Some coworker said there was a "gay" gene

[nangiggles]

Not to criticize, but do think the phrase "defect" is a tad harsh. My stepdaughter has a form of autism (Aspergers). I like how they refer to "regular" people as "neurotypical." Neurodiversity, is a good way to think of how different people may process information.

My stepdaughter is not brain damaged, she just has a different way of viewing the world and she cannot be MADE to view the world, or process the information that she receives, the way I do. It's a different way than the majority of the population processes information, but it does not invalidate it, and in some ways she is more adept than a "normal" person.

Y'know one observation I made about being gay? Cultural considerations aside, in a lot of ways, it's easier than being straight. Men understand the male mind, women understand the female mind. Think of it this way, you got a man and a woman in a long term relationship. He's tired and a little horny, she's reading a magazine and watching t.v. All he wants to do is fuck and go to sleep, seriously. He doesn't want to hear the bullshit about her day at work, the crap with her parents and their kids. He just wants a little natural endorphin boost and to go to sleep with a pleasant mind set. But can he say "Hey, honey, let's go fuck." NO. She'll turn it into so shit where he thinks of her as an object and doesn't care about her feelings and she's having a fat day and blah, blah, blah ...

Now, you got two GUYS in a long term relationship. SAME fucking scenario, one major difference. One guy says to another guy "Wanna fuck?" The other guy either says "Sure" or "Nope" and that's the end of it. No stress, no need to go through some dance, no need to read into it, no need to stress about why he said no or yes or what else he wants ...

You see what I'm saying?

As for the whole "cock up your ass" thing. Again, you're making WAY too much out of it, and in the right frame of mind, it can be, if not enjoyable, at least stimulating (for both men and women). Every inch of our skin has nerve endings, how you choose to perceive those sensations, whether you choose to take advantage of that avenue of experience and possible pleasure, is your prerogative. Frankly, anything that happens between consenting adults, as long as everyone is happy, is nobody elses business.

Life's too short to turn your back on happiness. How anyone can say love between consenting adults, poly, bi, homo, hetero, etc., etc., etc., is wrong? Who are they to judge? Whatever persuasion makes you happy, live in joy and goddess bless and to hell with anyone who says otherwise.

You forgot to mention that if they are the same build/body type and height then BAM instant wardrobe duplication!!!!

 

[musclemom]

You forgot to mention that if they are the same build/body type and height then BAM instant wardrobe duplication!!!!

Seriously.

I've had this exact conversation with a bunch of people and there isn't a one of them who can argue the fact that having a relationship with a person of the same gender, from a psychological perspective, is probably a lot easier.

As for the religious perspective, this is one of the things that really bugs me about Christians. They're mixing up old and new testaments again. Jews told their people that a man laying with a man was an abomination (there is no mention of female homosexuality, BTW). Homosexuality was common and acceptable in ancient Greece and Rome, the Jews weren't about to encourage their people to do something the Greeks and Romans did.

 

[Strongbow]

God hates queers, and I am pretty sure he ain't real happy with musclemom. But you know I love you MM, I still would like to take you on a date. Ya know some drinks and slow dancing and shit, nothing to out of the way.

 

[miplank]

(there is no mention of female homosexuality, BTW)

That's cuz there is nothing wrong with a couple of big titted blondes eatin' each other out.

 

[musclemom]

God hates queers, and I am pretty sure he ain't real happy with musclemom. But you know I love you MM, I still would like to take you on a date. Ya know some drinks and slow dancing and shit, nothing to out of the way.

I am so looking forward to being dead so me, my queer and pagan friends, and I can get all up in the faces of the Christians and go "HA! Dumbass!"

It's gonna be sweet!

 

[miplank]

I am so looking forward to being dead so me, my queer and pagan friends, and I can get all up in the faces of the Christians and go "HA! Dumbass!"

It's gonna be sweet!

can we get a timeline on that?

 

[AFeedz]

He said to them, "Are you so ignorant? Don't you know that nothing that goes into a person from the outside can make him unclean?
- Jesus (Mark 7:18)

Lol. Just sayin.

 

[miplank]

He said to them, "Are you so ignorant? Don't you know that nothing that goes into a person from the outside can make him unclean?
- Jesus (Mark 7:18)

Lol. Just sayin.

lol@only quoting part of the scripture.

 

[AFeedz]

lol@only quoting part of the scripture.

My bad. I thought that's how Christianity worked by picking and choosing what you wanted to believe out of the Bible. Like a spiritual buffet of sorts. No?

 

[miplank]

My bad. I thought Cheistianit worked by picking and choosing what you wanted to believe out of the Bible. Like a spiritual buffet of sorts. No?

but nice try