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Some girl thanked me today for hitting on her

Lao Tzu

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That was totally unexpected. I saw a woman and talked to her for about a minute and a half. I asked her major, her previous majors, why she chose them, if she had a job lined up, etc. Basically stuff to show I was interested in her choices with education. While we were talking she was smiling and would look at me then look at the ground, which is a good sign. After talking I asked if she wanted to go for coffee sometime and she said 'i can't im kinda seeing someone right now' then she said something akin to 'but thanks alot for asking' and she said it a couple of times. I said 'thats what i'm here for'.

Anyway, that was a really good experience. Even though there are bratty supercilious women on earth there are also respectable women who are considerate. I love it when women want to be appraoched. I'm still recovering from my mentality that women are going to be defensive, not open to strangers & supercilious and events like this really help open my eyes.

On another note when i do run across haughty women what should i use to cut them down so they won't treat other men taht way? I figure a mean insult won't work i need something that is more like what a father would say. Something like 'in 20 years all you'll have to go on is personality so you'd better start working on that'. Something to make her think that she should treat people nicer, i'd prefer that over an insult. Any ideas? I don't want to just duck and run if a woman is a brat, i want her to pay and to not treat others that way.
 
maybe I'm a negative thinker, but it seems like honey was uncomfortable and used some sorry lines (having bf, ussually a lie) to get out of the situation...
 
That happens alot. Don't let it surprise you. Alot of women are flattered if a guy asks them out even if they are seeing someone. It lets them know that they are still desirable. Most people enjoy a compliment.

As far as the girls who are bitches...don't worry about it. If you are a asshole back, they will just ride you off an another asshole, and it won't make any difference to them. Just blow them off and move on.
 
Gambino said:
maybe I'm a negative thinker, but it seems like honey was uncomfortable and used some sorry lines (having bf, ussually a lie) to get out of the situation...

Nah i doubt that. Her body language didn't give that impression.
 
BodyByFinaplix said:
As far as the girls who are bitches...don't worry about it. If you are a asshole back, they will just ride you off an another asshole, and it won't make any difference to them. Just blow them off and move on.

Exactly. Just walk away from the ones that are bitches, don't even waste your time talking to them. There are plenty of girls who can appreciate that men find them attractive.
 
Good job dude. Don't be surprised if you get the "i'm seeing someone" line quite a bit. I live in a small college town and a lot of the good looking cool girls are in relationships. It's somewhat of a tough nut to crack.

Anyways, keep plugging away. :)
 
Gambino said:
maybe I'm a negative thinker, but it seems like honey was uncomfortable and used some sorry lines (having bf, ussually a lie) to get out of the situation...



Not always.

When I'm invloved with someone and someone else asks me out I appreciate it and make sure they realize it (unless they scare me and I just want to run from them..) but we part ways.

It's nice to desired but at the same time you can't forget about the other person n the other side that may not get what they want but it doesn't have to feel like rejection.
 
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