watching wife being banged

[BigRedCat]

Well, that is your opinion- most people nowadays do not feel that way about their relationships. It is a very outdated and unrealistic expectation from a marriage as well. Look how many married people cheat on each other. An alarmingly large percentage last I checked. So, from that you can assume that the majority of married couples dont follow those vows as your thinking of them anyhow. If Jesus was to kill all people who commit adultry then you would have one damn long line of yuppie guys and girls getting executed. It is commonplace in todays society. Obviously you are religious and so that majorly affects your thinking on sex and sexuality. Like I said before, everyone has a differant take on what a "marriage" is. I dont think a marriage is necessarily a "becoming one in God's eyes" type of thing. You dont become one in a relationship- not if you really want it to flourish. You need to be two seperate beings with your own identities, otherwise you give up too much of yourself and that differance is what attracts you in the first place to another human being. Those little differances brought together are what marriage is about, it is about sharing time. These concepts are very unlike anything religion teaches. You are not at the level to understand where MrsPuddlesFL is coming from if your concerned what Jesus said anyway. What you see as indulging in lustful pleasures is to others more of indulging in a deeper sense of understanding and oneness with their partner. I understand why this might seem confusing to you but when you dont have religion and the moral majority on your shoulders things look differantly.

Oh yeah and I'm sure you know that typing in all caps is yelling......right?!

 

[milo hobgoblin]

Damn you BigRedCat

Why did you have to go and rain on his fanatical, parade like that?

LOL...nice one.

and quit using logic.... his caps lock key is broken.or maybe he just yells ALL THE TIME

 

[BigRedCat]

Once again more proof that religion=control of the masses. Simple as that. The reason modern holy rollers blabber about morality is simply that they are uptight and afraid they might have fun! Can anyone seriously think that "God will strike you down!" over something you do? Look at some of the things that happen on a daily basis sans God's lightning bolt from the heavens: murders,rapes,bombings,assasinations,assaults,general assholeishness(my new word of the day) to your fellow mankind,infidelity,lying,cheating,stealing,really bad driving,jerkoffs who wear crooked baseball caps-the list goes on. God seems to be out of the office lately. He is probably shagging his secretary. I am going to hell for that but oh well, all my friends will be there . Anyway, the best advice is this: enjoy your life cause that is all we have. Be a good person,have morals-but LIVE. Most people never learn to do this. Oh and remember- Hugh Heffner is THE MAN...and any man should strive to be more like him. Am I right guys or am I right?! That man will have few regrets when he dies and that is the way to live.

 

[WIDELAT]

OK FIRST OFF YOU DON'T EVEN KNOW ME TO BE CALLING ME A HOLY ROLLER, I THINK ITS KINDA FUNNY HOW WHEN YOU PUT YOUR OPINION WHICH IS WHAT I WAS DOING IF IT GOES AGAINST WHAT EVERYONE ELSE THINKS OR YOU BRING UP GOD YOUR A HOLY ROLLER AND GET BAGGED ON. YEAH GOD IS DEFFENITLEY OUT OF THE PICTURE TODAY THAT IS FOR SURE. PEOPLE NOW A DAYS HAVE NO MORALS AND DON'T KNOW THE DIFFRENCE BETWEEN WHATS RIGHT AND WRONG. THE WHOLE PHILOSOPHY IS DO WHAT FEELS GOOD DON'T WORRY ABOUT ANYTHING ELSE. BELEIVE ME I AM NOT UPTIGHT YOU PROBABLY COULD'NT KEEP UP WITH ME. AND IF YOU READ ONE OF MRS. PUDDLES POSTS SHE SAYS IN HER WORDS THAT THEY DO IT FOR SEXUAL PLEASURE NOTHING ABOUT BRINGING THEM CLOSER TOGEATHER OR ANYTHING ABOUT A DIFFRENT LEVEL OF UNDERSTANDING. I'M ALSO NOT JUDGING THEM FOR WHAT THEY DO OR LEAST OF ALL TRYING TO PUT THEM DOWN, TO EACH THERE OWN. JUST THOUGHT I COULD PUT MY VEIW WITHOUT BEING FUCKED WITH BUT I GUESS YOU BRING UP GOD INTO ANY SUBJECT YOUR A HOLY ROLLER IN YOUR EYES. YES I KNOW ALL ABOUT THE CAPS THING I'VE ALWAYS TYPED IN CAPS LONG BEFORE YOU EVEN SHOWED UP HERE ALWAYS WILL SORRY IF IT BUGS YA. BELIEVE ME I'M NOT SOMEONE WHO DOES'NT DO MY FAIR SHARE OF PARTYING, THREESOMES, AND SEX I JUST BELIEVE WHEN YOU GET MARRIED ITS SOMETHING SPEACIAL AND SHOULD NOT BE INVADED BY ANYONE ELSE TO ME IT IS A SACRED THING, TO YOU ITS NOT THATS COOL.

 

[sereneman]

On this subject, i will say what i would say about any other subject, fuck what other people think, it's only what you think that matters. I don't give a shit what you do as long as you are not hurting other people. If people want to fuck each other's wives and husbands that is their business. A big problem we have is people sticking their fucking noses into other peoples business. Family members are real bad about this. Know-it-alls suck. You can't know what can't be known.

 

[milo hobgoblin]

Widelat

All I was trying to imply in my post (otherthan teasing you about the cpas thing) was that Christianiyt is a HORRIBLE example to you if you are going to argue against polygamous relationships.

 

[WIDELAT]

YEAH I AGREE WITH THE WHOLE PHILOSOPHY THAT AS LONG AS PEOPLE DON'T HURT OTHER PEOPLE THEY CAN DO WHAT THEY WANT. BUT THE WHOLE REASON FOR THIS THREAD WAS TO GET DIFFRENT OPINIONS ON THE SUBJECT HENSE MY OPINION. THE WHOLE THING ABOUT ARGUING IM NOT TRYING TO ARGUE WITH ANYONE I JUST DON'T THINK ITS COOL FOR SOMEONE TO GIVE THERE OPINION AND THEN GET LABLED A HOLY ROLLER AND WHO GIVES A FUCK IF I WAS I AIN'T HURTIN NOBODY RIGHT. JUST TRYING TO GIVE PEOPLE OTHER VIEWS NOT TRYING TO JUDGE THEM WITH RELIGION. MILO I DON'T BELIVE IN ORGINIZED RELIGION IT IS AN EXCUSE FOR TO MANY THINGS IN THE PAST AND PRESENT LIKE VIOLENCE EXM CRUSADES PEOPLE GET ORGANIZED RELIGION WAY OUT OF HAND I JUST BELIEVE THE BIBLE.

 

[longerlasting]

well, it took a lot of views, but finally the kronk-man arrives. I knew he'd have the final say to this topic. I was disappointed religion played such a role in this discussion. I was hoping some of you (Kronk?) could chime in on what its like to see and participate. As for the he-men, just bringing up a topic and fantasy of the lady. Know that I have the Kronk-man's secret pill for post-cycle therapy (see other posts), she kinda has forgotten that one and moved back on to the women.

 

[Mysterio]

OK FIRST OFF YOU DON'T EVEN KNOW ME TO BE CALLING ME A HOLY ROLLER, I THINK ITS KINDA FUNNY HOW WHEN YOU PUT YOUR OPINION WHICH IS WHAT I WAS DOING IF IT GOES AGAINST WHAT EVERYONE ELSE THINKS OR YOU BRING UP GOD YOUR A HOLY ROLLER AND GET BAGGED ON. YEAH GOD IS DEFFENITLEY OUT OF THE PICTURE TODAY THAT IS FOR SURE. PEOPLE NOW A DAYS HAVE NO MORALS AND DON'T KNOW THE DIFFRENCE BETWEEN WHATS RIGHT AND WRONG. THE WHOLE PHILOSOPHY IS DO WHAT FEELS GOOD DON'T WORRY ABOUT ANYTHING ELSE. BELEIVE ME I AM NOT UPTIGHT YOU PROBABLY COULD'NT KEEP UP WITH ME. AND IF YOU READ ONE OF MRS. PUDDLES POSTS SHE SAYS IN HER WORDS THAT THEY DO IT FOR SEXUAL PLEASURE NOTHING ABOUT BRINGING THEM CLOSER TOGEATHER OR ANYTHING ABOUT A DIFFRENT LEVEL OF UNDERSTANDING. I'M ALSO NOT JUDGING THEM FOR WHAT THEY DO OR LEAST OF ALL TRYING TO PUT THEM DOWN, TO EACH THERE OWN. JUST THOUGHT I COULD PUT MY VEIW WITHOUT BEING FUCKED WITH BUT I GUESS YOU BRING UP GOD INTO ANY SUBJECT YOUR A HOLY ROLLER IN YOUR EYES. YES I KNOW ALL ABOUT THE CAPS THING I'VE ALWAYS TYPED IN CAPS LONG BEFORE YOU EVEN SHOWED UP HERE ALWAYS WILL SORRY IF IT BUGS YA. BELIEVE ME I'M NOT SOMEONE WHO DOES'NT DO MY FAIR SHARE OF PARTYING, THREESOMES, AND SEX I JUST BELIEVE WHEN YOU GET MARRIED ITS SOMETHING SPEACIAL AND SHOULD NOT BE INVADED BY ANYONE ELSE TO ME IT IS A SACRED THING, TO YOU ITS NOT THATS COOL.

I hear you man! It seem like people rather agree with the majority then be singled out for telling it like it is...remember the truth hurts! It's sad that people rather bust people bubbles then stand up for what is right.

 

[Immortal Juicer]

It is different because sex is more physical for men and more emotional for women. That is why two girls with a guy is more "accepted" than the other way around. Sure its a double standard, but it is one both sexes usually dont argue against. The emotional impact of sexual activity on women is why girls who were molested by a male family member or who never had male approval from a father can end up so damaged later in life.

For guys, sex is mostly physical and we want to nail as many women as we can, until we meet someone who is special enough for us to marry and plan to spend our lives with. Then you wouldnt go brag to your friends about "bangin your wife" let alone "watching wife being banged." Hopefully you would respect her more than that.

I'm not saying that couples with an open marriage are being disrespectful, its their personal choice, but I doubt they talk about each other like that.

I posted a thread like this with no replies because I wondered the same thing. I didnt think about actually consenting to another guy having sex with her, I wondered how you wouldnt kill the guy if you walked in and actually saw it. I would flip the fuck out, thats for sure. Check out the movie Unfaithful, that is some fucked up shit.