The people in the apartment above me...

[zwhit]

post nudes so we can assess

 

[just...v]

^i'd beat it up until my wife made me stop if she ever told me that. men are easily manipulated. just sayin

He isn't.

He's super smart and sees thru most woman tricks. I am honestly sitting here feeling like someone punched a hole in my chest.

 

[-SD-]

Nice Eunich life

 

[zwhit]

*eunuch

 

[just...v]

post nudes so we can assess

No but I'll put a clothed pic on my profile for a bit.

 

[zwhit]

No but I'll put a clothed pic on my profile for a bit.

make it skimpy

 

[just...v]

make it skimpy

Workout clothes? or the skirt?

 

[zwhit]

Workout clothes? or the skirt?

how short is the skirt?

 

[cindylou]

I'm not usually insecure about my looks (as you all know) but he isn't they type to give a lot of compliments. He has never said that I am pretty or beautiful. I figure I can live with that if he shows me he is attracted to me, but he never initiates it, he finds excuses not to, then sometimes he flat out turns me down. (like last night)

It's getting to the point that I don't feel like myself anymore.

That sucks, V. I'm sorry. I've been there and it feels horrible so I understand what you're saying. We tend to think that men always want to have sex, and when they turn us down, or never initiate, we take it personally and blame ourselves. We feel like freaks. We feel guilty for asking and wanting what we need. We feel rejected. Then self esteem can start to plummet. At least that's what happened to me. I would begin to go back over things I had said or done, what I had done, what was wrong with me...

Sex is important to me. I need to be touched by the person I'm with. I have to have it; I need it. It's not about getting off. It's about getting close.

 

[zwhit]

this thread is gaining momentum