On another note - talk about skewed perceptions. I had read a few times on elite that board members imagined my life to be like something from the show "Sex and The City". I'd never seen it until recently (yea, the Old Grump forced us to get TV) and I have to say that after forcing myself to watch several episodes (I found the show to be THAT DULL and totally *out there*) I don't get how ANYONE could draw any sort of paralell between anything that I posted when I was single and ANYTHING from that show. My husband finds the program to be equally boring.