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digimon7068
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Nathan said:
Sounds like you speak from experience???
Sorry man, you left the door open on that one.
Was i wrong
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Sounds like you speak from experience???
Sorry man, you left the door open on that one.
good point and she might not feel like she's good at giving head and she's afraid of being bad at that so better not to do it at all. also, talking to her about it when she's not in the mood and when she feels like youre criticizing her bedroom skills which to a woman, pretty much makes them feel hurt and rejected and even more self conscious. you do need to address the issues with her for your own sanity and satisfaction in the relatinoship, but unfortunately it's a delicate matter. you cant just be all like DUDE I WISH YOU WOULD SUCK MY DICK MORE OFTEN AND GET MORE INTO FOREPLAY AND 69 OR SOMETHING WE NEED TO SPICE IT UP. lol.Forge said:For some people, foreplay (oral, fingering, etc.) is more personal and intimate than intercourse, and it's that level of intimacy that scares them and makes them uncomfortable.
I had a gf back in college that was like this. Fucking she was comfortable with, anything else and she became terrified. Oral just made her feel too self conscious, when my face was down there she had this horrible feeling that I was "examing" her. She had a host of issues that I found out later...
Oak, good luck bor.
This just may be a delicate issue for her also. That doesnt make her a delicate individual. I think we can all say we have our issues. This is just (one of?) hers. A little bit of positive reinforment goes a long way in a situation like this. Maybe when she does suck on it, you can like high five her and add ina few fist bumps for extra measure. Ok that was a joke, but certainly tell her how good she is at it and how much you love when she sucks your cock, and then even after the romp is over, you can bring it up again, like grab her with a big ol hug, squeeze her and tell her how great she is at sucking the cock. and smooch her cheek and tell her you love her. something like that. I mean, when my husband tells me of something I do that he loves and that Im great at, that makes me want to do it that much more, just to please him. I great joy in that. Strokes the ego too.
Nathan
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digimon7068 said:Sounds like you speak from experience???
Sorry man, you left the door open on that one.
Nah, I keep trimmed dude. I've been told to stay that way when I start getting lazy if I want to keep getting head though. Hence the advice.
And I was joking about the coke stuff.
theoak01
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im such an asshole.
i dropped this wasnt gonna say anymore gonna give it a chance like you guys suggested.
now she goes and tells me how shes working out etc to be prettier for me,dont that make a guy feel like a fucking stooge,im bitching about this petty shit when she really does want to please me
i dropped this wasnt gonna say anymore gonna give it a chance like you guys suggested.
now she goes and tells me how shes working out etc to be prettier for me,dont that make a guy feel like a fucking stooge,im bitching about this petty shit when she really does want to please me
it's perfectly normal and ok for you to be concerned that she doesnt want to or like to perform oral sex or participate in foreplay. those are normal sexual activities shared between two people in an intimate relationship. like I said, it sounds like this might just be a delicate issue for her and if she is interested in pleasing you, there may be way to work this issue out.theoak01 said:
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