Was this bitchy of me or was it okay??

[The Red Dragon]

Nah, I overthink everything. lol That's just how I am. I'm one of these people who wakes up at 4 am and lays there overthinking things and cursing the fact that I can't get back to sleep.

Happens way too often with me.

Nah you were trying to evade problems, I would have done the same thing.

 

[Austin316]

yea I dunno, speaking of which we need to do lunch or soemthign again soon

on a brighter note this shit is really kicking in forthe god as well! up 3lbs, down a belt notch on the waste and my shoulders and traps sure are blowing up again

 

[gtrcivic]

If the guy you dated came up to you, it would be cordial to say hi how are you doing. Thats it, no hug, continued conversation since you are with your current bf....Now if you went over to him, then he'll think oh, still might be an interest still. Since you didn't he felt his ego bruised... Good call you made to not go over to him

 

[danielson]

good call on the choice and the outcome

i think its usually best for you to introduce your guy to him first, when he shakes hius hand they wil do the firm grip thing and the other guy should back off

 

[Lao Tzu]

You blew him off so he blew you off. Tit for tat. I am guessing it was slightly bitchy, depends on how you blew him off.

 

[The Shadow]

Last night my bf and a bunch of our friends were out at a club in Minneapolis. Anyhow it was hot as hell so we decided to go upstairs and stand by the entry way for a smidge to cool down. Then I noticed that about 5 feet away from me was a guy I used to date. He was trying to get me to go over and hug him etc and I pretty much blatently blew him off. I felt like a bitch and when he saw me a couple of other times that night he gave me really nasty looks, but I didn't feel like that was respectful to my bf or something I was comfy with. I know that if one of my bf's ex's was wanting to hug him and catch up I'd not be the happiest girl in the land. Should I have handled it differently or was it okay to be fairly impolite to avoid a less than comfy situation for my significant other?

well......the Ex really didnt do anyhting out of line.

if it happens again carrry the current boy over and introduce them

 

[RADAR]

Its happened to me many times,I guess it depends on the suitation,i mean i'm not gonna ignore em like they never existed,if i'm with someone a brief intro is at hand "thats it"after exchangeing hellos we move on,plus it gives your character a good impression.



RADAR

 

[RADAR]

while thats on my mind....i sent you a hello pm months back it was never answered....i guess i was also outta line!..............Sorry!




RADAR

 

[Austin316]

well if this was the guy you saw right after you broke up with J for that period of time it def woulnd't of been good

 

[Raina]

He and I have split up twice in the past few years. We had the one long multi month split and in our first year we went from being a couple to being more "just seeing each other". I'm thankful for both.