I colored my hair a dark purple/brown last week with red violet tone on tone highlights. I love it.
I've been getting spa pedicures on a regular basis just to get to spend time with my little sister. She's really busy and it's hard to see her otherwise. I love her SO much.
Growing up I felt so a part of my dad's family (even though he's technically my step dad, my bio dad got killed in 83 and I got adopted in 88). I always wondered though if my cousins thought of me as being not a part of them on some level since I got brought into the mix around age 5.
I fretted about it until I was 21. Then I finally asked a few of them (there are 23 of us). Half of them didn't even know/remember that I wasn't always there. The rest didn't care.