While I definitely agree with this for the most part, we're talking about people having opinions directly linked to HIGHLY emotional states of being. I think we've ALL been with women who say one thing and do another in the bedroom. Women think with their hearts, not their heads (this is not an insult, so relax Butch Dyke Man Haters). I've had near-virgin girls who have been too self-conscious to let themselves have orgasms turn into complete fun pornstars with some persistent work on my end.
Get em heated, then take em down.