Sex too late in relationship

[Testo]

Just need some advice on the woman i am dating, weve been out a handfull of times to movies clubs etc and the problem is (if it is a problem) were not having sex yet.

Most of the time it has not been convenient, getting up for work, parents at home etc but i fear the longer we wait the more we will get hung up about this and it will just end in emotional pain.

Im not in this just for the sex, i do want a long term girlfriend

any suggestions?

 

[Night Fly]

Suggestions? Seriously...if everything else is going good...why rush it? There is no law that says you have to have sex with someone after going out with them for X amount of time.

Are you both sexually attracted to one another? Have you all messed around and then she said she wanted to stop? Is it just that there is no interest on her part about the sexual aspect of the relationship?

Why are you so 'hung' up about it. If it happens...it happens. Sometimes the most perfect moments happen at not so perfect times. You have to make what you can out of the situation.

Talk to her about it....and she how she feels about the having sex. There is nothing wrong with a little communication!

 

[Ceebs]

any suggestions?

Yeah, don't ask us, talk it over with your lady friend.

Bad timing is one of the better reasons I can think of for not having sex yet - you're still attracted to one another, could be worse. Have you considered that all of this anticipation might just be in your head, and she respects you for the speed at which you're taking things?

 

[Canuck4]

Yes, tell her if she dont put out you'll get a hooker instead.

 

[prophet]

drug her and then fuck her....any questions

 

[FarBeyondDriven]

Yes, tell her if she dont put out you'll get a hooker instead.

Or make a date of take out Chinese to a seedy hotel, be sure to get a bottle of PGA also.

 

[68GT350]

I've dated a girl for 2 months and we still haven't had sex yet. She's a virgin but still. We talked about it and it's no big deal...the moment hasn't been right. When it is, we'll both know. Till then, I just love spending time with her.

If she's worth it, you'll wait.

 

[68GT350]

....Or just slip it in when she isn't paying attention....

 

[Testo]

he he yeah, i suppose the reason i am hung up up bout it is because ive been reading all the stuff over at fastseduction.com and they basically think that if you shouldnt date girls your currently not having sex with, or the relationship will not last

 

[FarBeyondDriven]

he he yeah, i suppose the reason i am hung up up bout it is because ive been reading all the stuff over at fastseduction.com and they basically think that if you shouldnt date girls your currently not having sex with, or the relationship will not last

I don't believe that. Date her and see what plays out. She might be the one you want to keep around. Most girls I have ran off to bed with right away I didn't keep around very long afterwards.