To those of you who have used match.com and the like successfully...

[slickdadd]

This means you Lestat, after reading your salad tossing tale for the first time. Anyway, to my point, how do you have success with these sites. I've peaked around one once and it consumed like an hour of time just looking through the millions of females listed on there and I would think would take a ton of time to look through them all and make any contact with them. Did you just put your own stuff on there and get contacted by people without any effort on your part? I just don't see how it works, considering there are so many people on there and I assume all of the females get bombarded by males.

 

[Burning_Inside]

honestly i find i get much better responses just from going on AOL, doing a local member search, and chatting it up.

I haven't had any luck on a dating type site in a longgggggg time.

 

[biteme]

Yeah, you can get plenty of dates and then when you don't find a match in your area, just cancel your membership. It's worth it if you don't like going to bars and clubs. Just takes a little time, sometimes not. You have to correspond back and forth sometimes too long before you meet a person. It's only 20$ for a month and you'd spend that much going out for the weekend. I never found a suitable mate that way however. A lot of the type of women you want to avoid.

 

[Forge]

I never found a suitable mate that way however. A lot of the type of women you want to avoid.

This has been my experience. I've been on match.com for over a month now, and the only contacts I've made are from women I really don't want to bother with. I've been on a few dates from it so far, and found nothing I want to pursue. I'm sure it works much better if you live in a city, but living out in the sticks like I do it really is limited in it's use.

 

[chesty]

I played around with a site and what I found out is all of them are fat and nasty or have some serious personal issues. It actually feels like your lowering yourself. So, I am not doing that any more.

I don't mind going out of town, but I just find that if you chat, phone or im or email you can build up a persona of the person that is bigger than real life. Photos, even recent rarely if ever look like the person when you finally meet them. And I hate being lied to, which many of them do. They only give you half truths, etc.

If I am going to date someone (blind date or whatever) chattiing is fine, but try to meet them sooner than later so you don't waste your evenings. Also, I have found that women tend to be more cautious then men (for good reason) so I try to leave it in their court. I will put the offer out, but leave it up to them as to whether or not they want to follow through.

 

[*MissFit*]

I have played aroudn with the sites. Had some success, but you have to watch out for liars People are disillusioned into thinking thye look a certain way, when they may well have.. years ago.. but currently don't

 

[Sassy69]

I have a friend who had done some of match.com, but actually ended up meeting a lady via AOL and eventually got married. He's happy

 

[luciano]

I got few very good friends from a pretty good dating site ( it is written on my butt ) .BUt they r too far to get together that's the main problem always.Found nobody from my area.Tho ,it has forum where intersting and fun xxx struff are debated ))

 

[Patrick Steele]

My bro met a girl on match.com and they have been together for 4 year now and are about to get married. The only site I have met a few girls a few years ago was at hotornot.com. Plenty of good looking girls to meet there if you are single.

 

[Sebastionv]

My bud tried that and met a midget. For real, she kept telling him that she was kinda short...but he said that didn't matter...but when he showed up at her house a midget walked out.. Usually it is either that or some water buffalo...but hey water buffalos make great friends.

 

[bullcocky]

This means you Lestat, after reading your salad tossing tale for the first time. Anyway, to my point, how do you have success with these sites. I've peaked around one once and it consumed like an hour of time just looking through the millions of females listed on there and I would think would take a ton of time to look through them all and make any contact with them. Did you just put your own stuff on there and get contacted by people without any effort on your part? I just don't see how it works, considering there are so many people on there and I assume all of the females get bombarded by males.

Let me explain it like this....are you ready?......okay, here goes. www.match.com and Yahoo personals is an unlimited source of ready and willing sluts that just want to fuck; of course there are may of them that want to get to know you first then they get freaky. I know this to be true because I have been using it for about a year now and have tagged dozens of chicks from the two put together. You have to realize that most girls don't want to go out and meet guys; they are too fucking lazy....lol. They want to go about it the easiest way possible. I would recommend Yahoo personals over Match any day and I will tell you why........on Yahoo, you can instant message the girls if they have the yellow smiley face in the profile which shows they are online. This makes contact much easier, although you must me a member first. Yahoo is like $20 a month, so give it a try. $20 is a cheap price to be able to slay 4-5 different chick from different cities that surround YOUR town all at the same time. If you have any other questions, just reply to this thread. But remember, when you start getting pussy from either one of those sites, you better hit me up with the karma.
BC

 

[ColdCut]

..........4-5 different chick from different cities that surround YOUR town all at the same time.........But remember, when you start getting pussy from either one of those sites, you better hit me up with the karma.
BC

will do brotha....will do!

 

[rush74]

I couldnt agree more, match.com has been the BEST thing for me in regards to getting
pussy, Im 33 so getting a bit long in the tooth for clubs back home in Australia, I tend to target the asian chicks and I have a great strike rate... still its like anything your success will depend a lot on the guy ie if your fat and bald then obviously its gonna be harder for ya

 

[Patrick Steele]

I couldnt agree more, match.com has been the BEST thing for me in regards to getting
pussy, Im 33 so getting a bit long in the tooth for clubs back home in Australia, I tend to target the asian chicks and I have a great strike rate... still its like anything your success will depend a lot on the guy ie if your fat and bald then obviously its gonna be harder for ya

It's much easier getting pussy by using hotornot.com instead of match.com. The girls are hot and willing. Another one that used to be good was adultfiender.com before they had all the hidden porn ads and the advertising. Right now, 90% of the girls in that site send you a link to their website.