULGING IN YOUR LUSTFUL PLEASURES ARE REALLY BEING MATURE THOUGH. IT SHOWS THAT IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP THAT YOUR NOT SEXUAL SATISFIED WITH EACH OTHER AND HAVE TO BRING OTHER PEOPLE INTO IT. IF I WAS IN A SERIOUS LOVING RELATIONSHIP AND MY GIRL SAID SHE JUST WANTED TO WATCH ME FUCK SOMEONE I WOULD NOT DO IT AND PROBABLY STEP BACK IN THE RELATIONSHIP BECAUSE THAT WOULD BOTHER ME A LOT. BUT AT THE SAME TIME I BELIEVE IN GOD AND HOW JESUS SAID IF YOU COMMIT ADULTERY YOU SHOULD BE KILLED THAT IS PROBABLY THE MOST SACRED RULE TO ME IS MARRAIGE IT IS A BOND BETWEEN MAN AND WOMEN BECOMING ONE IN THE EYES OF GOD. IF THREESOMES ARE SOMEONE'S CUP OF TEA DON'T BE MARRIED BECAUSE IT IS NOT KEEPING THE MARRAIGE SACRED.
 
LOL

How did I know that a guy who types in caps in every post he writes would bring "jeebus" and religion into this sooner or later....


Hey Widelat here are some other things that are stated in the bible...DO YOU PRACTICE THEM ALSO?

In Deuteronomy 22:28-29 it says that if a man rapes a virgin, he must marry her and also pay her father 50 shekels for humbling her.

Women are not allowed to talk in church, in fact the idea of them speaking in church is shameful. This is made very clear in 1 Corinthians 14:34-35. Women are to remain silent, and if they have any questions they are to ask their husbands at home after church.

Not only are women inferior to men, but they should treat their husbands as they treat God. Check this quote out from Ephesians 5:22-24 "wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body. Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in every thing."

1 Timothy chapter 2 is another chapter that is dedicated to saying women are below men, and also says women are to dress plainly. But let's take a harder look at where women stand in this chapter. It says that women are to learn in silence without subjection... they cannot teach nor "usurp authority over the man". It also makes it clear that Adam was first, then Eve. And the Garden of Eden thing, with the forbidden fruit... well that was 100% Eve's fault



Oh how I so love Christianity..... If this is how you treat your women then I feel sorry for any woman who would dedicate her life to a man who follows the bible literally.
 
LOL here are some more

Oh it just warms my heart to be able to say this.... more fine examples of polygamous relationships by famous Christians

Genesis 4:19 is where the first mention of polygamy comes in. Lamech felt the need for two wives, and thus was born a long line of men with multitudes of wives.]

Genesis chapter 36 reveals to us that Esau had a few wives also

Even good ol' David had a great many wives. Not enough though, it turns out, because he got more in 1 Chronicles chapter 14... not to mention he had 13 more kids.

And then there is Solomon, king of all polygamists. This guy had 700 wives, and 300 concubines. That's a different woman every night for 3 years. Holy cow!!! Or better yet, 3 women per night, per year, with 3 days off per month. Okay quit drooling, the point was to say that polygamy is condoned throughout the Bible, so why do modern Christians condemn those who want more than one woman?

I guess all these "Christians" had approval from god to screw a bunch of women??? Or did they just spend a ridiculous amount of time in divorce court???

Kudos to WIDELAT for opening Pandora's box.
 
Well, that is your opinion- most people nowadays do not feel that way about their relationships. It is a very outdated and unrealistic expectation from a marriage as well. Look how many married people cheat on each other. An alarmingly large percentage last I checked. So, from that you can assume that the majority of married couples dont follow those vows as your thinking of them anyhow. If Jesus was to kill all people who commit adultry then you would have one damn long line of yuppie guys and girls getting executed. It is commonplace in todays society. Obviously you are religious and so that majorly affects your thinking on sex and sexuality. Like I said before, everyone has a differant take on what a "marriage" is. I dont think a marriage is necessarily a "becoming one in God's eyes" type of thing. You dont become one in a relationship- not if you really want it to flourish. You need to be two seperate beings with your own identities, otherwise you give up too much of yourself and that differance is what attracts you in the first place to another human being. Those little differances brought together are what marriage is about, it is about sharing time. These concepts are very unlike anything religion teaches. You are not at the level to understand where MrsPuddlesFL is coming from if your concerned what Jesus said anyway. What you see as indulging in lustful pleasures is to others more of indulging in a deeper sense of understanding and oneness with their partner. I understand why this might seem confusing to you but when you dont have religion and the moral majority on your shoulders things look differantly.

Oh yeah and I'm sure you know that typing in all caps is yelling......right?!
 
Damn you BigRedCat

Why did you have to go and rain on his fanatical, parade like that?

LOL...nice one.

and quit using logic.... his caps lock key is broken.or maybe he just yells ALL THE TIME
 
Once again more proof that religion=control of the masses. Simple as that. The reason modern holy rollers blabber about morality is simply that they are uptight and afraid they might have fun! Can anyone seriously think that "God will strike you down!" over something you do? Look at some of the things that happen on a daily basis sans God's lightning bolt from the heavens: murders,rapes,bombings,assasinations,assaults,general assholeishness(my new word of the day) to your fellow mankind,infidelity,lying,cheating,stealing,really bad driving,jerkoffs who wear crooked baseball caps-the list goes on. God seems to be out of the office lately. He is probably shagging his secretary. I am going to hell for that but oh well, all my friends will be there:D . Anyway, the best advice is this: enjoy your life cause that is all we have. Be a good person,have morals-but LIVE. Most people never learn to do this. Oh and remember- Hugh Heffner is THE MAN...and any man should strive to be more like him. Am I right guys or am I right?! That man will have few regrets when he dies and that is the way to live.
 
OK FIRST OFF YOU DON'T EVEN KNOW ME TO BE CALLING ME A HOLY ROLLER, I THINK ITS KINDA FUNNY HOW WHEN YOU PUT YOUR OPINION WHICH IS WHAT I WAS DOING IF IT GOES AGAINST WHAT EVERYONE ELSE THINKS OR YOU BRING UP GOD YOUR A HOLY ROLLER AND GET BAGGED ON. YEAH GOD IS DEFFENITLEY OUT OF THE PICTURE TODAY THAT IS FOR SURE. PEOPLE NOW A DAYS HAVE NO MORALS AND DON'T KNOW THE DIFFRENCE BETWEEN WHATS RIGHT AND WRONG. THE WHOLE PHILOSOPHY IS DO WHAT FEELS GOOD DON'T WORRY ABOUT ANYTHING ELSE. BELEIVE ME I AM NOT UPTIGHT YOU PROBABLY COULD'NT KEEP UP WITH ME. AND IF YOU READ ONE OF MRS. PUDDLES POSTS SHE SAYS IN HER WORDS THAT THEY DO IT FOR SEXUAL PLEASURE NOTHING ABOUT BRINGING THEM CLOSER TOGEATHER OR ANYTHING ABOUT A DIFFRENT LEVEL OF UNDERSTANDING. I'M ALSO NOT JUDGING THEM FOR WHAT THEY DO OR LEAST OF ALL TRYING TO PUT THEM DOWN, TO EACH THERE OWN. JUST THOUGHT I COULD PUT MY VEIW WITHOUT BEING FUCKED WITH BUT I GUESS YOU BRING UP GOD INTO ANY SUBJECT YOUR A HOLY ROLLER IN YOUR EYES. YES I KNOW ALL ABOUT THE CAPS THING I'VE ALWAYS TYPED IN CAPS LONG BEFORE YOU EVEN SHOWED UP HERE ALWAYS WILL SORRY IF IT BUGS YA. BELIEVE ME I'M NOT SOMEONE WHO DOES'NT DO MY FAIR SHARE OF PARTYING, THREESOMES, AND SEX I JUST BELIEVE WHEN YOU GET MARRIED ITS SOMETHING SPEACIAL AND SHOULD NOT BE INVADED BY ANYONE ELSE TO ME IT IS A SACRED THING, TO YOU ITS NOT THATS COOL.
 
On this subject, i will say what i would say about any other subject, fuck what other people think, it's only what you think that matters. I don't give a shit what you do as long as you are not hurting other people. If people want to fuck each other's wives and husbands that is their business. A big problem we have is people sticking their fucking noses into other peoples business. Family members are real bad about this. Know-it-alls suck. You can't know what can't be known.
 
Widelat

All I was trying to imply in my post (otherthan teasing you about the cpas thing) was that Christianiyt is a HORRIBLE example to you if you are going to argue against polygamous relationships.
 
YEAH I AGREE WITH THE WHOLE PHILOSOPHY THAT AS LONG AS PEOPLE DON'T HURT OTHER PEOPLE THEY CAN DO WHAT THEY WANT. BUT THE WHOLE REASON FOR THIS THREAD WAS TO GET DIFFRENT OPINIONS ON THE SUBJECT HENSE MY OPINION. THE WHOLE THING ABOUT ARGUING IM NOT TRYING TO ARGUE WITH ANYONE I JUST DON'T THINK ITS COOL FOR SOMEONE TO GIVE THERE OPINION AND THEN GET LABLED A HOLY ROLLER AND WHO GIVES A FUCK IF I WAS I AIN'T HURTIN NOBODY RIGHT. JUST TRYING TO GIVE PEOPLE OTHER VIEWS NOT TRYING TO JUDGE THEM WITH RELIGION. MILO I DON'T BELIVE IN ORGINIZED RELIGION IT IS AN EXCUSE FOR TO MANY THINGS IN THE PAST AND PRESENT LIKE VIOLENCE EXM CRUSADES PEOPLE GET ORGANIZED RELIGION WAY OUT OF HAND I JUST BELIEVE THE BIBLE.
 
well, it took a lot of views, but finally the kronk-man arrives. I knew he'd have the final say to this topic. I was disappointed religion played such a role in this discussion. I was hoping some of you (Kronk?) could chime in on what its like to see and participate. As for the he-men, just bringing up a topic and fantasy of the lady. Know that I have the Kronk-man's secret pill for post-cycle therapy (see other posts), she kinda has forgotten that one and moved back on to the women.
 
WIDELAT said:
OK FIRST OFF YOU DON'T EVEN KNOW ME TO BE CALLING ME A HOLY ROLLER, I THINK ITS KINDA FUNNY HOW WHEN YOU PUT YOUR OPINION WHICH IS WHAT I WAS DOING IF IT GOES AGAINST WHAT EVERYONE ELSE THINKS OR YOU BRING UP GOD YOUR A HOLY ROLLER AND GET BAGGED ON. YEAH GOD IS DEFFENITLEY OUT OF THE PICTURE TODAY THAT IS FOR SURE. PEOPLE NOW A DAYS HAVE NO MORALS AND DON'T KNOW THE DIFFRENCE BETWEEN WHATS RIGHT AND WRONG. THE WHOLE PHILOSOPHY IS DO WHAT FEELS GOOD DON'T WORRY ABOUT ANYTHING ELSE. BELEIVE ME I AM NOT UPTIGHT YOU PROBABLY COULD'NT KEEP UP WITH ME. AND IF YOU READ ONE OF MRS. PUDDLES POSTS SHE SAYS IN HER WORDS THAT THEY DO IT FOR SEXUAL PLEASURE NOTHING ABOUT BRINGING THEM CLOSER TOGEATHER OR ANYTHING ABOUT A DIFFRENT LEVEL OF UNDERSTANDING. I'M ALSO NOT JUDGING THEM FOR WHAT THEY DO OR LEAST OF ALL TRYING TO PUT THEM DOWN, TO EACH THERE OWN. JUST THOUGHT I COULD PUT MY VEIW WITHOUT BEING FUCKED WITH BUT I GUESS YOU BRING UP GOD INTO ANY SUBJECT YOUR A HOLY ROLLER IN YOUR EYES. YES I KNOW ALL ABOUT THE CAPS THING I'VE ALWAYS TYPED IN CAPS LONG BEFORE YOU EVEN SHOWED UP HERE ALWAYS WILL SORRY IF IT BUGS YA. BELIEVE ME I'M NOT SOMEONE WHO DOES'NT DO MY FAIR SHARE OF PARTYING, THREESOMES, AND SEX I JUST BELIEVE WHEN YOU GET MARRIED ITS SOMETHING SPEACIAL AND SHOULD NOT BE INVADED BY ANYONE ELSE TO ME IT IS A SACRED THING, TO YOU ITS NOT THATS COOL.
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I hear you man! It seem like people rather agree with the majority then be singled out for telling it like it is...remember the truth hurts! It's sad that people rather bust people bubbles then stand up for what is right.
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It is different because sex is more physical for men and more emotional for women. That is why two girls with a guy is more "accepted" than the other way around. Sure its a double standard, but it is one both sexes usually dont argue against. The emotional impact of sexual activity on women is why girls who were molested by a male family member or who never had male approval from a father can end up so damaged later in life.

For guys, sex is mostly physical and we want to nail as many women as we can, until we meet someone who is special enough for us to marry and plan to spend our lives with. Then you wouldnt go brag to your friends about "bangin your wife" let alone "watching wife being banged." Hopefully you would respect her more than that.

I'm not saying that couples with an open marriage are being disrespectful, its their personal choice, but I doubt they talk about each other like that.

I posted a thread like this with no replies because I wondered the same thing. I didnt think about actually consenting to another guy having sex with her, I wondered how you wouldnt kill the guy if you walked in and actually saw it. I would flip the fuck out, thats for sure. Check out the movie Unfaithful, that is some fucked up shit.
 
I use to be heavily involved in this scene. You are right when you say a lot of committed people cheat. So logically you would rather have them do it in front of you. So you have threesomes, foursomes, whatever your heart desires. It is cool and the two of you as a couple flourish and get to "know" each other better. Well let me tell you something all of the people who I know did this and I mean all of them also cheated on the side. This is what I find to be so funny b/c all of the swinging couples are so dillusional because they think they are so strong and open with their mate. Well guess what people more than like your wife/husband is getting some action on the side. Believe it or not it is more than likely true. But all of you hardcore swingers will think in your head nah not me we are close we do it together. Whatever keep telling yourselves that to make you feel more secure. Truth hurts though.
 
kronk said:
Bottom line is this:

Sex is just that... SEX
Love is just that...LOVE

Once you can seperate them and not get jealous, you will have a long happy life with your partner.
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So if your lover came home and said I just got fucked by Harry and his cock was soooo goood. You would say ok she just had sex with him, did not make love to him, this is ok then. Or is it only ok because it is in front of you. If you agree with the latter statement you are only fooling yourself if you think your partner is not getting side action. Chances are they are.
 
That is beside the point, what Kronk is saying the truth. You need to seperate the 2. Why do you think so many guys cheat on their wives? It dosen't mean they dont love their wife does it? The usually seperate it as just sex. You need to be open and honest- just because a couple has 3some's dosen't mean they are hornballing around with everyone. Many couple's like Kronk and Little K just do it ocassionally. I save it for E parties, that is the best!
 
IN THESE OPEN RELATIONSHIPS IT SEEMS TO BE A DOUBLE STANDARD GOING ON MOSTLY TO PLEASE THE GUYS I NEVER HEAR ABOUT ANY OF THESE GIRLS GETTING PLEASED BY TWO GUYS AND ARE THE MALES IN THESE OPEN RELATIONSHIPS OPEN TO THERE LADY HAVINEG SEX WITH THEM AND ANOTHER GUY? OR ARE THEY AGAINST IT?
 
Yes Widelat it is a double standard in most cases- one that is agreed upon by both parties. I have no interest in seeing another dude plowing my girl so we agree that only chicks are fair game. However since the girls involved in this kind of thing like girls as well then they are definately getting something from it- it isn't all just for the man. By definition swingers are into the MMF thing, people who do the ocassional 3some are not. Like Kronk, I'm not sure but I doubt he wants a dude doing little K.
 
WHAT IF THE GIRL WANTED IT? AND IF THAT IS THE CASE THEN HOW IS IT SEPARATING SEX AND LOVE IF ITS JUST SEX THEN THE GIRL IN THESE OPEN RELATIONSHIPS SHOULD BE ABLE TO BANG OTHER GUYS WITHOUT ANY PROBLEMS. IF THE GUYS DON'T WANT ANY OTHER GUYS INVOLVED THEN ITS NOT JUST SEX.
 
If the girls wants that then too bad for her. If she cheats then you dump her ass. Simple. Like I said, it has to be agreed upon that you both want to add a girl into the mix. No guys for me thanks. Most girls are cool with this arangement. If they really want a guy and you agree to it fine but not me. I'll stick with the double standard.
 
If my girl wanted that, I would try to be as understanding as possible. Our personal relationship is just that to me...very personal. I could not imagine sharing something personal with someone else...I would probably crack if I saw it...

B True
 
lets say I was married and had a threesome, it would never be wth another guy. The only way I would have one was it it was two girls and me, in that case, I would let the two get it on right in front of me.
 
WIDELAT said:
THEN HOW CAN YOU SAY SEX IS JUST SEX.
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IMHO...There is a difference between fucking (just sex) and making love. You can fuck your partner or you can make love with them. You can do both in one session. It is simply the state of mind you are in at the time. Making love is emotional...a closeness shared by partners who truly love one another. Fucking is for the pure pleasure and satisfaction, and sometimes it's nasty and perverted, doing things you want to do or think of doing, but don't usually do. Often, we will begin fucking, and when we're done, we've made love, cuddled together feeling close and intimate.

As for the sacrament of marriage and keeping it sacred, I have only truly made love to one person in my entire life, and he is my husband, the one person I committed my soul to for the rest of life the day we got married. Our vows still hold true and my heart and soul will always belong to my husband and to him alone.

I'm enjoying all of the comments that have been posted here...even the ones I disagree with. Everyone is entitled to their opinion and should live their lives in a manner that they are comfortable with. I like sharing my happiness with others, which is why I post here, and because it's enjoyable for us to flirt and tease each other when the three of us aren't physically together. We are having fun at this point in our lives, and if anyone can learn anything from our experiences then all the better. I wish everyone could have the kind of loving and honest relationship that we have. It is what makes my life so wonderful to live.

Our 3-some is with someone very special whom we care about deeply. We are not screwing around with just anyone. We knew her for 7 years before even thinking of bringing her into our bedroom. I love her like a sister and the bi in me lusts her. We are there for each other when life sucks...and we're there for each other when life's the best. She's been going through a rough time lately and we are doing our best to help support her and bring her some happiness and enjoyment in the best ways that we can. Spending hours and hours together in the bedroom happen to be very enjoyable for the three of us, imagine that! ;)

Best wishes to you all.

--MrsPuddles
 
Beautifully said Puddles. You three are a great example of how great sex can be if true love and trust are in abundance.
 
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