Lao Tzu
New member
That was totally unexpected. I saw a woman and talked to her for about a minute and a half. I asked her major, her previous majors, why she chose them, if she had a job lined up, etc. Basically stuff to show I was interested in her choices with education. While we were talking she was smiling and would look at me then look at the ground, which is a good sign. After talking I asked if she wanted to go for coffee sometime and she said 'i can't im kinda seeing someone right now' then she said something akin to 'but thanks alot for asking' and she said it a couple of times. I said 'thats what i'm here for'.
Anyway, that was a really good experience. Even though there are bratty supercilious women on earth there are also respectable women who are considerate. I love it when women want to be appraoched. I'm still recovering from my mentality that women are going to be defensive, not open to strangers & supercilious and events like this really help open my eyes.
On another note when i do run across haughty women what should i use to cut them down so they won't treat other men taht way? I figure a mean insult won't work i need something that is more like what a father would say. Something like 'in 20 years all you'll have to go on is personality so you'd better start working on that'. Something to make her think that she should treat people nicer, i'd prefer that over an insult. Any ideas? I don't want to just duck and run if a woman is a brat, i want her to pay and to not treat others that way.
Anyway, that was a really good experience. Even though there are bratty supercilious women on earth there are also respectable women who are considerate. I love it when women want to be appraoched. I'm still recovering from my mentality that women are going to be defensive, not open to strangers & supercilious and events like this really help open my eyes.
On another note when i do run across haughty women what should i use to cut them down so they won't treat other men taht way? I figure a mean insult won't work i need something that is more like what a father would say. Something like 'in 20 years all you'll have to go on is personality so you'd better start working on that'. Something to make her think that she should treat people nicer, i'd prefer that over an insult. Any ideas? I don't want to just duck and run if a woman is a brat, i want her to pay and to not treat others that way.