Please Scroll Down to See Forums Below I can't take life anymore. I have had one too many heartbreaks and this last one has crushed me. I feel like I am getting cheated on because I am not a good lover and because I am not well endowed. I am very average in the dick dept. and everywhere I look and hear a girl wants a huge dick. I have never had a problem with attracting beautiful women (I at one time was very nice looking...body and face). I had a promising career and a good personality. Well I've lost it all. I am starting over in my career, I can't find the energy to work out anymore, I am depressed all of the time, hate looking at myself, don't have any true friends. This life sucks!!!!!!!!!!!!! My confidence is history.
thinking of committing suicide
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It't not history...but sounds like it has been damaged by some bad women..If you are really feeling this way you need to go to your Dr. There are some good meds that will help temp while you are getting your life back on track...next thing to to is to see a counselor...I have used one and have been one...this is a great tool to help you put things back into perspective. You have to rember that nothing is ever that bad to end your life and mainly if it is a woman....you will kill the souls of those who love you if you kill yourself...I can tell you that from being a mother myself. Now penis size is not where it is at...I am old enough to have emough experience to fully belive that it is how you use it along with oral sex that makes it great...trust me in this dept...Plus the bonus is that your penis is great for anal sex and blow jobs! Your not getting cheated on due to your skills....read up and practice find a girl that loves to learn new things! Go toy shoping with her and look for dirty movies and other things that turn you both on......Sex onlyl gets better as you get older and more confortable with you body and yourself and most of that comes from self love....but don't whimp out on me sweetie.....only the weak stop trying....only the weak give up........and you are much more then that....Kisses
gjohnson5
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Do not judge yourself based on other guys. You are an individual and you are different. I tell people this here all the time. Different does not mean less or unequal. You will find that one who will accept you for you. But first YOU have to accept YOU for YOU.
Remember, it's not about ever being knocked down , it about how quickly you get up after being knocked down. Get your career back on track sounds like step number one. Once you get some good things going back on the job , that will give you confidence in yourself and at that point get back in the gym. You can meet chicks there...
You see the domino effect?? The past is behind you. Now look forward and visualize a better life for yourself. Visualize wealth. Visualize success. Visualize females and then put yourself in the picture.
If you don't have faith in yourself, noone will
Remember, it's not about ever being knocked down , it about how quickly you get up after being knocked down. Get your career back on track sounds like step number one. Once you get some good things going back on the job , that will give you confidence in yourself and at that point get back in the gym. You can meet chicks there...
You see the domino effect?? The past is behind you. Now look forward and visualize a better life for yourself. Visualize wealth. Visualize success. Visualize females and then put yourself in the picture.
If you don't have faith in yourself, noone will
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Gambino
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dude it's not your johnson that is inadequate, the girls you date just have large blown out tangs...find a lady with a tight tang and your johnson will work out fine
hammercurls
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start beatin it.
Hiatussin
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I don´t think you really want to give up, or you would not have posted this and would have already killed yourself.
Confidence is easily the most important characteristic to seduce (worthwhile) people with. We all know a guy who doesn´t have or do anything special but just lets go of all his insecurities and does what he wants, who is highly wanted and fun to be around.
You need to get confident. You say you have a good face. That´s a big deal man. who wants a guy with a big dick and a face like this- ?
Furthermore confidence in bed is more important than anything else. If you undress and have this "I´m sorry, I know, I suck, we could just play cards too" look on your face, it will be a self-fulfilling prophecy. If it´s small but you do everything well and get into the night ready and excited for some careless fun, it will catch on.
Then going even further, there is more to life than sex.
You can and perhaps should look into penis enlargement surgery. I don´t know prices, risks and results these days, but it´s definately worth checking out.
Confidence is easily the most important characteristic to seduce (worthwhile) people with. We all know a guy who doesn´t have or do anything special but just lets go of all his insecurities and does what he wants, who is highly wanted and fun to be around.
You need to get confident. You say you have a good face. That´s a big deal man. who wants a guy with a big dick and a face like this- ?
Furthermore confidence in bed is more important than anything else. If you undress and have this "I´m sorry, I know, I suck, we could just play cards too" look on your face, it will be a self-fulfilling prophecy. If it´s small but you do everything well and get into the night ready and excited for some careless fun, it will catch on.
Then going even further, there is more to life than sex.
You can and perhaps should look into penis enlargement surgery. I don´t know prices, risks and results these days, but it´s definately worth checking out.
milo hobgoblin
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Hey..no shick will think your dick is small when you go all anal. They have better orgasms.. and they usually like "average" dicks better..
the glass CAN be half full!
the glass CAN be half full!
chewyxrage
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Well put it into perspective, you could have Herpes or HIV. That's more of a cockblock than anything else possible. They somehow manage to live happy lives, why is yours so bad?
mrdeeznuts
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et2001 said:
you ever think that the women you were with were just BITCHES AND WHORES?
mrdeeznuts
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et2001 said:
ALSO STOP BEING SO FUCKING STUPID, living life is what you make out of it... . you can make it great or you can make it suck... start looking on the brighter side and having some fucking FUN. I'D KICK YOU SQUARE IN THE NUTS IF YOU SAID THAT SHIT TO ME IN PERSON
its called depression.....stick with it and you will be ok....not to sound like an ass but maybe you are searching in all the wrong depts???? Do you need this wonderful super model type gal? love is on the inside not the out. dick length doesnt matter either it is how you use it.....another thing not many people have a lot of true friends, if you ask me true friends is family.....think this way you will be some one and accomplish great things in your new career move.working out might make you feel better about you, also may help get a chick.....you may have a chick lined up but do not know it yet. be patient and be kind to yourself and all will fall into place the way life does....life is one big mystery, hang tough and remember things will be on the up soon....may not look it now but in due time you will be suprised!et2001 said:
Angel said:
Thanks, Angel. I am quite embarrased to have to post something like this, but I had to let it out. The working out thing has always been my life. I am very obsessive and compulsive and I go to extreme with bodybuilding. I have had a perfect body at one time and yes, I attract women with it, but it doesn't help once I am in the relationship. The funny thing is that the woman usually cheat on me with guys I would least expect. Damn I wish I could get over this.
Goes to show, the body may be a good lure, but it won't help you land the catch.et2001 said:
Maybe you took the fitness thing too far. Being obsessed with one thing can be too much for a S.O.
Remember, "This too shall pass."
Work on getting your life back together& don't expect too much, too soon.
just out of curiosity do you treat these woman that cheat like gold while the other guys treat them like dog shit? Meaning do you attract woman that like to be treated like shit????? Some times woman actually enjoy it and when a man comes along who treats them well they do not know what to do so they end up cheating......I hope every thing works out for you and stay strong in your times of weakness all will be fineet2001 said:
mrdeeznuts
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et2001 said:
trying to make u feel better bro....
u just need to look past all the bad shit and go out and be yourself. stop worrying about all that other crap. if you do it just makes things worse. you just need to go on being yourself doing your thing and think of it as their lose not yours
I'm gonna try to be helpful too. Less than .3% of suicide "attempts" end in death. Psychologists now call them parasuicide because calling them a genuine attempt is a joke. And this guy's not even at that point. He's just venting temporary frustration and looking for some social solace. He does not actually want to die, like 99,999 out of 100,000 people who have suicidal thoughts.
I got a brand new box of kleenex sitting next to me, but I ain't opening it for this guy. Attractive man can't keep every girl he wants. So what? There are a lot of ugly people out there who can't get any of the girls they want. If someone wants to post about being a 28 year old virgin then maybe i'll think about popping open those tissues.
I got a brand new box of kleenex sitting next to me, but I ain't opening it for this guy. Attractive man can't keep every girl he wants. So what? There are a lot of ugly people out there who can't get any of the girls they want. If someone wants to post about being a 28 year old virgin then maybe i'll think about popping open those tissues.
I knew a guy once. A control freak. His G.F. kept breaking off with him & kept threatening suicide. Well, she broke off with him again, & he took a .22 LR & put a phone book in front of his stomach to minimize the impact. He shot himself, the bullet deformed & broke, & he died of gunshot wounds.
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Megalomaniac
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Call me, I'll start telling you about my life and you'll be feeling better in no time.
shoestring
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Get off this board and get into a church. No offense bro, but really ,I think you are looking for answers in the wrong place. And who gives a shit what some cum drunk slut wants?? A real woman will love you for who you are not what you do or don't have.. Remember this>> Failure is temporary, its giving up that makes it permanent. Get your hope back man.. Welcome to pm me if you need to talk. But if you are desperate get some professional help asap! I had my heart crushed by the same woman A few times. We are now married and have been so for 10 yrs.. And she would do anything for me and has been awsome to me for years. You just never know were life can lead my friend. Hang on, great things may be just around the corner. But you need hope and faith to get there..
daveyboy2345
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Make some positive changes in your life that you can build on and that which will raise your self esteem in the long haul, i.e.Take classs at a local community college, Workout to look and feel better, increase your B-vitamins to ward of depression, take a vacation, but new clothes, learn and play a new sport.
You may want to consider calling a call girl agncy periodically to have a feamle companion to talk to and get to know as well as for unattachd "relations" which can rebuild your confidence alot.
Post your profile on Y! personals and Cupid.com, alot of decent girl who are good looking are taking to the net to find a decent guy.
Change your routine and laugh more, join a group online or in person, become a big brother, volunteer, playing a part in someone less fortunite than yourself can change your life, make you feel wanted and worthwhile.
Hope this helps you think more level headed, I have been there 2.
You may want to consider calling a call girl agncy periodically to have a feamle companion to talk to and get to know as well as for unattachd "relations" which can rebuild your confidence alot.
Post your profile on Y! personals and Cupid.com, alot of decent girl who are good looking are taking to the net to find a decent guy.
Change your routine and laugh more, join a group online or in person, become a big brother, volunteer, playing a part in someone less fortunite than yourself can change your life, make you feel wanted and worthwhile.
Hope this helps you think more level headed, I have been there 2.
Ozz2001
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Well read this hole thing... 
This is a simple cry for help and attention! People that want to kill themselfs just do it..They do pussyfoot around on a fourm looking for attention.All i got to say is if you want someone to talk to you or be your friend you should of asked! If you wanted to really kill yourself you wouldn't be alive replying to posts! Safe it! 
I am not cold its just living in reality!
This is a simple cry for help and attention! People that want to kill themselfs just do it..They do pussyfoot around on a fourm looking for attention.All i got to say is if you want someone to talk to you or be your friend you should of asked! If you wanted to really kill yourself you wouldn't be alive replying to posts! Safe it! I am not cold its just living in reality!
Well, I can understand where this guy is coming from. BUt at the same time...you can't JUST quit in life. Back last February, within one week, my g/f broke up with me AND i lost my job. Tlak about your world coming to an end. Especailly since my life was devoted to both. To make matters worse, I ended up moving to the city where she lived to take on my new job. (We did the long distance thing) Anyways...it was a long year...and I definately felt like ending things...it's a quick easy solution when you're at the bottom...but I picked myself up and am doing well at work. Didn't get the girl back (I tried) but hey...life does funny things sometimes. Basically...don't let life get you down...get BACK! There's always another opportunity that'll present itself, if you allow it too. Keep you head up and quit being a pussy! Suck it up and move on in life...attitude is everything. Can't let it get you down...even a GIRL!
Good luck and peace...
Scooter
Good luck and peace...
Scooter
doyouyahoo
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Nobody has true friends; getting those is like winning the lottery; and I'm not kidding. Look at the bright side, start life over...even if you have to move to another country. It's not worth losing your life over. I know what you're going thru cause I experienced a lot worse than you.et2001 said:
