You need to take a serious stance. Go to Tantra.com Try and get some books on PE. Also, see a urologist and he'll give youa script for something I'm sure. Practice kegels and reverse kegels and get in touch with yourself. Know yourself. Viagra will keep you hard for hours. If you blow, you'll be good to go pretty much right away. Definately read up on lots of Tantra methods. also, keep in mid, chicks love gettin the cock (not to be rude here), but they dig oral sex and foreplay and being teased, touched, caressed, kissed, etc...there's a lot to the game besides penetration. Learning to give great oral is clutch, but the more you have in your repotire, the better you'll be overall, and trust me, chicks dig guys that are divdersified. and PRACTICE! Do the kegels, learn to breath, masturbate (and not a 1 min job), and find a girl you can practice on (and she doesn't have to know).