nycgirl said:Question: What's up with all the rules?
Do it for the sake of just doing (don't look for anything in return) it. Take care of him during other times of the day (e.g., halftime during a game, as soon as walks through the door) and you don't have to worry about him complaining later on.
Same goes for taking care of her (She may look elsewhere to have it taken care of. A BOB can only do so much).
Just my .02
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