In my case is I guess a click with personality. I am very conservative when it comes to country, nation, patriotism, but some people say that I have double personality. I can talk with you about any historical issue, politics, science, but at the same time I am a crazy ass motherfucker in my personal life. I usually play with words with them; get a connection really fast in the bar, so by the time I get a lap dance we are making out, she is wet as the Niagara and start touching her pussy; if that bar has private lap dance couches I usually ask them "hey babe you wanna see my cock?" they will never say no. Then if we are back to the bar I use phrases like "I'd love to fuck you bitch"; she will either just smile, or most of the time they will say "I'd love to fuck you too"; after that I ask her for the phone number and the rest is history....
but to a regular chick you definitely cannot talk like that. And I HATE trying to play around with conservative religious girls.