Was i wrong

[jd_uk]

For many years my wife & I were her only friends. As she grew out of her shell, she talked to us about many things.
It's not unhealthy. I spoke with my parents the same way.

Nah I agree, that's a good thing, just surprising. Some kids don't talk to their parents at all if they can help it.

 

[blueta2]

a women that doesn't enjoy foreplay...

there's something terribly wrong with that...

Giving or Receiving?
Both?

I disagree. I think younger women have less of a like for oral. As women get older like into their "dirty thirties", they enjoy it way more only b/c they feel more confortable with sex and their bodies.
I hated giving blow jobs in my early 20's. I thought it was totally disgusting....thank goodness I am now cured from that, but I was also not very comfortable with my sexuality.
Also my ex was always stinky and dirty down there so ewwwwwww to going down.
Guys if your ladies are very sexual and do not want to give u oral sex, then maybe check to see if you don't have any "schmigglies" down there!

;-)

 

[Forge]

I think trying to convince her to do things she's said she doesn't want to do isn't going to make either of you happy. She's not into it. You can find someone else who is or get over it and accept that if you do get head, it probably isn't going to be very often.

Trying to get her wild about giving you head is probably not going to happen. It might, I dunno, but in my experience people don't tend to make complete 180s in their opinions all that often.

Agreed. Talk to her about it calmly and rationally and attempt to find out why she is like this. If she won't talk or change, then either accept her like she is or move on without her. Sometimes people fall in love with fantasies and false perceptions, they project who they would like to be with onto who they are with. Don't fall into this trap.

 

[theoak01]

she hasnt done it before so inexperience could be an issue,I got her to give me a hand job once,it wasnt bad,it wasnt good,but i let her think it was the best id had,good for confidence ya know. I think its gonna take some time is all,ill be persistant

 

[Nathan]

she hasnt done it before so inexperience could be an issue,I got her to give me a hand job once,it wasnt bad,it wasnt good,but i let her think it was the best id had,good for confidence ya know. I think its gonna take some time is all,ill be persistant

Sounds like it's not a lost cause then. Do you shave? Make yourself look appealing in any way? A mouthful of pubes is not going to want to make her do it again and again.


Maybe lather some peanut butter on there. Or even dust some cocaine on your rod and let her snort and then lick it off. She's into coke right?

 

[theoak01]

i definately keep myself up, and no she isnt into blow but that would be hot

 

[patsfan1379]

i definately keep myself up, and no she isnt into blow but that would be hot

snorting coke off your cock. i need a bitch like that.

 

[theoak01]

haha me too,if i did coke anymore

 

[dullboy]

dullboy says that you need to do playful things with her to disarm her insecurities.

slap your dick off her face a few times. that usually strightens 'em out.

 

[dullboy]

dullboy says maybe her last boyfriend was an unwashed skanky motherfucker with a smelly ass and a sweaty ballsack. lol


sorry oak -lol - dullboy bets she was a virgin when you met her.