So my wife is almost 20 weeks preggos and things seem to be going south

[musclemom]

Oh, Ortiz, I'm sorry for you both.

Something to think about, considering your wife is taking this hard and how far along she was, perhaps a memorial service of some sort might help her (you both), even if it's just a few friends getting together or something with family. We brush off grief in this culture, it's a very real, very visceral thing. You need to mourn lost dreams as much as lost life and you need to give yourself time to heal.

 

[ortiz34]

Oh, Ortiz, I'm sorry for you both.

Something to think about, considering your wife is taking this hard and how far along she was, perhaps a memorial service of some sort might help her (you both), even if it's just a few friends getting together or something with family. We brush off grief in this culture, it's a very real, very visceral thing. You need to mourn lost dreams as much as lost life and you need to give yourself time to heal.

Thanks

I wondered about something of this nature. Of course it's all what she's more comfortable with doing.

 

[Captain FT]

Things got worse, she miscarried at 22 weeks. Found out Tues, but been to busy/mad/sad to talk about it. Nature just ran it's own course I guess. Better luck next time.
Thanks for all the good vibes peeps.

I think my wife is gonna have a breakdown, she had to leave work after a few hours yesterday and I woke up to her balling at 5am, I just held her and told her to breathe and I loved her and she went back to sleep in a good 15 minutes

Gotta stay strong and keep plugging along

lot's of love guys

Very sorry to hear that man, my thoughts are with you and your family.

I suppose if there is a bright side to any of this it is that you both didn't have to make a choice and be left wondering if it was the right choice to make.

Be thankful for the beautiful little girl and lovely wife you already have and stay strong.

 

[cindylou]

I am so sorry Ortiz. I am so sad for you both. 22 weeks. God. I am so sorry.

 

[redshirt27se]

oh damn.. so sorry to here that ortiz.



thoughts and prayers sent your way.

 

[musclemom]

Thanks

I wondered about something of this nature. Of course it's all what she's more comfortable with doing.

PM on it's way.

 

[jnevin]

I'm really sorry man.

 

[mrplunkey]

I'm terribly sorry to hear about that.

I wish you and your wife the best going forward.

 

[lander2312]

Hey man I dont even know you...seen a few posts from you but after reading this a tear was shed for you and your wife. I have been in that not knowing/confusion at the docs office. The recommendation of termination....I just want to say that you are in my thoughts and prayers. In a time like this I will just say that God will never give you more than you can handle. Focus your love and attention on the little girl you have and know and believe your other special little girl is in heaven running...playing....laughing...and waiting for you.

 

[Cutiebaby]

Things got worse, she miscarried at 22 weeks. Found out Tues, but been to busy/mad/sad to talk about it. Nature just ran it's own course I guess. Better luck next time.
Thanks for all the good vibes peeps.

I think my wife is gonna have a breakdown, she had to leave work after a few hours yesterday and I woke up to her balling at 5am, I just held her and told her to breathe and I loved her and she went back to sleep in a good 15 minutes

Gotta stay strong and keep plugging along

lot's of love guys

Ortiz I am so sorry to hear this. Your wife must have been attached and excited especially when things seemed to look upward. I will keep you both in my thoughts and prayers...Please take good care of her, and keep in mind that a mother bonds with their fetus so I am sure she is an emotional mess right now.

Stay strong Ortiz!