Some coworker said there was a "gay" gene

[AFeedz]

Lol I fixed it. Shutup.

 

[nangiggles]

lmao @ spiritual buffet xD
Bible quote mix and match....

 

[lartinos]

Not to criticize, but do think the phrase "defect" is a tad harsh. My stepdaughter has a form of autism (Aspergers). I like how they refer to "regular" people as "neurotypical." Neurodiversity, is a good way to think of how different people may process information.

My stepdaughter is not brain damaged, she just has a different way of viewing the world and she cannot be MADE to view the world, or process the information that she receives, the way I do. It's a different way than the majority of the population processes information, but it does not invalidate it, and in some ways she is more adept than a "normal" person.

Y'know one observation I made about being gay? Cultural considerations aside, in a lot of ways, it's easier than being straight. Men understand the male mind, women understand the female mind. Think of it this way, you got a man and a woman in a long term relationship. He's tired and a little horny, she's reading a magazine and watching t.v. All he wants to do is fuck and go to sleep, seriously. He doesn't want to hear the bullshit about her day at work, the crap with her parents and their kids. He just wants a little natural endorphin boost and to go to sleep with a pleasant mind set. But can he say "Hey, honey, let's go fuck." NO. She'll turn it into so shit where he thinks of her as an object and doesn't care about her feelings and she's having a fat day and blah, blah, blah ...

Now, you got two GUYS in a long term relationship. SAME fucking scenario, one major difference. One guy says to another guy "Wanna fuck?" The other guy either says "Sure" or "Nope" and that's the end of it. No stress, no need to go through some dance, no need to read into it, no need to stress about why he said no or yes or what else he wants ...

You see what I'm saying?

As for the whole "cock up your ass" thing. Again, you're making WAY too much out of it, and in the right frame of mind, it can be, if not enjoyable, at least stimulating (for both men and women). Every inch of our skin has nerve endings, how you choose to perceive those sensations, whether you choose to take advantage of that avenue of experience and possible pleasure, is your prerogative. Frankly, anything that happens between consenting adults, as long as everyone is happy, is nobody elses business.

Life's too short to turn your back on happiness. How anyone can say love between consenting adults, poly, bi, homo, hetero, etc., etc., etc., is wrong? Who are they to judge? Whatever persuasion makes you happy, live in joy and goddess bless and to hell with anyone who says otherwise.

Ya, I hear ya MM. I used the word sort of on purpose, but I still see it my way. It is just personal preference. I will call someone a cripple even if it is myself and not "physically challenged" as I was taught in grammar school. I do agree that people who are different can have extraordinary abilities.
I am a normal guy, but at the same time I am kind of out there. Being different has helped me think in a different way than other people.

 

[cindylou]

He said to them, "Are you so ignorant? Don't you know that nothing that goes into a person from the outside can make him unclean?
- Jesus (Mark 7:18)

Lol. Just sayin.

lol I love that scripture. Catching up the fakers who memorize the law and can't get the big picture and don't realize it's the heart that matters. The big picture is love..agape style for each other and for God..letting go of self.

 

[musclemom]

can we get a timeline on that?

Actually, I'll be shocked as hell if I make it into my 70s, pragmatically I've got about 24 years left, give or take.

My father died at 62, and he had outlived everyone in his family by well more than a decade. My mother checked out at 67, she was in fantastic health then BLAM, cerebral aneurysm. Most of her brothers and sisters seem to be hitting the clock in their early to mid 70s.

Put it this way, I have term life insurance.

 

[miplank]

lol I love that scripture. Catching up the fakers who memorize the law and can't get the big picture and don't realize it's the heart that matters. The big picture is love..agape style for each other and for God..letting go of self.

it does talk about sexual immorality

 

[cindylou]

it does talk about sexual immorality

But it is not the act of sexual morality per se. The big picture is loving God enough to obey even when it does not make sense and even when it isn't what you want. My life falls apart when I forget that. If I loved Him more than I loved myself I'd be happier. If I was able to love someone else like God intended me and asks me too I wouldn't worry so much about what other people can do for me and make me happy. But it's nearly impossible to empty yourself of yourself all the time and KEEP yourself that way without constant Help. Nothing that I can eat or drink or do with my body is sinful...material things are not sinful.. they are things and that includes my body..its the heart ..and the self is the sin. That's the core of sin. That's the understanding Jesus was talking about.

 

[iggy]

I doubt there's a gene glad. I think it's environmental factors, hormones, brain chemistry, and childhood.
In the group I hung out with when I was 10-14, one of our buddies apparently got raped as a kid. He actually withdrew from the group, and we never really talked to him (never knew that happened to him until about 3-4 years ago). Then I found out he's gay now.

It makes me wonder if the bastard that raped him could and did actually change his sexuality.

 

[jiggagold]

he got accustomed to a thick throbbing veiny meat stick buried deep in his ass

 

[Strongbow]

I am so looking forward to being dead so me, my queer and pagan friends, and I can get all up in the faces of the Christians and go "HA! Dumbass!"

It's gonna be sweet!

So is this your way of saying yes to my date request?