myabe im insecure, maybe im not...actually i am.
but i dont think it has to do with that..justhow i define a relationship...
i define my relationship as a best friend role with the added sex role.
the sex role differentiates and elevates you that last bit above the best friend role to make the relationship worth it...
if your sharing your sex with everyone, then you dont have anything special that differentiates her from just a regular friend...you take away the specialness of it all.
i love my brother and best friends a fuckload and care about them and am there for them and them for me...but i dont have the sexual atraction cause im not a homo
with the gf/wif u have the sexual attraction and special act of "lovemaking" that nobody else has... THATS the differentiator in the relationship.
if u dont think like that then relationships arnt for u...
but if ur argueing that relationships are for insecure people, then i dont have a counterarguement