Sexually active now, and have some questions

[Wulfgar]

Sassy...your next after her...

 

[PBR]

LOL @ Wulfgar - always ready to lend a helping ... appendage...

Waka - its really just part of getting to know the guy & yourself --everyone is so different. Esp women develop a complex when they start having sex becaues you don't really know what is "expected", what is "normal", etc. Most of it is just "what happens" - whatever happens shouldn't be taken as anyone's fault. Sometimes stuff just doesn't work how you expect and no one is the same. I guess the point is to talk to the guy - don't feel embarrassed -- hell, you're letting him in on a pretty intimate part of your life & he, you. You'd also be surprised at how "matter of fact" the discussions can become when you just bring it up instead of being scared of it, or feeling stupid or whatever. At least that's what I've come to discover -- I was so uncomfortable talking about that stuff for yrs -- finally I was just like, whatever. Its sex. If I want to understand why the guy does this or that, or what feels good, or what's normal or whatever w/o me or him feeling like I'm implying there's somethign wrong - I just ask. That also seems to remove so much of that level of shyness as well - pretty much its all hanging out & sex is more fun. If its not fun, I dont' think I really want to share it w/ that person then.

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